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Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/20/2005 11:42:07 PM   
Jacen


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I need some ideas of what to do with a girl with a good deal of gymnastics and flexibility training... I'm sure theres all sorts of fun and wicked things I can do to use that to my advantage, but I am not sure just what at the moment :)
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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/20/2005 11:46:24 PM   
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For god's sakes, find a teacher and learn Shibari!

p.s. 102 posts! I've gone from "kinky" to "indecent"! ...actually, I feel like I've been downgraded somehow. Like I was decently depraved before, but now I'm just an otaku... *mopes in the corner*

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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/20/2005 11:53:21 PM   
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quote:

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p.s. 102 posts! I've gone from "kinky" to "indecent"! ...actually, I feel like I've been downgraded somehow. Like I was decently depraved before, but now I'm just an otaku... *mopes in the corner*
Do you really want to be just kinky or decent? It's so much more interesting when you can choose when depravity will take over, since everyone who knows you will already come prepared for "que sera sera." I think depraved allows more leeway than say *just kinky*; she may think you spank a little and call yourself kinky. M

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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/20/2005 11:59:26 PM   
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I don't mind "twisted", and things will really start to perk up when "deviant" rolls around, I can get into that. But "indecent" sounds like I'm half-dressed with a wet towel around my neck - or lurking in the shadows with a Hustler and a tube sock. Less kinky, more embarassing. }:D

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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/21/2005 12:10:08 AM   
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I don't mind "twisted", and things will really start to perk up when "deviant" rolls around, I can get into that. But "indecent" sounds like I'm half-dressed with a wet towel around my neck - or lurking in the shadows with a Hustler and a tube sock.
Thanks for that visual, I really hadn't gotten around to thinking about.
Keep posting, you'll be an acknowledged deviant in no time (since it's clear you're already there). M

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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/21/2005 12:56:48 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jacen

I need some ideas of what to do with a girl with a good deal of gymnastics and flexibility training... I'm sure theres all sorts of fun and wicked things I can do to use that to my advantage, but I am not sure just what at the moment :)


Start looking at positions you can restrain her in which will require her level of flexability. If you'r new to this I'd advise a mentor to watch to make sure that safety was being maintained. You will need to watch her circulation and general well being. For possitions you could check the book Karma Sutra for some interesting possitions. In my younger days, I use it for sex possitions and found it invaluable. BTW before doing anything, make sure she does a warming up session to avoid muscle cramps and fatigue.


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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/21/2005 2:53:01 AM   
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Offer her pole dancing lessons; she'll learn to move her back and other body parts much more. In some cities, dance instruction schools offer pole dancing lessons, and You might also use a search engine on Your city's classifieds to try to find someone teaching pole dancing at home.

Failing that, offer her belly dancing lessons. She will at least become more graceful and limber. Ballet would have some of he same effects, especially on her legs.

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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/21/2005 2:56:34 AM   
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Shibari is fun and the basic knots aren't that hard to learn. I'm not extremely flexible, but I'm bendy enough to make a good rope dummy for our resident rope kinkster. Then again, I also wanted to be a magician at one point and consider myself to be an amateur escape artist. Tie me up and watch me try to get free. *WEG*

Edit: I'm perverted and I'll probably get my paddle in a day or so, depending on how much posting/rambling I do.

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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/21/2005 6:59:30 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Veav
p.s. 102 posts! I've gone from "kinky" to "indecent"! ...actually, I feel like I've been downgraded somehow. Like I was decently depraved before, but now I'm just an otaku... *mopes in the corner*


quote:

Do you really want to be just kinky or decent? It's so much more interesting when you can choose when depravity will take over, since everyone who knows you will already come prepared for "que sera sera." I think depraved allows more leeway than say *just kinky*; she may think you spank a little and call yourself kinky. M

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BTF..what do You mean by "choosing when depravity will take over"? Sounds as if You mean the Master or Dom loses control of Himself.
And what do You mean by "que sera, sera"... "what will be, will be"?


My sympathises Veav...poor guy...downgraded to "indecent". i agree with You about the ranking. BTW..what is an "otaku"?

i am "deviant" with 368 posts and have 3 sets of handcuffs.

i have a question. What does one do with THREE? One for the wrists; and one for the ankles; what do You do with the THIRD? ROFL.

i know only one more set of handcuffs (and what do You do with the FOURTH??) stands between me and the ugly paddles; *sigh*. i wish the site would find something nicer. For submissive men and women and slaves, maybe a collar? Or some slave jewelry? i'm sure there are lots better ideas out there for our icons; maybe someone will persuade the Mods to change from paddles.

Whew..checked the rankings and if my math is right, i have another 629 posts before i get a paddle, and lose my handcuffs. LMAO

<fussy, fussy, fussy, LOL>

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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/21/2005 7:00:44 AM   
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Have you considered suspension bondage? It will take some definite learning on your part, so consider looking up a mentor. It can be rewarding, though.

