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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/1/2008 11:42:08 PM   
chiaThePet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sammiebabygirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

I am a man, not an animal, er, pet-plant-thing-a-ma-jig, (Damn you Laurel)



Laurel?? It was Christina who said that. LOL
 
jen


Actually, laurell3 dubbed me the pet/plant/thing many moons ago, so I was
simply giving credit where credit was due. LOLOUDER.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/2/2008 1:28:56 AM   
Guilty1974


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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

I don't get insult emails, probably because I don't have a picture up.



Hehehehe, I share your feeling. The only silly mail I ever got was someone whining that "next time I should wish to attack her, I should do so privately instead of on the boards". Then., when I responded privately (and quite politely), she deleted my answer away unread .

But outright trolls, nope. But I'm a man, that helps I guess.

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/2/2008 1:55:46 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		Back in the olden days before home computers and cell phones there used to be the same phenomenom via home telephones (land lines) called the "prank call" or sometimes the "obscene call" and what we did back in those days was to hang up the phone.  Since we didn't have a message board to discuss the matter, one would simply have to shake ones head and dismiss the incident.  The really cool thing about emails is that they don't wake you up from a sound sleep at 2 o'clock in the morning.

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/2/2008 3:54:05 AM   
HalloweenWhite


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Status: offline 		This kind of thing comes with the territory I'm afraid, the net is open to anyone with a modem and you'l always get people coming onto free sites like these (because it's free) and hurling abuse at people because they think it's fun because they can wind people up doing it.

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/2/2008 5:28:15 AM   
canupleaseme


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Status: offline 		I get messages like this a lot too. Just hit delete or report them.  If ive had ajust a your fat message I just block it. When I recieved messages that really were alarming and very rude I reported them and blocked them.

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/2/2008 5:34:42 AM   
batshalom


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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I always assume someone who delivers an insult in email or online is just a coward.  Or someone with a really tiny dick that has to insult someone else because its the only way their dick gets hard.


I always assume they're drunk and / or getting back at wifey and taking it out on you for her being the dominant one in their vanilla relationship. They seem to be emasculated, frustrated, ridiculous little people, not so much men as whiny bratty bully children.

There was one, though, that I think was a psychopath. Wow. I should have saved those messages as they escalated - the progression was interesting.

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/2/2008 2:19:29 PM   
SailingBum


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Yes, B.O., that is very helpful, thank you!

~Christina


As the other poster pointed out that is like asking how do i stop a prank call....sheesh  In a word you can't.  Oh i forget your dom wanted to "yell at him"  That sure is productive.  Two morons getting into a pissing contest.  You 2 deserve each other ...

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/2/2008 2:29:22 PM   
Suleiman


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ORIGINAL: KindLadyGrey

I feel so left out! Nobody sends me anything rudely hilarious.



I'm a guy with more than two sentences on my profile. That seems to intimidate the trolls. Maybe if I put up a pic of my wife as the main profile pic they'd come out to play, but who the hell wants that? I just scroll randomly through other people's profiles, laugh derisively at their unachievable laundry list of wants, and move on once I've had a good chuckle. Now that I'm forum haunting again, I'm sure somebody will say something stupid in my presence. Claw-sharpening is best played as a spectator sport, any way.

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/2/2008 2:46:39 PM   
HypnoticDan


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Status: offline 		I believe this classic meme sums it up.

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/2/2008 2:55:21 PM   
Suleiman


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Status: offline 		Feh. Broken link.

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Think of my verbosity as a sort of litmus test for our relationship. I write in a manner identical to how I speak and how I think. If you can not cope with what I have written here, it is probably for the best if we go our separate ways.

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/2/2008 5:14:32 PM   
ThinkingKitten


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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

Back in the olden days before home computers and cell phones there used to be the same phenomenom via home telephones (land lines) called the "prank call" or sometimes the "obscene call" and what we did back in those days was to hang up the phone. 


I ever get weird phone calls like that, in which no-one responds when I answer, I just bang the handset on the table a few times, put it on it's side, then walk away and leave it for a while..... and hope they were calling long distance
 
In the good old days when I had a profile on the "other side", I'd usually check out someone's profile (just the quick look, so they wouldn't know I'd looked) before I read their email. If they came across as an idiot in their profile, I'd often just delete the mail without reading it (guaranteed to piss them off). And then, I might block them.....

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/2/2008 5:56:42 PM   
agoodgirl4Daddy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

I don't know how many of you remember a couple of years back there was someone (I SO don't remember the name they used) but, their avatar was similar to Chia's (the pet-plant thingamajig) *please note that this post has absolutely NOTHING to do with Chia except for the avatar.*

Anyway, this person came on here making posts such as 'if a person is a submissive they should submit to everyone' and stuff like that. Whoever this was insulted almost every person they came in contact with on this site, probably intentionally.

At the end though, this person emailed many forum females telling us we were fat, ugly and stupid. Then he/she/it promptly blocked us so that we could not respond. And then, of course, this person disappeared and/or was kicked out of the fora.

Recently some 'dom' read my profile (while I was out of town) and proceded to tell me that Master should have not cooked for me, should have sent me to the gym, and that I was getting fat. When Master read this, he tried to respond, but...of course...the person had already blocked us.

