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RE: blood as hard limit? - 1/7/2008 11:48:19 AM   
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as for the rimming.. try having your arse on your profile.. see the responses then. My gods I am about to take that pict down I swear. Doms and subs alike are obnoxious over it. Can a person look at a body part, and just hold a normal conversation with you afterwords? Is that so hard.. realy?



Of course I can ho[well hot dayummm]ld a normal conve[jeezus I'd like to]rsation after perving yo[baby thats hot]ur pict[look at that sweet ass]ure.

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RE: blood as hard limit? - 1/7/2008 2:50:08 PM   
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as for the rimming.. try having your arse on your profile.. see the responses then. My gods I am about to take that pict down I swear. Doms and subs alike are obnoxious over it. Can a person look at a body part, and just hold a normal conversation with you afterwords? Is that so hard.. realy?



Of course I can ho[well hot dayummm]ld a normal conve[jeezus I'd like to]rsation after perving yo[baby thats hot]ur pict[look at that sweet ass]ure.

Cali
(is that my name? I think that's my name.. yes, that's it, that's my name)



*chuckles* unfortunatly I had to take the pict down.. I got 5 goobers back to back.... I just had it.

I hope ya'll had a good oogle before I took it down.. *chuckles*

Is ok.. there is a guy in Fl. that has a pict of his hairy flabby white as hell man chest as his main pict that just creeps me out. I click refresh or leave the page as soon as it pops up. LOL

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RE: blood as hard limit? - 1/7/2008 3:55:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		i loveeeee needle play.  it's a totally amazing buzz to me! 

i only do needle play with those that i trust implicitly, as there is obviously a risk due to potential "needle sticks".   i practice RACK principles, and i know that i'm taking a risk every time i allow someone to insert a needle into my flesh.  no one needs to tell me that.  however, it is both consensual and aware - i don't play with people who are intoxicated or who don't have considerable experience with needle play. 

once the needles have been placed, manipulated (by thumping, tugging and twisting!), and are removed, i get a complete rush from the sight and feel of blood dripping down my body.  so, no OP, i don't find you odd at all!   

ohh...it's odd to me that collarme.com doesn't allow pics of needles in skin, but does allow pics of boobies!  makes me go hmmmmmmmmmmmm..............

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RE: blood as hard limit? - 1/7/2008 5:35:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'll bite. Do you spread out a tarp first so as not to stain the bed or the carpet? Because my first thought was "Not on my new Egyptian cotton sheets".

But it doesn't do anything for me or for him. We get banged up and bark our knuckles, bleeding without meaning to. So it holds no appeal, just another thing requiring band aids.

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RE: blood as hard limit? - 1/7/2008 5:44:19 PM   
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For some, they say disease- And I agree- it's tough to mainatian a proper sterile field...
 
For some- thay say scars- and true enough, I have seen the slightest of cuts leave scars (the one on my nose? cat scratch, twenty years back!)...
 
But really, IMO, it's about comitment, intimacy...
 
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RE: blood as hard limit? - 1/7/2008 5:59:16 PM   
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I'll bite. Do you spread out a tarp first so as not to stain the bed or the carpet? Because my first thought was "Not on my new Egyptian cotton sheets".

But it doesn't do anything for me or for him. We get banged up and bark our knuckles, bleeding without meaning to. So it holds no appeal, just another thing requiring band aids.


We like to use a rubber matress cover.. and a cheap $6 bottom sheet from Wal-mart. you can buy them singlely... Nice and bright white.

One use and trash.. or bleach the hell out of it if it doesnt get too bad.

Nothing like seeing a sub stretched out four pointed and dripping on crisp white sheets... Mmmmmmm.....

Plus the same sheets tend to come out when either one of us are on our moon time. no need in potentialy ruining the good linens.

We get twice the PMS in our house. Yeah! go us! *chuckles and pops more mydol*

There is a huge intimacy to bloodletting, and you are sharing so much of yourself, and your energy with the other person. I think that is why I like it.. I am an intimacy junkie..

Gwyn

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RE: blood as hard limit? - 1/7/2008 6:44:32 PM   
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diseases are easily tested for and prevented against with just a few measures.. and i dont mean necessarily swapping of blood .. just drawing of such
There are also diseases and syndromes that cause excessive bleeding such as diabetes. So, obviously someone that has an issue of that sort would probably be well served by that limit.

Next, I consider allowing someone to run an incredibly sharp knife over my skin, a high trust thing. I'm not going to just let any person who walks up to me do it.

As a limit, I have listed "no copious amounts of blood". I don't mind blood that comes from vampire gloves or the light flecking from flogging. I just don't want anything that will permantly stain my carpet. I have a syndrome that causes excessive scarring, so no cutting. Needles are a phobia of mine, so they're a hard limit.

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RE: blood as hard limit? - 1/7/2008 9:04:40 PM   
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I certainly wouldnt do blood play.  Not with the heart condition that i have... lose too much of it and can lead to serious issues.  


