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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 1/8/2008 1:04:14 PM   
MsSaskia


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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 1/8/2008 2:21:16 PM   
MissMagnolia


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Status: offline 		It's entirely possible that he could have snagged his bladder. I was in nursing for many years, and in the ER saw first hand the kinds of things that can happen to males and females when they start poking things in places that nature didn't intend should get poked.

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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 1/8/2008 2:39:58 PM   
MistressOfGa


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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

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ORIGINAL: VMistressV

Last night I cybered with my slave and he stuck somethig down his urethra and didnt realize until afterwards that he had started bleeding. He stuck it down too far I guess and hurt himself. Its still bleedinga little when he urinates and im growing concerned. can the urethra safely heal itself pretty quickly?or does it need to be rinsed with something?
I think you understand why he hasnt gone to the doctor yet.


I understand mistakes happen.   But you further compound the mistake by explaining that he has not gone to doc??? wtf.  One would think that his health is your # 1 concern.  To make matters even worse to seek medical advice on a bdsm channel.  I question your sanity.  Stay away from me.  SHEESH

BadOne


I agree with this the Bad One here. Cyber play is one thing, but what you did was cross it over into a real time situation that now requires medical attention. Stop worrying about his family and PAY HIS BILL! This should be your number one concern right now, not what his parents think! He was under your guidence when this event happened and the fact that you "didn't know" it had happened til he did it, is NO excuse. It is your responsibility to know what your sub is doing and to ensure his well being at all times. This is just carelessness at it's worse and the fact that you even have to ASK other Dominants what to DO now, is just so sad.
My best suggestion is for you is to stop playing with things you know NOTHING about. Get some more knowledge about what you are doing, before you seriously hurt one of your online subs (If it hasn't happened already).
 
This is rediculous.

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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 1/8/2008 3:15:52 PM   
Griswold


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ORIGINAL: VMistressV

I only thought about it because he told me he used to do it. Otherwise I wouldn't have ever thought of it.
I'm not concerned about the doctor. I'm concerned about his nosey and ultra conservative family. who will want to know about the penis doctor bill.
and hes a bad liar


Well, let's consider those comments:

1)  I doubt sincerely that the bill will be written out along the lines of "Penis repair bill, $217.00".

2)  I hope he's an adult, and if he is, he certainly has the right to see his bills owed independantly (without any other family members purview), and if he doesn't, he should probably ask his Mom for a monthly stipend solely for things such as; "I'm an adult now Mom, but...I don't make enough to pay for stupid mistakes that I might make when I'm naked with my girlfriend...so, can I please have say, $250.00 a month allowance for the next 2 years so I can do really stupid stuff with my girlfriend while we're naked and then I can pay for them with your money so they never have to send a bill for you to read on Sunday morning with your tea" [when you typically go over bills} and then suddenly scream at the top of your lungs while everyone else {including my sister who's 37 and also still living at home} is sleeping (or trying to) "Hey BILLY!!!! What the fuck is this bill from the hospital about you getting a coat hanger or some such stuck inside your dick?????")
 
(Just a thought).

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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 1/8/2008 3:21:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VMistressV

I only thought about it because he told me he used to do it. Otherwise I wouldn't have ever thought of it.
I'm not concerned about the doctor. I'm concerned about his nosey and ultra conservative family. who will want to know about the penis doctor bill.
and hes a bad liar


just how old is this guy?  and why would his family SEE his doctor's bill?  does he still live at home with mommy and daddy?  good grief!  i've handled all my own doctor/hospital bills since i left home to go to college.

though i'd never do something as stupid as that, i would NOT have come online and disclosed it, either!!  i agree with other posters, doing something like that without some training (from medical/kink folks) is not wise....not wise at all.   

