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RE: what makes you - 8/21/2005 8:54:32 PM

KarbonCopy

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Well to be honest, I've never really angered Mistress that bad just *shrugs* irritated, I like teasing her.

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RE: what makes you - 8/21/2005 9:18:25 PM

nenakajira

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Really want to piss of your Master? In other words, what makes you angry and revenge sets in?

Not like you all are like that, but, curuous Doms want to know?

Hrmm.. errmmm.... I think my sense of self preservation would kick in way before that point. Not to say that I haven't gotten angry on occasion but even when I'm angry I know better than to set him off. I have no desire to be sold or released and he is capable of either if I step too far outside of my place. Granted, I've had the occasional dream about smothering him with a pillow when the snoring gets too bad but... *grins* I think most girls dream of that at some point or another.
When I get angry I sit down at his feet and tell him exactly why I'm angry and we work it out from there. Sometimes he admits I have cause and we discuss it. Sometimes he tells me to get over it and fetch him a coffee. Such is the life of a slave, eh? :)

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RE: what makes you - 8/22/2005 6:19:33 AM

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What makes me angry and pissed off at my Sir? When he's being a sodding wanker of course! bdsm is no different to vanilla.
How we deal with that anger is the difference. Couples disagree from time to time. The trick is- to be able to understand why im angry, and put that in palatable bite sized chunks for the Dom. Havent quite got the hang of this yet myself, but im learning. Anger, joy, fear, excitement, they are all normal emotions felt by ALL of us, Revenge is not normal. Revenge is when you have been unable to deal with issues and they fester.

For us, if things get heated, we sort of call time out, using a safe word if necessary, then can talk the problem through. But like all vanilla couples, its usually a combination of life stress/tiredness etc that cause bad sub or bad Dom behaviour. Communication gets us through it.

Sometimes im a bitch, being a submissive does not change that. Sometimes he's a prick, being a Dom dont change that either!

The level of communication that we require to practice D/s well, stands us in good shape for talking our difficulties through.

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RE: what makes you - 8/22/2005 6:28:28 AM

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Sometimes it's all a matter of perspective too. If I saw my Master or anyone walking into the path of a real or metaphorical bus, I'd yell at them and maybe even shove them. It might come across as pretty harsh (and I might be angry at them for making me so frightened), but it's not disrespect.

I think submissives have a role to play in protecting their dominants too, but then that's another thread.

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RE: what makes you - 8/22/2005 6:35:45 AM

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Usually when something i see, or miss read and i feel "hurt" Being not able to communicate well (working on it) i tend to go through a tirant of things. Making him angry is not something i want to make him. It is usually not wanting to "make" him feel anything. My response to hurt i have carried for awhile is either A) rebel like a hellion.. as in go cuss some where, or not wanting to do the things i am supposed to do or break some rules. B) when it adds up over months or i get alot of stress i have this bad habit (bad being other ppl's perspective) of liking to take it out on myself.

So really, i just get self destructive.

Aye, i dont think i have gone out of my way to intentionally piss him off. Usually i think when/if i take some sort of action, he ends up leaving my mind set.

Being angry at him though, i usually just shut down on him, find my own little world to go play in for awhile and it usually goes away

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RE: what makes you - 8/22/2005 12:26:28 PM

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Hmmm...if he were ever to try to control me outside of play, that would start a definite fire of vengence.

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