What about a few drops from you finger? Lacets from a glucose pen such as Accu Check or Free Style only cause a few drops. They only break the capilaries of the skin and are normally used at the tip of your fingers.

Other than that, what about just being eaten out while on your period? Playing with blood from the sacraed cave is still a form of Blood Play. 

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RE: blood as hard limit? - 1/12/2008 9:28:25 AM   
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In contrast I could never bleed someone else.

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RE: blood as hard limit? - 1/12/2008 9:54:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		It is simply something I have no interest in, there is no arousal from ,  I have no fear of blood, have no qualms about being awake and seeing minor  surgeries done on myself, I have skinned animals that were hunted but if I am not getting anything out of .....why would I want too? 

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RE: blood as hard limit? - 1/12/2008 10:42:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		I agree.. i am into the whole blood thing and its hard to find people into it.. usually people into extreme S&M are usually into it.

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RE: blood as hard limit? - 1/12/2008 12:03:09 PM   
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i know these things are all a matter of personal preference, im just curious as to why so many ppl have a hard limit against blood??????


Blood can be scary to people.  Blood can equal "danger" and cause our fight or flight instincts to rise up in an adrenaline rush.  We learn very early in life that if we bleed we are hurt.  Ever see a little one fall over and skin his knee?  He gets right up and is ready to keep going, until he sees the blood - then the tears come.  As adults people pass out from the sight of blood, or get queasy.  Blood is sacred.  It represents life, and can do so metaphorically, spiritually, or literally.  It is no wonder to me it is a limit for many.

On a personal level, he very rarely draws my blood.  When he does, it is extremely intense for me.  Such activity has been more about fear and power and trust than about the blood itself.  Once he drew a rather significant amount of blood from my thigh and fed it to me from the tip of his blade.  It was powerful and erotic, and made me feel powerless to him. He can take my blood, and he can feed it right back to me using the very tool he used to extract it.

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RE: blood as hard limit? - 1/13/2008 8:06:25 AM   
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diseases are easily tested for and prevented against with just a few measures.. and i dont mean necessarily swapping of blood .. just drawing of such


First, STDs aren't the only communicable diseases, so testing for them certainly doesn't cover all the bases.

Second, one of the greatest dangers in this activity is infection of the person whose blood is being "drawn", as you put it. Testing them isn't going to do anything to prevent infection, and unless you're using sterile equipment in a sterile environment, they are at risk. Many who list blood as a hard limit are wisely exercising caution by not assuming that their potential partners would be taking all the necessary precautions.

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RE: blood as hard limit? - 4/29/2008 6:19:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sorry, but folks worried acquiring disease from blood are niave.  You need to have an open wound (even on a mucous membrane), it needs to be wet/fresh, and a lot of exposure required (volume and time). 
Even grinding two open wounds/two people is extemely hard to pass pathogens.  Google "Grinding bloody wounds together".

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RE: blood as hard limit? - 4/29/2008 6:39:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: bornsynner
i know these things are all a matter of personal preference, im just curious as to why so many ppl have a hard limit against blood??????

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RE: blood as hard limit? - 4/29/2008 6:39:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		I love blood play.. I'm dismayed that so many seem to have it as a hard limit.. particularly people who admit to having little or no experience...

as to safety.. from the things I've seen over the years in dungeons.. blood play is and can be a hell of a lot safer than some of the things I've seen..

uhmm.. and read up, watch go to demos.. not all blood play is about coming into contact with another's blood.. in fact I rarely do these days.. I only did when I had a fluid bonded partner of many years.. and even then it was rare...

as to naive.. while most blood borne disease do require a lot of work to acquire, hep C lasts a long time.. so I wouldn't consider it naive to guard against it

to each their own... its fun stuff for me...

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RE: blood as hard limit? - 4/29/2008 6:51:38 PM   
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as to safety.. from the things I've seen over the years in dungeons.. blood play is and can be a hell of a lot safer than some of the things I've seen..

My dad was a doctor (he passed away) and my understanding from his research is that unless it squirts in your eye or an open wound, bloodsports is safer than oral sex.  Being an ex blood labtech, I handled stranger's body fluids for a living safely...  not that I suggest you run around cutting on starngers.    

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RE: blood as hard limit? - 4/29/2008 7:00:55 PM   
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RE: blood as hard limit? - 4/29/2008 7:07:38 PM   
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RE: blood as hard limit? - 4/29/2008 7:14:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm apathetic about blood.  It's not erotic to me in anyway but since I worked in an urgent care for years (and have kids) it doesn't squick me out either.

I think that I would not like blood play because it seems to be quick and intense, I prefer activities that build and last for a while.

m'Lord hates the sight of blood, it just totally squicks him out and if he accidentally draws blood during play, the scene stops because he's convinced that I need medical attention so since I've never liked the intrusion in the middle of the sceen, I always hope that he never draws blood.

Interestingly enough he wants to expiriment with knife play, but for him it would be all about the sensation.

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