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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 1/8/2008 3:46:39 PM   
aeleberaNB


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*squeaks and shudders*

i have played with many a Master before being collared by Master and there were times i was nervous about what we did, so asked many a question as any sub or slave should do, and in my opinion a Mistress and/or Master should also do.

just cause someone says they've done something before does not always mean they have done it and if they have then they should know to be careful and take precautions when doing things like this.

i know that if i did something Master told me to, and i started bleeding or was sick afterward, that He would not only order me to the doctor but would ask what the doc had to say afterwards... in fact there are times Master has to remind me to go because i hate doctors with a passion and when i say that i have gone, it is not because He does not trust me but because He cares and is concerned about what is going on with His slave's health and well being.

as it was said: DO NOT ASK THOSE WHO ARE NOT MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS FOR MEDICAL ADVICE AND GET THE GUY TO A DOC.

as my Master, if anything were to happen to me i know He would make damn sure i went even if He had to drag me there kicking and screaming.

do NOT play with that which you do NOT know.

i will also say communication, Communication and COMMUNICATION are a big part of this problem because neither of you seem to have asked questions of the other in regards to this type of play.. as i said just because he said he's done it before does NOT mean he has done it before. he needs to go get it checked before his kidneys end up being damaged and you need to make sure he gets his ass there NOW.

wishing all well,
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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 1/8/2008 4:17:08 PM   
Prinsexx


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ORIGINAL: VMistressV

Also any suggestions of cheap, flexible things we could put up there? of the tiny variety?
I've seen catheters but they require perscriptions dont they? and i dont want any holes cause im not interested in "water sports"


Try
http://www.shop.gaytoz.com/

or similar (you gayboyz rock)
They have got everything imagineable to stick up wherevere you want to stick it up.....

and wash it out in the process

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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 1/8/2008 4:55:51 PM   
MsSaskia


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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

quote:

ORIGINAL: VMistressV

Also any suggestions of cheap, flexible things we could put up there? of the tiny variety?
I've seen catheters but they require perscriptions dont they? and i dont want any holes cause im not interested in "water sports"


Try
http://www.shop.gaytoz.com/
 
or similar (you gayboyz rock)
They have got everything imagineable to stick up wherevere you want to stick it up.....

and wash it out in the process


I haven't found the part of the site that sells urethral toys.  A little help?

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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 1/8/2008 6:13:03 PM   
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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 1/8/2008 7:05:05 PM   
Daddysredhead


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Status: offline 		I concur with the other ladies who have said that going to the doctor with him or letting him have your credit card to pay for the visit is the best thing to do.  I think allowing him to refrain from going to the doctor is not wise on your part.  He needs to be concerned for his health and if he isn't going to be more proactive about it, it's your job to step in and force the issue.

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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 1/8/2008 7:20:02 PM   
MissA


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ORIGINAL: BabyDollVanIsle

"I think you understand why he hasnt gone to the doctor yet"

ROTFLMAO

i shouldn't laugh.. the poor guy..

at least urine is (usually) sterile and a disinfectant.


True the acidity of urine discourages bacterial growth but it does not disinfect per se.

There are more serious concerns here depending on what he used and how deep he stuck it. Non-sterile items introduce bacteria that could cause and infection which untreated could possibly lead to death. He's even more at risk if he did some kind of physical damage to himself like a tear or something. 

I'd rather him make up an excuse for the Dr. bill anyday. People get UTI's all the time for a myriad of reasons - no need to admit he was plumbing his plumbing.

Suck it up, see a Dr. & don't play with things you don't know enough about! There's lots of information for urethral play and SAFE items you can buy to stick in there.

Miss A

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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 1/9/2008 5:36:34 AM   
MissA


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ORIGINAL: VMistressV

oh wait a minute. He jacked himself off with it in there, that probably did it.


 I can only imagine what might have happened...

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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 1/9/2008 11:05:22 AM   
TigressFL


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ORIGINAL: VMistressV

Last night I cybered with my slave and he stuck somethig down his urethra and didnt realize until afterwards that he had started bleeding. He stuck it down too far I guess and hurt himself. Its still bleedinga little when he urinates and im growing concerned. can the urethra safely heal itself pretty quickly?or does it need to be rinsed with something?
I think you understand why he hasnt gone to the doctor yet.


