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question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 6:25:35 AM   
misub33


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Status: offline 		i get horrible cramps for 3 more day before my period then i get  my normal cramps so here is the real question as a Dom would you fuck know it does not help your slave in pain at all just to fuck her or take care of her so she can serve you better  when she is well?
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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 6:32:45 AM   
christine1


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Status: offline 		i'm not a dom, but i have something to say about this.  i get really bad cramps as well, and there are 2 things that help; having an orgasm, and drinking a glass of milk, not necessarily in that order or even combined.  something worth trying anyway, it might work for you.

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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 6:36:13 AM   
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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 6:40:31 AM   
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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 6:44:25 AM   
misub33


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Status: offline 		i have try orgams which don't help. my cramps lead more the er trip kind yet no doctor can find nothing wrong with. i had every test in the books.

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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 6:45:38 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		Sorry, i know you asked this question of the Dominants but in my opinion, sexual service is not about what makes the slave feel better or how it helps the submissive, it is about sexual service to the Dominant or Master.  If it is really bad, you should negotiate no sex during your period including the 3 days leading up to it.  That would be the best way to handle it, so there is clear communication ahead of time.

Also, please speak with your GYN about this problem and perhaps she or he can recommend something to help you.  Periods are not an illness, although i do know that some women suffer horribly during this time.  Talk to your doctor.

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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 7:08:34 AM   
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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 7:08:57 AM   
vampchick88


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Status: offline 		   I wouldn't let anyone near me if I was in serious pain and sex didn't relieve any of it. Tell him whats going on, it could be causing unknown damage a little later in life if its not taken care of properly. Just take care, and let yourself heal for those few days.

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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 7:10:32 AM   
misub33


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Status: offline 		i have a learning dis. while i try my best  at everything  writing is not a strong point for me.

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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 7:14:24 AM   
Wiseprotector


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Status: offline 		My first reaction was that of chrisitne1, orgasams have helped the situation, so I'm glad to help ( see, I'm so caring.)

Sounds like something that needs gyn intervention, hope you can allivieate those symptoms.

I know I'd find other ways to get sexual gratification, but if it was cause such problems, I'd be more concerned about your health.



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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 7:19:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: misub33

i have a learning dis. while i try my best  at everything  writing is not a strong point for me.


Trying your best is all we can do, so hang in there. I apologize for my snarky comment, also.

As for your question: No, I wouldn't cause a submissive in pain, further pain.

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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 7:34:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		i was recently released from my Master after only 3 months. i went there for training and things were going well. then, all of a sudden, i was complete. he was extremely proud of me and i am his favorite slave. okay, my question is...

WTF?????  i wanted a good dose of the lifestyle, YES, and I got it, YES. is this all? am i now to just think that its bullshit?  i have so many mixed up feelings right now and i've never felt so lost and confused. does it ever get better?

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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 7:37:33 AM   
misub33


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Status: offline 		ok but what does that do with my question?

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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 7:39:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TallObedience

is this all? am i now to just think that its bullshit?  i have so many mixed up feelings right now and i've never felt so lost and confused. does it ever get better?


Evidently, it's "all" as far as he was concerned.

If you want it to be better, then do what you need to make it so.



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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 7:40:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: misub33

ok but what does that do with my question?


See what you've started??

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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 7:41:17 AM   
TallObedience


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Status: offline 		Sorry Misub.....i was never in the forums before and not used to how this works.

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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 7:44:16 AM   
misub33


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Status: offline 		it ok just read the question the frist entry and go from there if you have something to  add just add it. it ok really i know it hard being new to this.

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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 7:51:58 AM   
SilentTigresss


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Status: offline 		Hello,
Her question doesn't, obviously have anything to do with this. i have a friend who goes through HELL before her monthly. i am talking curled up on the floor, shakes, tremors; it debilitates her. Since she can not take any drugs, she is on her own during this time. i have wondered myself if it is something mental. Perhaps not, but take the advice you were given, and communicate and be thankful you might be able to take a drug for it!  :)
Good luck.

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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 8:52:36 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Get a second opinion. A friend suffered from severe cramps for years and was told there was nothing wrong. She saw a new doctor who found fibroid tumors. Endometriosis can occur in nonuterine tissue and will also cause this.

But anybody worth submitting to would want you to be healthy and not to subject you to bad pain.

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RE: question to the Doms - 1/6/2008 10:46:28 AM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		Yep, I had a friend who had endo and it was debilitating. She had surgery and is doing better now.
Another thing to consider is getting on a birth control pill that stops or greatly minimizes your period. I am on Erin (a birth control pill)
The nurse at planned parenthood told me that most women who take it have either no period (like me) while taking it, or greatly reduced. Also greatly reduced flow and cramps. The only downside would be that during the very first month, you do tend to bleed intermittantly.
But it's something to consider.

~Christina

p.s. (my doctor knows nothing about the birth control pill Erin, so, planned parenthood may be your best bet.)

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