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RE: Periods - 8/22/2005 12:10:04 PM   
ChainedAngel


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Status: offline 		You should give this product a try; it's called Instead, it fits over the cervix like a diaphragm, and it can be worn for up to 12 hours with no health issues, although it is not recommended for women with heavy flow. You can also have sex on it and use insertable toys, as long as you don't slam into her cervix and dislodge the cup.

http://www.softcup.com/

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RE: Periods - 8/22/2005 12:16:56 PM   
NakedOnMyChain


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Status: offline 		I know that I'd like a week off during my courses. It's usually a really trying time for me anyway, but it depends on the woman. Mine tend to be very intense, but others less so. Tampons can work, but a lot of women's flows are much heavier than that. It's something you'll have to discuss with each individual woman. We're all different.

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RE: Periods - 8/22/2005 1:37:20 PM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		I don't get that time off. I still have duties such as working, cooking and cleaning. Typically, he'll try to be more gentle with me. Won't play or have sex with me. We've found that I'm super sensitive, pain wise, during that time.

The tampon is the least of my worries. I get the most ferocious back ache that leaves me sitting on a heating pad for 3 days. It makes just functioning at a basic level difficult and exhausting.

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RE: Periods - 8/22/2005 2:21:16 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		oh god yes it did, and how about that sudden shitty feeling starting can bring. one day in class I felt really gross and awfull and just YUCK, was no suprise why:P

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RE: Periods - 8/22/2005 2:21:44 PM   
PAVANE


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Status: offline 		would like to say to everyone so far. thankyou for the very useful advice.

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RE: Periods - 8/22/2005 4:40:11 PM   
sultryvoice


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mossy

Pick an older slave who isn't menstrating all that much anymore because she entering menapause.....besides she is often warm (hot flashes) and welcomes no clothing.



I agree with this also..or one that has had a hysterectomy..that solves the problem..there isn't one! I love it!

Even with that said, if you find one that does have her period, then by all means be more compassionate and understanding at that time. It will go farther for you in the long run...

Respectfully,
sultry

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RE: Periods - 8/22/2005 5:14:59 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		well i never really liked tampons but my late Master wanted me to use them but , ther is only one thing i like inside me(i think yu know what i mean) so when my Master passed away i went back to pads i was always mor comfortale eith them.

littleone

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RE: Periods - 8/22/2005 6:16:36 PM   
ProtagonistLily


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quote:

i should say that my slaves always serve nude.


That must make going to the grocer and picking up the dry cleaning a bit peculiar....

Lily

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RE: Periods - 8/22/2005 6:51:05 PM   
dominmd


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Status: offline 		I was just waiting for somebody to say something to that effect.


As a guy, In all honesty, you might just wanna consider her needs and wants during the time of her visitor.

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RE: Periods - 8/22/2005 7:17:30 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Not to throw a malatov here...but doesn't this feed into the sexist ideas that women shouldn't be in positions of extreme stress and power (for example, the presidency of the USA) because of things like having periods and how that makes them less capable emotionally and physically?

I mean if we're talking about how we need a week every month to not be able to do our normal daily things, how on earth can we expect others to seriously consider doing high stress things?

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RE: Periods - 8/22/2005 10:31:55 PM   
Fndrywmn


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Status: offline 		Go Emerald! Reading this thread I was thinking, what's the big deal? Periods are part of life for those of us who aren't post menopausal, or haven't had hysterectomies. At our house nothing changes.

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RE: Periods - 8/23/2005 1:25:19 AM   
girl4you2


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Status: offline 		normal things in life are just that and should be seen as things to just see as bodily functions that are for necessity at times, and as mere inconveniences at others. for those of us who are not menopausal, periods are just monthly reminders that we are females capable of being in heat more at some times than at others.

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RE: Periods - 8/23/2005 1:44:38 AM   
imtempting


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Status: offline 		Wrong de Wrong Wrong.

I would not want to see someone naked during that time.

Also what if the tampon leaked? Whos fualt is the blood on the floor?

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RE: Periods - 8/23/2005 6:28:07 AM   
EmeraldSlave2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: imtempting

Wrong de Wrong Wrong.

I would not want to see someone naked during that time.

Also what if the tampon leaked? Whos fualt is the blood on the floor?

Yeah cuz women have all those cooties when they menstruate.

Whose fault? Well it depends on the situation. I've had an occasional "oops" situation before, sometimes things just happen.

OMG menstrual blood on the floor, call in the hazmat team!

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RE: Periods - 8/23/2005 7:27:07 AM   
imtempting


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Status: offline 		Ill be dumb here but was that a shot at me??

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RE: Periods - 8/23/2005 7:30:16 AM   
PAVANE


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Status: offline 		should have said nude indoors rather. when i send them off to tescos i allow them skirt top shoes and depending on the weather a coat.

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RE: Periods - 8/23/2005 7:42:29 AM   
Fawne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2


OMG menstrual blood on the floor, call in the hazmat team!

! Hee hee

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RE: Periods - 8/23/2005 8:01:48 AM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

Not to throw a malatov here...but doesn't this feed into the sexist ideas that women shouldn't be in positions of extreme stress and power (for example, the presidency of the USA) because of things like having periods and how that makes them less capable emotionally and physically?

I mean if we're talking about how we need a week every month to not be able to do our normal daily things, how on earth can we expect others to seriously consider doing high stress things?


Actually, I think we're stronger because we get things done in spite of it.

I know that the pain I go through is on the extreme end. Most guys that I know would whine the entire time if they had to go through it.


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RE: Periods - 8/23/2005 8:59:40 AM   
shaohua


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Status: offline 		With my Master, i serve all the time..period or no. He understands i am more moody when on my period, but still expects me to remain respectful.

my Master is very relaxed about underwear issues..he leaves it up to me..and in general while on my period and outside of the house i will wear a thong w/ a tampon (and keep extras handy for that first heavy day or so)..usually my first day is extreemly heavy and i am quite tired from loss of blood..so, Master is understanding and lets me nap on and off during the day. and hot baths at night.

Usually after the first day i wear just the tampn with no underwear, and i don't have a problem with it slipping or leaking. at night i wear underwear and a pad.

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RE: Periods - 8/23/2005 9:27:33 AM   
EmeraldSlave2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
Actually, I think we're stronger because we get things done in spite of it.

I know that the pain I go through is on the extreme end. Most guys that I know would whine the entire time if they had to go through it.


I wish more people would celebrate menstruation. While I don't get any extreme pains or emotions from my period, I do have some issues with them.

But a period is such a great sign of womanhood, of the female essence, of our bodies running in time with the moon, the earth, a way to measure who we are and how we are going. Fluids are full of energy and life and we recreate that possibility every month. When I hear people call it "the curse" or are so embarassed about it, I see it as a sad sign of being ashamed of one of the things that makes us female.

I know not everyone needs to share my idealistic views on periods, but I wish at least that it would become a normal part of life, and not continued as some dark secret nasty thing to endure.

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