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Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/8/2008 8:17:13 PM   
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My question is it possible, if so HOW?!
 
My current partner has done this one time [2 back to back and he didn't get soft]; we are hoping it wasn't a one time thing, instead we want it to become a regular thing if that's possible.
 
I'm VERY multiple orgasmic, which from past partners is a good thing for a woman, especially a slave to be; yet, this is something we both want to share in.  He has 'threatened' to tie me up to the bed until this is accomplished {promises promises promises}, but, we both work and have lives, so me being tied to the bed for a few weeks is not very practical, a few days is already being plotted from what I gleaned the other night.
 
If anyone has any ideas as to HOW a man CAN orgasm multiple times in one 'session' I would appreciate the suggestions or advice. 

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/8/2008 8:38:33 PM   
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Well, I'm able to have multiple orgasms on a regular basis. It surprised my newest sub when I came and was able to keep going. Typically after my second orgasm I've found is not going limp, but getting super sensitive immediately following the orgasm. The best remedy is a standard lubricated condom which helps take some of the sensation away. After the third it starts to physically hurt.

I'm able to do it mostly by will power alone but it does help if after climax, I stay inside her but slow the pace day alot(just small slow movements). At this point she uses her hands and mouth to stimulate other erogenous areas. This gives my body a few minutes to relax and cool down but still keeps me aroused.

Good luck on trying to achieve this yourself

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/8/2008 8:40:34 PM   
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My Former had orgasms all the time! He is 60 almost 61, a vegetarian and has no problems staying hard, cuming when ever he wanted to, sometimes two or three times where ever he wanted it. I thought he was pretty amazing... but all the black men I even knew were pretty much like this, regardless their age. I have yet to meet a caucasian man that can stay hard and cum like that...

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/8/2008 8:50:32 PM   
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Orgasms are simply involuntary muscle spasms- not ejaculation.  Once you train your mind and body to separate the two, it's not too hard to have the experience of multiples.

Or, some people just get lucky.

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/8/2008 10:52:01 PM   
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FR ~~

My ex can do it, and he's a white boy (LOL).  He told me that he would hold the base of his penis after orgasm, I am guessing to keep the blood in it so he didn't lose his erection.  After a while of practicing this, he was able to maintain the erection by willpower (and training) alone.  He could ejaculate with each subsequent orgasm, but the quantity diminished with each one.

By the time we met, he already had this "skill", so I didn't see the training first hand.

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/8/2008 10:53:14 PM   
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OK but I can wiggle my erect penis with no hands and that takes at least as much natural talent.

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/8/2008 10:57:29 PM   
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There is a book you might find helpful = The Multi-Orgasmic Man

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/8/2008 10:58:13 PM   
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LMAO.  And can ya write your name in the snow with it, without using your hands? 

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 12:40:05 AM   
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Very few of us can resist a good blow job right after hard-packing sex ... if that doesn't get it up for the second round, nothing else will.

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 2:00:34 AM   
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Master can and normally does stay hard after his first orgasm.  He can go a couple of rounds right after eachother, though seems to me that his second or third time he has a harder time reaching orgasm and each time has less ejaculat.  I actually think he could go four or five times, but normally half way into the second time I'm ready to be done.  So, I haven't proved my theory, but yep he's multiple.

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 2:14:36 AM   
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LOL... gawd...  I'm a freak that loves to get off a couple times during a session.  It's almost like I can't get enough.   I've actually been asked on several occasions why I have not cummed when in fact I already had.   If I'm really sexually attracted to somebody I will cum and cum again.  Staying hard. 

I have to have a very intense killer orgasm to take me down. 

Now for some tips.. this is what I find keeps it going for me.

1. as long as I'm well rested and not tired as hell.
2. as long as I'm not Stressed out.
3. as long as there are not currently any major problems in the relationship.
4. as long as I'm not sick.
5. Doing activities that turn me on to no end.
6. Eye Candy... seeing WTF is going on and how sexy or slutty looking she is.
7. Desire responses and reactions from my partner.


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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 2:22:54 AM   
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Meh. I think more vitality will just help. Probably excerise.

The "holding back" sentiment can also contribute to it. It'll decrease the satisfaction of the individual orgasms, but it'll allow for more.

A strong sexual excitement can also help.

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 2:58:22 AM   
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I generally don't find it that hard to orgasm (and ejeculate) multiple times, if given a few minutes in between (and sometimes not).  I find that a combination of a good diet, plenty of sleep and reasonable amount of exercise helps a lot.  Rest of it is just the mindset. 

Take plenty of time, and don't just "turn off" after you come, and you'd be surprised how much more you'll be able to do.  And practice getting it up after ejaculating.  Practice makes perfect.


