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lusciouslips19 -> RE: Whats wrong ? (1/8/2008 5:20:33 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Stephann
Hi Signus,
Why are you approching this from such a heavily D/s influenced view?
I think it's too often that people are 'in search of a sub' or 'I'm looking for my Master.' As Taggard said, it's nearly futile (though I don't think for the reason and approach he suggested.)
Writing a potential slave/submissive as if they were a person you met on, say, Match.com might take a lot more effort and time, but it'll yield the kind of communication that allows intimacy to grow. If you're writing a slave from a "I am UbarLordMasterofAll and I have written to inform you that you should drop to your belly and crawl to Me, worm." you're not likely to get any sort of meaningful, long term relationship out of it. Instead, taking the "I'm a XX year old dominant, and I really liked what you said in your profile about hiking; I'm an avid hiker, and love being outdoors. I'm a musician and love playing guitar, and I play regular gigs in my area. I also love reading; mostly historical fiction, with the occasional Grisham novel tossed in." Explaining who you are, and what about yourself you think a prospective submissive/slave would find interesting will land you a much higher quality of communication.
While you're at it, stop writing submissives/slaves who only have a couple of sentences of "I'm a real no-limits slave looking for a harsh cruel Master for immediate relocation." Use some logic here; what sort of woman would actually write this? A woman with no job, family, future, or money? Someone who's greatest desire is to be kept in a box under your bed? Trust me, these profiles are about as genuine as a Rolex sold on a street corner. Don't even waste your time.
Good luck,
Stephan
Bravo Master Stephan.
I can see why you are so well loved and respected. You give it, you get it.[:)]
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