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I do see the value of such a list as being valuable especially to a newer sub/slave, as it will in all possibility raise points she has not thought of. How it is presented is another matter. If the list is used as a memory jogger, tghen its fine, if its used as an interogation tool welllllllllllllllllllllllll heh heh heh heh she may end up having the tables turned with me in any case and be interrogated herself and completely mind fucked. If however it is used as part of an in depth discussion where both of us were sharing what each of us expected in the potential relationship, and what the limits were etc.. I'd think highly of some one who had taked the time to get it all together on paper, which is exactly what I'd have done too. Remember this is not part of the earlt getting top know you stage but at the level where we are covering the specifics in depth and dotting "I"'s and crossing "T"'s

IronBear