I don't understand why you allowed him to do something that you did not know what to tell him to do *if* something went wrong OR he at least knew what to do *if* something went wrong. I think you made a poor judgment call on this one and I hope you will use this situation as a learning experience to not allow this type of situation to happen again. In the mean time I think the boy needs to see a doctor and frankly your "excuses" are lame to me. If you or he are unable or unwilling to deal with the possible and obviously real consequences of your actions then you are not ready to engage in those types of things. Next time you are going to do something kinky/risky make sure you are prepared with a realistic and responsible plan of action should something go wrong BEFORE you do it or allow him to do it. Don't be stupid and depend on total strangers in a forum to tell you what to do when things go wrong, do your homework first. Go take a CPR class, invest in your education. You are not dealing with a robot you are dealing with a human being. Now get the boy to the doctor's good grief.

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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 1/9/2008 4:11:10 PM   
Griswold


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ORIGINAL: TigressFL

quote:

ORIGINAL: VMistressV

Last night I cybered with my slave and he stuck somethig down his urethra and didnt realize until afterwards that he had started bleeding. He stuck it down too far I guess and hurt himself. Its still bleedinga little when he urinates and im growing concerned. can the urethra safely heal itself pretty quickly?or does it need to be rinsed with something?
I think you understand why he hasnt gone to the doctor yet.


I don't understand why you allowed him to do something that you did not know what to tell him to do *if* something went wrong OR he at least knew what to do *if* something went wrong. I think you made a poor judgment call on this one and I hope you will use this situation as a learning experience to not allow this type of situation to happen again. In the mean time I think the boy needs to see a doctor and frankly your "excuses" are lame to me. If you or he are unable or unwilling to deal with the possible and obviously real consequences of your actions then you are not ready to engage in those types of things. Next time you are going to do something kinky/risky make sure you are prepared with a realistic and responsible plan of action should something go wrong BEFORE you do it or allow him to do it. Don't be stupid and depend on total strangers in a forum to tell you what to do when things go wrong, do your homework first. Go take a CPR class, invest in your education. You are not dealing with a robot you are dealing with a human being. Now get the boy to the doctor's good grief.

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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 1/9/2008 4:20:27 PM   
Prinsexx


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If my dick was bleeding I'd beeline for the doctor faster than if I had a nail sticking out of my head. 


errr derrrrrrrrrrrrr you mean there's no blood from a nail sticking out of your head......

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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 2/3/2008 10:38:47 AM   
Arceye


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Status: offline 		Just a general observation. I would never worry about what my doctor or hospital staff might say if I had to have medical attention as a result of play gone wrong. Doctors and nurses it seems to me a) are grown up and b) seen it all before.

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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 2/3/2008 10:44:28 AM   
CuriousLord


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Status: offline 		Can't you just order him to overeat until he's obese and has to piss out a kidney stone?

But, jeeeeze... Yeah, I'd really suggest just avoiding that sort of thing in the future.  Doctor = good.

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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 2/3/2008 10:47:35 AM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		I feel if you do any kind of play then you should be mature enough to go to the dr if something goes wrong. And if you can't handle the thought of going to a dr when something goes wrong then don't play.

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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 2/3/2008 12:11:23 PM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		Well good gracious, since this happened a month ago, I hope he isn't still bleeding from that same episode.  Maybe there's new maneuvers to dissect?

Cali


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RE: BLEEDING FROM THE URETHRA! HELP! - 2/3/2008 3:54:14 PM   
MistressVnus


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Status: offline 		Im curious....this thread was originally in the "Health/Safety" forum.  And is about a month old.  Why was it move here?
Moderators...can you explain.  Not that you need to.  Just curious.



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