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Other forums - 1/6/2008 8:40:30 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


Posts: 2464
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From: North Carolina
Status: offline 		So tonight I was feeling especially masochistic and went to another alternative lifestyle website and engaged in a thread on a forum. The topic got extremely heated and insults started flying.

People can talk crap about cm all they want but as I have experienced tonight this is the only place I get some intelligible feedback on forums. 

Most people debate issues intelligibly here and I just haven't found that on other sites. Has anyone else experienced this?

This isn't a question as much as it is a statement of my opinion. Please I can't take anymore flaming wars right now. I am still trying put out the fire from the other site.

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RE: Other forums - 1/6/2008 8:46:11 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		LOL..well darn it!!..not sure if those of us want to be the nicest on a BDSM site.........Tempting

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RE: Other forums - 1/6/2008 8:55:49 PM   
Daddysredhead


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From: Northern (yet still part of the South) Virginia
Status: offline 		They are not weal, twue fowums... 

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RE: Other forums - 1/6/2008 9:19:40 PM   
AquaticSub


Posts: 14867
Joined: 12/27/2005
Status: offline 		Under the thick layer of cranky that is CM there is a gooey center...

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RE: Other forums - 1/6/2008 9:21:31 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		It often depends upon the moderators/owners setting the right tone, not interfering unless necessary and then doing so ruthlessly, and over time like attracting like.

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RE: Other forums - 1/6/2008 9:30:45 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


Posts: 2464
Joined: 1/26/2006
From: North Carolina
Status: offline 		Seems this was a "mod free" area they are trying. Yeah, don't think it worked out. I admit I contributed to the flaming, once it got rolling it never stopped. So now people hate each other and so on. Life on a forum I guess.

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RE: Other forums - 1/6/2008 9:33:00 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


Posts: 5824
Status: offline 		No other forum is as good as this one 

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RE: Other forums - 1/7/2008 2:59:26 AM   
MissMorrigan


Posts: 2309
Joined: 1/15/2005
Status: offline 		I am a member of another site and have engaged others in the forums there too. I find it caters more for those that know one another on the scene side of things, and the general tone of threads started are less insightful than they are here on Collarme. The calibre of conversation here is far greater, I'm frequently given new perspectives and challenges to existing trains of thought, and I enjoy the many different personalities I encounter.

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RE: Other forums - 1/7/2008 3:07:59 AM   
ELUSIVE1


Posts: 536
Joined: 9/11/2005
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

So tonight I was feeling especially masochistic and went to another alternative lifestyle website and engaged in a thread on a forum. The topic got extremely heated and insults started flying.

People can talk crap about cm all they want but as I have experienced tonight this is the only place I get some intelligible feedback on forums. 

Most people debate issues intelligibly here and I just haven't found that on other sites. Has anyone else experienced this?

This isn't a question as much as it is a statement of my opinion. Please I can't take anymore flaming wars right now. I am still trying put out the fire from the other site.

Yeah I quit going there a while ago-- the snarky one from Alaska finally made me realize I didn't want any friends there...on the bright side, the one with the Eagle avatar over there trolls around here frequently, I have spoken with him..


< Message edited by ELUSIVE1 -- 1/7/2008 3:10:30 AM >

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RE: Other forums - 1/7/2008 3:17:49 AM   
Evility


Posts: 915
Joined: 12/19/2007
Status: offline 		One of the other big fetish websites suffered a hard crash the week before Christmas and was down for several days. I came over here to CM to look around and found that the forums here are generally much better behaved. There are a few flaws common to both forums (and I suspect to any fetish forum) such as the anti-poly threads thinly cloaked as "questions" but beyond that I think this forum is far and away much better than theirs regarding content and the actual forum software is easier to navigate.

Another commonality is that the servers on both of these sites are both slower than molasses in January.



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RE: Other forums - 1/7/2008 5:33:31 AM   
pompeii


Posts: 934
Joined: 1/4/2007
From: Silicon Valley, San Jose, California
Status: offline 		I generally do the alt chat and the cm message boards. Dunno why. The norcal on alt is a decent chat, friendly, small (about 20 pervs at any one time). I never tried the cm chat. Is there a norcal room?

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RE: Other forums - 1/7/2008 5:43:42 AM   
PanthersMom


Posts: 2215
Joined: 11/26/2007
From: Cleveland Ohio
Status: offline 		personalities can clash anywhere, one site isn't necessarily better than another, but possibly the personalities that haunt the boards are a different class of pervs.  "birds of a feather....." as they say. 

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RE: Other forums - 1/7/2008 7:08:28 AM   
Owner4SexSlave


Posts: 1311
Joined: 4/4/2007
Status: offline 		In terms of BDSM forums on the net!  CM has been my favorite, no matter how bad it might seem to get at times.

In terms of forums in general, the better ones tend to be moderated and not some free for all.  

Any forum on any subject can result in heated flaming without moderation.

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RE: Other forums - 1/7/2008 7:27:01 AM   
breatheasone


Posts: 4004
Joined: 7/14/2007
Status: offline 		I hear ya on the "other sites" thing...I survived alt.com, just barely LOL. Talk about baptism by fire! I was completely new to the scene and ended up at that God forsaken site. 

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RE: Other forums - 1/7/2008 7:40:41 AM   
verysweet


Posts: 128
Status: offline 		I was never a big user of  "A.com", but I have been a poster/lurker on "B.com" longer than I care to remember.  The snarkiness there doesn't phase me a bit, and I've forged some rather interesting internet friendships.

Having said that, the general tone of this forum seems to be more welcoming and a lot less 'uber-cliquey'. 





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RE: Other forums - 1/8/2008 11:03:11 AM   
Cameron23


Posts: 3
Joined: 11/7/2007
Status: offline 		In the short time I've been here, there does seem to be a little more acceptance of switches and alternative lifestyles in general.  I guess I will just have to keep coming here to find out if that is true.

Cameron

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RE: Other forums - 1/8/2008 11:07:12 AM   
Amaros


Posts: 1363
Joined: 7/25/2005
Status: offline 		Competition is good, but too much competition increases gonadal behaviors: balls swell, brains shut down - it isn't pretty.

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