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MissMagnolia -> RE: BBW'S (12/29/2007 10:56:17 PM)

Oh fuck it, NOT another fat thread?[8|]



dcnovice -> RE: BBW'S (12/29/2007 10:58:54 PM)

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SBBW or BBBBWs


Translations, anyone?



LadyChef -> RE: BBW'S (12/29/2007 11:11:33 PM)

I just have to add this! As a Sexy, Confident, Big (Behind and Hips mostly) Beautiful Woman, the women I find most attractive (no- I'm straight, never even kissed a girl sexually) happen to be the likes of Beyonce Knowles, Kim Kardashian, and Shakira. Of course Beyonce and Shakira because they remind Me of Myself when I was smaller. Kim Kardashian- just lovely, sexy, and curvy like an hourglass. BTW- does anyone even know what size any of them are? Probably not- and it doesn't matter, because they are beautiful and know how to shake their things!



PrincessEllie -> RE: BBW'S (12/29/2007 11:48:17 PM)

Bigger girls whining about smaller girls is just as obnoxious as small girls insulting bigger girls. Different men have different tastes. Also, some people are just born bigger some smaller. It just happens that way and there is nothing you can do about it. Being a size 2 doesn't make anyone less of a woman just like it doesn't make a size 9 less alluring to someone who is into that sort of thing. The OP stinks of 'twue' sentiment and I dislike it immensely. 



guyinpcfl -> RE: BBW'S (12/29/2007 11:58:11 PM)

[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m25.gif[/image]  I have been in the "Life" for over 20 years.  If I had to pick between BBW's and thinner women....bbw's would win hands down!  No worries about bruising hands or hurting bones when spanking.  A good workout with a single tail or double flogger and the skin is nice and rosy red for the wartenburgh and some very nice teasing from my violet wand.  Course that makes it all better if they happen to like being on my St. Andrews cross!   Afterwards....a good rubdown with some rabbit fur and get ready for some "rewards"....always.  Always has been my preference.  ...like to feel some meat on the bones.   My 2 cents worth.

J



Ebonybbw -> RE: BBW'S (12/30/2007 12:18:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Kaiynasha

To the OP, I have been here for a bit, and I read constant topics that are EXACTLY the same:

Do BBWs make good Dommes?
BBW women and men who don't smell good?
How can someone be satisifed with a BBW?
Is being with a BBW better than being with skinny woman?
Can a BBW climb Mount Everest?
Is a BBW capable of going outside and getting the mail?
Can a BBW drive?
Are BBW educated? Have they gone to school? Do they shop for steak or potatoes first? Are they capable of walking across the street?

You catch my drift.  Meaningless crap. Therefore...it is nice OP for someone to finally give a thumbs up to the BBW woman.

Girls keep being fabu....keep being real. I know I am. Oh taste and see how good I Am.


Always,

Ms. K



Wow, wow, wow... {shaking my head}...  Apparently some people are still stuck in their youth.  Mature men and women don't judge others because of their differences.  Nice to see there are some of them on this board who do speak positively about BBWs and aren't afraid to scold the youth who don't...



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: BBW'S (12/30/2007 2:07:27 AM)

*hugging my sexy curves*

thanks, OP



desertdancer -> RE: BBW'S (12/30/2007 2:34:08 AM)

What the heck is an SSBW?  I musta missed a memo somewhere.  Does it mean super small beautiful woman? Or super sized beautiful woman..or or is it the good ship south seas beautiful woman..what is it? I  must know.



BitaTruble -> RE: BBW'S (12/30/2007 3:02:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: moki1984
Pretty much I just got sick of seeing all the hating going on.


But not so sick that you couldn't spew forth a little hate yourself. 

Celeste



MissMorrigan -> RE: BBW'S (12/30/2007 3:09:04 AM)

Body Image
(This is my reply to a question that was posed on another site).
 
Twenty something years ago I used to be very self conscious about my body, I had yo-yo'd from chubby to skinny and back to chubby again. I wouldn't even try clothes on in changing rooms for fear someone would see me trying to stuff my arse into something that may not have fitted so ended up with a wardrobe of clothes I'd never wear.  

That was until I met an artist. He persuaded me to let him draw me. It was arranged that I would go to his studio flat one evening to pose. I had postponed on several occasions but finally had the courage to go through with it. We spent a lovely evening, having dinner, drinking wine until he told me to go to bed and explained he'd draw me in the morning. He woke me up by rubbing the top of my head and ruffling my already wayward curly hair, and told me to go kneel infront of the long mirror (naked!)  he had in his studio. I didn't have time to think, I was still very sleepy but did as I was asked. I knelt awkwardly with one arm over my chest, the other trying to cover the cushion of fat I had for a stomach. He talked to me, his voice mesmerising, low and fluid. He had me looking at my body with a new set of eyes, changing the pads of fat into tiny mounds of soft femininity. Eventually I saw a full-figured horny bitch that oozed sexuality staring back at me and that's when he had me hold the pose.  

I left his studio exhilarated and with a heartfelt gratitude no amount of money in the world could repay him.  
I am now a size 24 but the size isn't the issue... I feel comfortable with who I am and sure I would like to be thinner (working on that), regardless of size it will not alter my confidence. I like and enjoy who I am.
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Body habitat isn't the issue, it's just a 'vehicle'. A person has to like themselves before others will share their view.



lusciouslips19 -> RE: BBW'S (12/30/2007 5:12:17 AM)

I have been everything from a size 6 to a size 22. I lost 65 pounds starting at the end of 2004. I remade myself and my image. I have gained some weight back. being around a 10 on the bottom and a 12 or larger on top, I have learned to not worry about tags and dress myself to look good and flattering to my figure. I do show off my assets. I have gained some of the pound loss back and will eventually try to lose those pounds gained. However, I decided long ago that I was going to dress myself well and feel sexy regardless of what the scale said. I didnt feel sexy heavier but if I ever did go back there( I wont because i felt physically bad), I will refuse to see myself as unsexy. I am a hot Mamma. PERIOD!