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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 4:18:45 AM   
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creatrix. Does the word viagra mean anything to you. Probably what your partner was useing.

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 4:26:25 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

LMAO.  And can ya write your name in the snow with it, without using your hands? 

Cali
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lol... I was thinking the very same thing!

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 4:37:11 AM   
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There's a lot of hype about multiple male orgasms based on little more than dictionary hucksterism that "orgasm and ejaculation are different."

Masters and Johnson pointed out in "Human Sexual Response" that the orgasm is a two-stage process where the second stage involves, among other things, ejaculation.

It is possible to stop at the beginning of stage one, not go into stage two, and call that an "orgasm." I can do it. You can also call a loaf of white bread a "feast."

Dealing with reality instead of hype, however, the male refractory period seems to occur because of a post-orgasmic release of the hormone prolactin. It's been hypothesized that genuinely high-performing males release much less prolactin than others. Similarly, the increase in the refractory periods as men age can be attributed to the fact that post-orgasmic release of prolactin in minimal in the younger male and increases in the older one.

There's one case in the clinical literature where a fellow who released little or no prolactin ejaculated six times in 36 minutes. And that was in a lab setting being observed by strange people, something not really conducive to high performances.

The issue of multiple orgasms -- or reduced refractory periods -- is informally being attacked in two ways today.

There's a bit of an experimental sexual underground. There's a condition called "hyperprolactemia" where the body secretes too much prolactin so there are drugs to decrease prolactin production. Some men are using those drugs. Anecdotal evidence shows they work to reduce the refractory period to a considerable extent. But there are no studies I'm aware of concerning the effects of anti-prolactin drugs on male orgasm.

The second form of experimentation is more focused. Prolactin and dopamine are two opposites. Prolactin inhibits dopamine production; dopamine inhibits prolactin. A new class of anti-depressants called "dopamine reuptake inhibitors" are on the market, including Welbutrin (bupropion).

The serotonin drugs (SSRIs) like Prozac are often associated with male erectile dysfunction and inhibited orgasm. Welbutrin is advertised by its manufacturer to "have a low incidence of sexual side effects."

For a considerable number of men Welbutrin has a negative incidence; it does not in itself produce multiple orgasms but it certainly boosts post-orgasmic sexual desire and reduces the refractory period.

It seems to me that the combination of prolactin-inhibitors and dopamine-inducers is pointing the way to increased male orgasms. Sleep, diet, exercise, and playing with words do not.

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 5:09:14 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Petronius

It seems to me that the combination of prolactin-inhibitors and dopamine-inducers is pointing the way to increased male orgasms. Sleep, diet, exercise, and playing with words do not.

Sleep, diet and exercise do have an effect on a person's chemical balance, including seratonin and prolactin production. 

Not that I'd know, exactly.  I was only referring to the fact that you recover more quickly if you are healthy.


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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 5:30:48 AM   
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I've always lasted long and often have two, sometimes three orgasms. After sex, or during a break in sex, I've always had my partner stroke and caress my hard on, and I suppose it's trained by mind and body that I can staty hard after an orgasm. That may play some role?

I'm sure some of it is just genetic and as someone has pointed out already, being relaxed, well rested, good nutirition and life generally being real positive.

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 6:03:21 AM   
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quote:

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My Former had orgasms all the time! He is 60 almost 61, a vegetarian and has no problems staying hard, cuming when ever he wanted to, sometimes two or three times where ever he wanted it. I thought he was pretty amazing... but all the black men I even knew were pretty much like this, regardless their age. I have yet to meet a caucasian man that can stay hard and cum like that...

I'm sorry.  We obviously haven't run in the same circles because I have - more than one actually.  Race has nothing to do with it as far as I can tell.  The vegetarian part probably has much more impact on it than skin color.  Good health is conducive to good sex!!!!

luci

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 12:23:23 PM   
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Condoms have a major impact on me. Practice and patience over the years has gotten me just about to the point where I can cum at will, either quickly or hold it for a very very long time. But once it's shot, I've gotta rest a bit. I think my personal best was 20 minutes between sessions (boned her, whipped her and got incredibly turned on, boned her again), and 5-6 total in a 6 hour period. As others have said, with more delay and less produced on subsequent shots. It's a lot easier to force myself to cum quickly in the first round than in the 4th.

Mainly for me is sensitivity afterwards. I usually can't keep going, there's just too much sensation to the point that it's painful. But, I do also know that if I can work through that period for a few minutes afterwards I can keep it up and keep going. I've never kept it up and going for two consecutive shots, though.

More than anything I think I psyche myself out when I have a condom on. Sort of an "Oh shit, there's jizz in there...I'd better stop in case it slips off or some dribbles out or something." No such feelings when no condoms are involved, so it's a lot easier to keep going.

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