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My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:29:36 PM   
kitten1182


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Status: offline 		My bf and I were talking about our 'numbers'. He said he has slept with 6 people including me, and I told him I have slept with eleven people. He then asked what my number was if I include oral and any other kind of sexualcontact. I then had to change my number to 15. He is acting like I am the biggest slut on the planet. Please reply, and let me know what you think. I believe this number is fairly small honestly.
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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:31:10 PM   
SailingBum


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Status: offline 		you did not include how old you are

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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:31:40 PM   
TallDarkAndWitty


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Status: offline 		I've had intercourse with only 6 women myself...  Though I couldn't count the number I have had "any other sexual contact" with.

11 is a very very small number.  And there isn't anything wrong with being a slut, anyway...

If he doesn't want a slut, I am sure you can find many men who will...some even at the same time. *wink*

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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:33:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		He's just frigid and probably worried that you think his skills aren't up to par.  He's probably freaking out about all the other men and how they were different (read: better).  The only thing you can really say "Baby, I may have known some boys but I stay with you because you're my MAN.  Now how about I show you how special you are to me :) ?"

That or cut him off and find someone with more self-confidence.

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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:33:50 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		From all the reading on these forum boards I thought slut was something to strive for?

Colour me confused.......


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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:34:15 PM   
TallDarkAndWitty


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ORIGINAL: SailingBum
you did not include how old you are


Does it really matter?  Being a slut isn't about how many you do, it's about how you do them!

Taggard

P.S.  For all you scumbag lovers out there...scumbags love sluts!  Do we have any sluts out there?


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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:35:40 PM   
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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:38:30 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		I know my number....roughly............god I am a scumbag AND a slut!

Jeff

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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:40:00 PM   
batshalom


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Status: offline 		And let's not forget deviant. The world ain't no good without deviance.

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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:40:31 PM   
lateralist1


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Status: offline 		My advice ditch him and go find yourself a male slut.
Unless you enjoy being called names lol.
Have you heard of female emancipation?

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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:42:38 PM   
decstorm37


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Status: offline 		tell him all your past exp made you the person you are today. Which can be a very good thing.

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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:43:00 PM   
EvilGenie


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ORIGINAL: HypnoticDan

He's just frigid and probably worried that you think his skills aren't up to par.  He's probably freaking out about all the other men and how they were different (read: better).  The only thing you can really say "Baby, I may have known some boys but I stay with you because you're my MAN.  Now how about I show you how special you are to me :) ?"

That or cut him off and find someone with more self-confidence.



Aww HD that's not a nice thing to do; making a woman with a cold spit lemon zinger tea all over her monitor! Next time, please try and not be so amusing, please?

EG

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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:43:43 PM   
missasubbie


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Status: offline 		Its not what they call you sweetheart,,  It's what you answer to...  *giggles*  Embrace your inner slut and walk proud... as long as you protect yourself and respect yourself its all good....

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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:45:20 PM   
sweetwenchie


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

From all the reading on these forum boards I thought slut was something to strive for?

Colour me confused.......



i certainly hope so, if not, i had better change number one on my how to be a good wench list...

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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:45:21 PM   
Lordandmaster


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kitten1182

My bf and I were talking about our 'numbers'. He said he has slept with 6 people including me, and I told him I have slept with eleven people. He then asked what my number was if I include oral and any other kind of sexualcontact. I then had to change my number to 15. He is acting like I am the biggest slut on the planet. Please reply, and let me know what you think. I believe this number is fairly small honestly.

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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:45:37 PM   
Jeffff


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ORIGINAL: batshalom

And let's not forget deviant. The world ain't no good without deviance.


Thanks.I almost forgot about that..:)

Jeff

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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:47:31 PM   
bipolarber


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Status: offline 		I tried to count mine up, after reading this thread's OP... gave up when I hit my gay bath house phase...

11 is no great number, trust me. I've met some wonderful people who have done that at a single party (see "Shortbus" for a visual example of the type of party I'm talking about.) If you were/are of age, I really don't see where he has the right to complain...

I suppose you could give him a coupon book or something... "entitles the bearer to five additional partners outside of our relationship." Maybe he's just worried he hasn't been keeping up on his end.

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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:49:56 PM   
mnottertail


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kitten1182

My bf and I were talking about our 'numbers'. He said he has slept with 6 people including me, and I told him I have slept with eleven people. He then asked what my number was if I include oral and any other kind of sexualcontact. I then had to change my number to 15. He is acting like I am the biggest slut on the planet. Please reply, and let me know what you think. I believe this number is fairly small honestly.


Now if you are the size of a dead chicken with a hole the size of an elephants dick between your legs, your bf could have a slightly apprehendable point.....

I am just trying to be helpful here, don't come unglued on me.

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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:52:44 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		Yes.....Ron is a giver........I ask you to take it in the spirit it is given in..:)

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RE: My guy thinks I am a slut. - 1/2/2008 2:52:46 PM   
lronitulstahp


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Status: offline 		i'm assuming you're in a 'nilla relationship, right?  Just impress upon him that if he wants the tally to STOP at 15, he should quit the judgmental behavior.  It's not like his father's one of the lucky 15...is he?

< Message edited by lronitulstahp -- 1/2/2008 2:53:30 PM >

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