I don't care. I find it funny. Master didn't want to tell me what he said, but I asked so much He finally did. I laughed very hard and kind of agreed with the guy.... But, has anyone else been dealing with this kind of **** lately? Is it really fun to insult people and then block them? If I insult someone, I at least like to wait around and see if they come up with an intelligent response....and if they do, I respect them much more.

It would be good to have a rule in place that once someone joins using an IP address, they can only join one or two more times with that same address. Wouldn't that stop the hit and runs, and yet leave an all clear for those who lose their profile for one reason or another?

Does anyone have any ideas about how to cut down on this bs?

Thanks!

~Christina



Christina,

Just don't stoop to "its" level. 

I delete 99.9% of the emails i get on this site. 

Sure, i do send the odd email back when i get insulted, but i don't let it ruin my day.  It just isn't worth it!

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/2/2008 6:00:15 PM   
PsyVamp


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MichealMayhem

actually I am experiencing exactly this thing.  My answer is to post the insult and my respnse in my journal.  That seems to work :)


  I did the same exact thing just recently.  Although I didn't post my response in the journal.  My response was "Thank you for stopping by.  Have a nice day" 

Lady Jag

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/2/2008 6:20:39 PM   
laurell3


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quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

quote:

ORIGINAL: sammiebabygirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

I am a man, not an animal, er, pet-plant-thing-a-ma-jig, (Damn you Laurel)



Laurel?? It was Christina who said that. LOL
 
jen


Actually, laurell3 dubbed me the pet/plant/thing many moons ago, so I was
simply giving credit where credit was due. LOLOUDER.

chia* (the pet)


Jen, thanks for defending me, but I think he's kidding.  It's my term of endearment for chia who I admire greatly and find ungodly attractive due to his undying wit and ability to make light at even the saddest and most inane situations.  I believe he knows this.  I think he also knows if it truly offends him he could tell me that, don't ya chia?

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/2/2008 7:02:49 PM   
xxblushesxx


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From: Kentucky
Status: offline 		Bum Sir;

My Master did not want to yell at him, nor did I imply He did. He wanted to 'protect' me from being hurt, and He also wanted to answer the person's comments to me. (which, as I stated, I found funny).

But thank you, Sir, I do agree, we DO deserve each other.

I wish you well.

~Christina

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/2/2008 7:26:54 PM   
charmdpetKeira


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Status: offline 		New Years Eve I received a message from someone, they said it was hard to know why I had a profile on CM, as I am owned, and I should leave because my having a profile raises false hopes in people like him.
 
I laughed. My thoughts were; if my having a profile under my present circumstances was an issue for him, then it was the least of his problems and I wouldn’t be interested, regardless of being owned.
 
I didn’t respond, I didn’t block, I’m not even sure that I’ve deleted; I recognized it for what it was and just moved on.
 
k

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/2/2008 9:30:29 PM   
chiaThePet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

quote:

ORIGINAL: sammiebabygirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

I am a man, not an animal, er, pet-plant-thing-a-ma-jig, (Damn you Laurel)



Laurel?? It was Christina who said that. LOL
 
jen


Actually, laurell3 dubbed me the pet/plant/thing many moons ago, so I was
simply giving credit where credit was due. LOLOUDER.

chia* (the pet)


Jen, thanks for defending me, but I think he's kidding.  It's my term of endearment for chia who I admire greatly and find ungodly attractive due to his undying wit and ability to make light at even the saddest and most inane situations.  I believe he knows this.  I think he also knows if it truly offends him he could tell me that, don't ya chia?


Who's my dirty girl? That's right.

Of course I'm kidding. Rare is the occasion that I'm not, then I've just shaken
and not stirred one too many. No one really offends me, they simply fan the
flames of hell fire. Hmmm, ungodly attractive eh? What? A blinding, blazing
face of spectacular light with eyes of lightening and solar flares of flowing
golden hair is coyote ugly these days? Fair enough, I shall stick to being me.

Who's my dirty girl? That's right.

xxo chia* (the pet)

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Love is a many splendid sting.

You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/2/2008 9:31:30 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		This is why you are my one and only plant/pet/thing chia!

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I cannot be defined by moments in my life, but must be considered for by the entirety of my existence.

When you fail to consider that I am the best judge for what is right for me, all of your opinions become suspect to me.

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/3/2008 1:15:53 AM   
SailingBum


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Bum Sir;

My Master did not want to yell at him, nor did I imply He did. He wanted to 'protect' me from being hurt, and He also wanted to answer the person's comments to me. (which, as I stated, I found funny).

But thank you, Sir, I do agree, we DO deserve each other.

I wish you well.

~Christina


yep yep yep I have this visual oh great and powerful master I will "protect you" from random emails...    Life must be just ducky.  Of course my dear you deserve each other.  Thanks for the warm wishes.

BadOne

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RE: Hit and Run Insults - 1/3/2008 5:55:55 AM   
SpiderInWaiting


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Status: offline 		I agree with Lady Hugs. Report people that send you messages strictly to harrass you or to be rude. I get those occassionally and oddly enough never from anyone that has actually taken time to talk to me. I figure if someone is sending hate mail to me then that person is probably doing it to others too and the more it gets reported the better off we will be.

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