I was at a spanking workshop recently. The presenters were a married couple in the lifestyle for many years. She was extremely obese looking to me. She looked to be around 5"4 and over 400 pounds. Very wide and rotund. As I watched the workshop and saw the couples interaction(it was their anniversary), and her personality, before my eyes she became not merely obese to me. She became lush. So fully sensuous and Ripe. oh so ripe. Juicy and ripe and ready to be tasted.



velvetears -> RE: BBW'S (12/30/2007 6:40:23 AM)

i am a bbwwho has a daughter who is a size 0 - she's is beautiful and very much feminine - she has a dancer's body -sleek like a cat, not an ounce of fat on her and she looks lovely. i take offense to your comments about size 2 women - they are very feminine and womanly - body size doesn't define the woman it is how she wear's whatever package god gives her.



lusciouslips19 -> RE: BBW'S (12/30/2007 7:15:57 AM)

I assume you are referring to the OP and not replying to me. Cause I love size 2 and all the sizes in between!



kitttty -> RE: BBW'S (12/30/2007 7:41:35 AM)

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But not so sick that you couldn't spew forth a little hate yourself.


Meh. I'm ok with it at least.

Go ahead. Hate on the 'skinny' girls. I think we can handle it for just this one thread.

BTW, yo mama's so skinny, she has to run around in the shower to get wet.





SeeksOnlyOne -> RE: BBW'S (12/30/2007 8:39:54 AM)

lawd lawd lawd......why not just say i prefer so in so instead of putting down skinny chicks.....bashing is bashing, no matter what size person ya choose to bash.....and bashing, calling skinny chicks not real women is just as bad as fat chick bashing.

we like what we like, we dont like what we dont like.....

its really that simple in my world.......live and let live.....

[sm=banghead.gif]



SirJohnMandevill -> RE: BBW'S (12/30/2007 8:44:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

Truthfully, i know plenty of guys that adore bbws...and lifestyle-wise, many Doms say they have no preference, and God bless the One's that prefer the fluffy girls.  Overall., it's not as bleak for thick chicks as some may lead others to believe.  i for one have never had a problem finding someone who appreciates all my sexy. 
(the above was inspired by the Aretha playing in the background)


I'm one Dom who has no preference. It just seems that the more interesting subs I meet are big girls, as was my first real sub.

As long as we have a connection, I'll pursue her mind and heart and whatever her body is, it is.

Les (Purveyor of Fine, Handcrafted Kink)



LadyPact -> RE: BBW'S (12/30/2007 9:07:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: laurell3

quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

At first glance this post seemed to be supportive of BBW's, then morphed into putting down thinner women, which was bad enough. Then I realized it was a personal ad for the OP.

With as much fat bashing as there is, it is equally as bad to bash thinner women. The whole thing is ridiculous.

Tsk, tsk.


Agreed.  People are going to like or dislike you for a variety of reasons in life they may include weight, hair color, skin color, spelling, personality or any other variety of factors and some that are totally out of our control.  That is life.  Saying people shouldn't hate us but we should hate others is just as equally ridiculous.  Accept who you are and what you can and cannot change and accept that others have limitations in seeing you correctly because of them, but don't spread the ridiculous message that you're somehow better in the guise of supporting others.

I quoted this mostly for the fact that it was worth seeing again.  Not that the jello wrestling wasn't fun and all, but I think the above had more, shall I say substance, to it?

On the whole size thing, I've been both.  Ranging anywhere between 2 or 12 in My day.  Want to know where I was happiest?  Well, at a size 2, just three years ago, I was pretty sick physically.  At a 12, I didn't feel I was all that healthy mentally.  I'm best where I am right now today.  Neither My husband, nor My sub care what number is printed on My dress tag.



kitttty -> RE: BBW'S (12/30/2007 9:38:18 AM)

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I find most attractive (no- I'm straight, never even kissed a girl sexually) happen to be the likes of Beyonce Knowles, Kim Kardashian, and Shakira


I'm not very particular although Master is. I guess if I had to state a preference, it would be against rail thin women and more in favor of slightly thick girls (which beyonce, shakira and kim karadashian are not). Not that I'd be complaining about any of those women. I'm probably smaller than all of them although I think they have better bodies.



childoftheshadow -> RE: BBW'S (12/30/2007 9:38:38 AM)

I've been a size 6, and I've been a size 28 (and everything inbetween). I wasn't happy at 6 or 28, but I love myself as I am now. I'm a bit of a chunky monkey, but that's fine, I'm perfect how I am.

To the OP, didn't your momma ever teach you not to judge a book by its cover? A size two woman is just as much of a woman as a size 16.


*** I'm not fat, I'm fluffy***



KyttynTheMynx -> RE: BBW'S (12/30/2007 9:49:30 AM)

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ORIGINAL: kitttty

quote:


But not so sick that you couldn't spew forth a little hate yourself.


Meh. I'm ok with it at least.

Go ahead. Hate on the 'skinny' girls. I think we can handle it for just this one thread.

BTW, yo mama's so skinny, she has to run around in the shower to get wet.





But why should it be tolerated for one thread?  Why cant we NOT tolerate it at all?  Its gonna be a vicious cycle darling.  If we hate on skinny girls for one thread, then someones gonna hate on the big girls for another and back and forth like some juvenile game of monkey in the middle.  I'm sorry that youre ok with it, and it shows your level of maturity sweetie.




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