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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/21/2005 7:17:25 AM   
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quote:

Edit: I'm perverted and I'll probably get my paddle in a day or so, depending on how much posting/rambling I do.

CalliopePurple


Poor woman....losing all her handcuffs, in exchange for a paddle? Nevermind that i think the paddle is ugly; i would love to be restrained, but am not anxious to be struck with any paddle.

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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/21/2005 7:51:14 AM   
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I'm fairly neutral about rope, it really dosen't do too much for me one way or the other. However, suspension does sound fun

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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/21/2005 8:01:55 AM   
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quote:

I'm fairly neutral about rope, it really dosen't do too much for me one way or the other. However, suspension does sound fun


Jacen, if you haven't already please google Shibari and look at the sites and the pictures of some of the rope work. It takes ordinary rope bondage into a pure art form. With suspension you do need to have some instruction as there is a real danger of damaging joints permanantly if it is not done safely.



On another track, I wonder how many out there either are or have a sub/slave who is an experienced martial artist. The flexability should be about the same and should give similar opportunities for interesting forms of bondage or similar play.


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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/21/2005 8:04:21 AM   
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Pink, give it a rest already. You should be happy that the old paddle image was replaced with something that no longer looks like a processed meat product or a pink balloon.

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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/21/2005 8:11:40 AM   
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Pink, give it a rest already. You should be happy that the old paddle image was replaced with something that no longer looks like a processed meat product or a pink balloon.

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Terribly sorry; did not know.

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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/21/2005 8:16:14 AM   
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Pink, give it a rest already. You should be happy that the old paddle image was replaced with something that no longer looks like a processed meat product or a pink balloon


Hey "11" since you address important avatar/label issues. We're measuring our posts now that we've reached the "evil" level. "Evil-Merc" wants to keep that status! Keeping in the tone of the thread....are you "flexible" with that?

PS - From my days studying latin - eleven is "XI". However in the Arabic and Hebrew style of text (right to left) you would be correct.

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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/21/2005 8:25:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: pinkpleasures
BTW..what is an "otaku"?

In geek circles, it's generally a person who obsesses over anime - to the point of collecting every imaginable product, DVDs and manga and keychains and signed cels, memorizing every line, devoting themselves entirely and in an unhealthy manner to the cause. In a purer form, the label can be applied to any fanatic ("hentai otaku" is used frequently to refer to an absolute pervert, for instance). It's usually an insulting term.

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i have a question. What does one do with THREE? One for the wrists; and one for the ankles; what do You do with the THIRD? ROFL. know only one more set of handcuffs (and what do You do with the FOURTH??) stands between me and the ugly paddles...

Poor, poor pinkpleasures... whoever said wrists had to be cuffed to eachother? They're called "bedposts"... }:D

We now return you to your scheduled OP, already in progress. Like I said in the beginning, for flexibility, Shibari comes immediately to mind - hogties, suspension. Pole dancing is something I hadn't thought of, thanks, pink. You could probably also get creative with some attachment frames with pivoting arms... though when it all comes down to it, most of what you're doing in the end is going to be the same things you'd do with any other sub. Or, more aptly, you'll be dominating things that have nothing to do with raw physical agility.

(Hey, Mod10, can I get a speshul name of Thread Pirate Roberts?)

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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/21/2005 8:37:15 AM   
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Hey "11" since you address important avatar/label issues. We're measuring our posts now that we've reached the "evil" level. "Evil-Merc" wants to keep that status! Keeping in the tone of the thread....are you "flexible" with that?

Those decisions rest solely within the realm Mod One's caprice. Make proper obeisance to her and you might recieve your boon. Cash works too

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PS - From my days studying latin - eleven is "XI". However in the Arabic and Hebrew style of text (right to left) you would be correct.

Alas, this is true. It's one of the hazards of typing too fast and not performing a forensic analysis of the post before clicking 'OK'

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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/21/2005 10:16:59 AM   
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Do you really want to be just kinky or decent? It's so much more interesting when you can choose when depravity will take over, since everyone who knows you will already come prepared for "que sera sera." I think depraved allows more leeway than say *just kinky*; she may think you spank a little and call yourself kinky. M
BlkTallFullfig


BTF..what do You mean by "choosing when depravity will take over"? Sounds as if You mean the Master or Dom loses control of Himself.
And what do You mean by "que sera, sera"... "what will be, will be"?

pinkpleasures
I mean that once Veav is deemed indecent, whoever is in his presence can expect whatever comes... So he can choose when he will be decent and when he will behave in a depraved (I mean within RACK) manner with his lady, and she wouldn't be surprised.
If I'm in a room with someone who's been deemed indecent, I'm pretty much open to what will be (except in my case, it means he's pretty much consenting to whatever I come up with) M


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RE: Flexible and gymnastic training - 8/21/2005 11:06:54 AM   
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I need some ideas of what to do with a girl with a good deal of gymnastics and flexibility training

Send her to me

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