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RiotGirl -> RE: Baaaaaaaaad, Bad Bad (8/26/2005 7:07:34 AM)
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Yup, i'm staying out of it because i have refused to read the flame war, if thats what it is. What i have to say, is most likely not what others want to hear. Which is quite frankly, why i havent said it. What do you do when, you've two friends and they're both argueing? Over something inane? Do you look at them and say "Grow up?" Do you just ignore them until they're done bickering? Its what i usually do. Because when you jump in, ppl ALWAYS take it personal and think you are chosing sides. No one can be logical. (obviously i'm jumping in now)
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The 'net version of this just happened to me. *sigh*
pinkpleasures
Pink, i dont agree with that statement. Yes its possible, as a year and a half ago, i went through something similiar with a Dom i had met who i decided was abit crazy. Him emailing me to all gods, knowing where i lived.. yada yada. Scared the living hell out of me. Writing that i realise, it wasnt purely net. So again, i dont think its possible. Its very simple to get rid of ppl on the net. Which is why i like it. No, i dont think you had to explain to a 4 year old that the cops maybe showing up at your house and WHY. No i dont think you went to the neighbors and with out TELLING the neighbors why, asked if your kid could play there, so IF things hit the fan, atleast your kid wasnt THERE. No and i dont think it ran through your mind, how you'd be explaining the aftermath. And no, i dont think you told some one you've known for 3 years, point blankly that you'd kill them if they continued. Honestly, i dont think its the same and though i know you are emotionally excitable, i dont think you felt the same. As for what brightspot said. i agree. But i ignored it out of friendship with you.
As for what emerald said. Maybe she wasnt completely on about "you cyber ppl" Maybe you felt that as a flame. But look realisitically. Honestly now girl. Have you been in BDSM off the net? If you have, simply saying so suffices. Sure maybe Emerald shouldnt of called you "you cyber ppl" but its what it looks like. Change the perception if you dont like it. i dont think it was an insult as you took it. She wasnt stating it as an insult, but as a fact. She wasnt trying to put you down.
What tempest first post was saying, again was that they dont think you've any real life experience.
See Pink, that ALL this little war has been about. People saying that what you went through on the net, is not like real life. Did you CHANGE that perception? Did you even touch on that at all? Did you say anything to make things different? No.
Pink, i think your a good person, with ALOT of excitability. It is getting old. You continuelly jump into threads and miss read whats going on. You're jumping. There's alot of drama going on when you post. With alot of things i've read, there has been drama induced by you. i have quite honestly stopped reading what you write. Why? Cos you keep jumping to conclusions and making everything "bad" You're insulting ppl and yelling at ppl. Bickering with them and what not. Every where you go, there is drama. Some one says ONE thing you dont like.. and it takes over the whole thread. Did you NOT introduce yourself to me, through DRAMA? Waking up on morning, with GOD knows what going on in my email box? Having to actually sit here and figure out what in the world is going on. No, it wasnt the nicest thing to think about in the morning. Slander? Lawyers? i was like whoaaaaaaaaa. Hold on cowboy.
Pink, insofar as i can see, you are adding nothing but drama to the boards and ppl are getting tired of it. Did you not see my post to you that said "calm down and relax"? Another post saying "dont worry about what they say here" i was trying to get a POINT across to you. There is more serious things to life then this board. This board is not something to get yourself all bent out of shape over. GOD just CLICK THE X. Course, funnily, that wouldnt be any fun. You throw everything way out of proportion.
It leaves a perception you prolly do not want others to have. Cos you arent posting about your LIFE getting bent out of shape, you are getting bent out of shape over what others say. They havent been mistreating me, as you seem to think. That guy "thelight" that you bombared in my communication thread, he was ONLY trying to help. He wasnt doing anything wrong, yet you took it out of proportion and started jumping up and down.
like i SAID, CALM DOWN. You are getting repetive. Must i pull up the majority of your threads, walk you through each of them and show you what i am talking about? You havent been flamed, i havent been flamed. No one is insulting you or putting you down.
Now you might think, with this post i do not like you or i am not your friend. But i tell my friends a whole grand of scheme of things. i've told my friends in a round about way, they were bad parents. i dont offer this kind of advice, when i see ppl doing something wrong, unless i am asked for it. Because its not my place to tell them whats right and wrong. But you asked. i think you are wrong, point blank. And wrong the majority of times. Yes, i'm sure thats hard to hear, and i'm sure you'll throw a fit. But try looking at what i am saying. Heck, go through your old posts and re read through them. i think you are a sincere, with good intentions lady. i've spoke to you. If i didnt think so, i'd of just told you to shut the hell up, and that nobody cared. Either that or i'd of ignored you completely. Out of being friends with you, i have stayed out of your drama and ignored it. But you have brought me into it twice now, looking for back up. i personally like to stick by right and wrong. And honestly, i dont know you to back you up when you're wrong.
So i'm not looking for drama, and i'm not looking for all these messes. i'm telling you what i percieve because you asked and i am friends with you to tell you. Its not personal, its not an insult. Its a perception on the behavior you exhibit. People are getting tired of it. The Mods are deleting your posts, warning you. Its not a good sign. Shape up sweetie. This board aint no thing. And granted i've met ppl off this board, talk to many of them in IMs, it still is no thing. Yet i respect and like alot of ppl here, its still aint no thing. If everyone on the forums told me they DIDNT like me, and they wished me to leave, yeah i'd be a bit bummed out, but it aint no thing. Because quite frankly, this isnt my life.
AND for GODS sake, i'm sick of all the abuse talk. So seriously f*ing sick of it. Its not something, those who have been through it, want to be constantly reminded about. Yeah i'm alittle late saying so, but i figured if i'm clearing the air.. i might as well clear up that one. i dont like thinking about it, re living it, talking about it, or what not. Abuse has NO place in a BDSM forum. This is ABOUT BDSM not abuse.
You asked, i delivered. i tried to ignore, you wanted. Careful what you ask for. Now try and read my words with out the emotions going crazy. OR read it, let your emotions fly, and come back sit down and say something which doesnt completely blow everything out of porportion. Just telling you like i see it.
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