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thetammyjo -> RE: I finally figured it out (1/1/2008 2:05:18 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MadameVonne

I have wondered many times what would be a good outfit. The bike shorts with the black top seems the most comfy. Since I live alone, I have given up on the corset. I can never get it done without help anyway and I am claustrophobic. Comfy equals more control for me.


I couldn't agree more personally.

I know that when I feel comfortable then I feel confident, when I feel free to move as I wish then I feel empowered.

That's how I feel and I can't grok the idea that tight, confining, restrictive clothings is somehow dominant clothing. I clearly did not have the same cultural upbringing in that regard as folks who do think such clothing has powerful meanings.

I totally understand why someone might use what they wear as a way to trigger a fetish reaction from a partner -- luckily my slave's fetishes are mostly for himself or only involve a very small amount of work on my part in terms of what I'm wearing.




AFlyInYourWeb -> RE: I finally figured it out (1/1/2008 2:11:13 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Here was the inspiration for the OP.......

Getting ready to go out New Year's Eve for a small get together.  I do the normal shower routine, undergarments, thigh highs, long skirt with slit up the side.  My husband gets the job of lacing up the corset.  Once I'm dressed, I go about the business of putting on My face, etc.

Me, "Honey, I have an issue with My hair spray."
Him,  "What is it Dear?"
Me,  "I think I need My spare hair spray out of the travel bag."
Him,  "Ok."
Me, "But I can't bend over."
Him,  "Where is it?"
Me,  "It's in one of the side pockets."
(Searches the front pockets.)

Me,  "It's not in the front pockets."
Him,  "I'm checking everywhere."
Me,  "Ok."
(Doesn't find it in front, pockets and searches the side pockets with the same result.)

Him,  "It's not in here."
Me,  "Try the shower bag."  (More demanding.)
Him,  "Where is it?"
Me,  "Isn't it out there?" 
Him,  "I don't know."
Me,  "Isn't that your job"
Him,  "No, you have a boy for that."
Me,  "But you're the one here."
Him,  "I understand that, Dear."
(Both look for shower bag, and realize it's two feet away from the first bag.)

Me,  "You didn't see that earlier?"
Him,  "No, I wasn't looking for it then."
(Opens shower bag.  Still no hairspray.)

Me,  "Try the make-up case."
Him,  "It's not the one you want."
Me,  "My hair is dry.  I'll take what I can get.  That sprits will work."
(I spray My hair.  The delay is making Us late to leave.)

Me,  "Honey, find My boots."
Him,  "I already know where they are.  They are in the closet."
Me,  "Ok.  Well, you could be doing something.  Put the toy bag in the car."
Him,  "I can do that on Our way out."
Me,  "I'll get the boots.  You get the cats out of the room."
(The boots are tall, so I'm able to get them without bending over.)

Him,  "Dear, the cat's under the other side of the bed."
Me,  "Yes, I see her."
Him,  "Well, if I come around to get her, she'll just go back under the bed."
Me, "But I've got one boot half on."
(I hop over, and with great difficulty, capture the cat.)

Me,  "Sure.  Tell the person in the expensive leather to catch the cat with claws."
Him,  "She can't stay in here while We got out.  You said so."
(I actually manage to put the boots on and zipper them up.  I look down at the high boots mixed with the long skirt.)

Me,  "Hon.  These boots really don't go.  I think I'd rather have My shoes."
Him,  "Ok."
Me,  "You have to take them off of Me."
Him,  "You got them on."
Me,  "That's different."
(He comes over, unzippers one boot, then unzippers the other.)

Me,  "No Dear.  I don't just need them unzippered.  I need them taken off."
Him,  "I'm doing that.  I'm just unzippering them both first."
Me,  "Who does it like that?"
Him,  "Obviously, I do."
Me,  "Ok, but I'll need My black shoes after this."
Him,  "Where are they?"
Me,  "In the travel bag.  The one with the pockets."
Him,  "There were no shoes in the pockets."
Me,  "Not in the pockets, Dear.  In the main part."
(He goes back to the bag, and pulls out one black strapped sandal.)

Him,  "There's only one in the bag."
Me,  "No, they're both in there."
Him,  "Dear, here's your hair spray."
Me,  "I already used hair spray."
Him,  "Well, I found the one you were looking for when this started."
Me,  "I don't want hairspray now.  I want shoes so We can go."
Him,  "So let's get them on."
Me,  "You didn't say you had both of them yet."
Him,  "I've got them.  You have to sit down for me to put them on."
Me,  "Ok, I'm ready otherwise.  What are you doing?"
Him,  "Getting my glasses.  These little straps are small."
Me (laughs)  "You're getting old, Hon, if you can't even get on My shoes without putting on glasses to see the buckles."
Him,  "Oh, I'm old because I can't see these?"
Me,  "Yes....... Not that I've been able to accomplish anything for Myself this past half hour."
Him, "When's clip coming home?"
Me, "I think he's back tonight."
Him,  "What are you doing now?"
Me,  "I'm posting this crap on CM.  It's funny."

Now you see where the post came from.  And why I have a tendency to be late.




"Say good-night, Gracie."

"Good-night, Gracie."




KindLadyGrey -> RE: I finally figured it out (1/1/2008 2:48:04 PM)

(FR)

Being pregnant is a good "get out of sexy Domme clothes free" card. They just don't make much maternity clothing in leather and latex!




AllietheKitten -> RE: I finally figured it out (1/1/2008 3:24:04 PM)

ROFL!
I have to say, seriously, that I don't even HAVE any tall boots, corsets, leather or lingerie (besides pantie/bra sets that match). I just don't like the idea of dressing because it feels like I am playing out the sub's fantasy, not mine. I feel more comfortable in sweats so I Domme in sweats. And when I want to get my sexy on, I go nude *smile* (My sub *loves* this, btw. He says its so sexy that I can throw on a pair of exercise pants and his sweatshirt and give him that *look* that says "On your knees bitch".)

I'm off to Home Depot for some rope...




petdave -> RE: I finally figured it out (1/1/2008 3:31:35 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Now you see where the post came from.  And why I have a tendency to be late.



Awesome. i think it's too late for "best of 2007", though [:D]

i forgot the corrolary to the Fetish Mantra:

"If a woman in a corset can't find someone willing to help her into her boots, she's not hanging out with the right people" [:)]

However, i guess i'm easy to please... as far as i'm concerned, bike shorts are fetishwear
If it's tight, it's allll right [8D]




MaamJay -> RE: I finally figured it out (1/2/2008 1:22:41 AM)

Oh LadyPact, that was PRICELESS! Loved it! Can see every bit unfold, especially the cat LOL!
Get home quick clip!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]




SlaveBlutarsky -> RE: I finally figured it out (1/3/2008 9:28:05 PM)

What's scary is that I tend to find it a lot more erotic when I'm being dominated by a woman in regular clothes than in fetishwear. Don't get me wrong, the visual stimulation of a woman in gear is amazing to me, and I could spend the rest of my life cuddling up with a woman in leather, but there is something about the act of submitting to someone in normal every day clothes that just drives me nuts.

I think it has a lot to do with the notion that some women can only dominant if they are in that mood or have the tools of dominance near them whereas the thought of a woman who i able to just simply control me with a slight tilt of her head while wearing jeans and a t shirt just drives me insane.




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