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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 1:00:02 PM

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All these babes talkin' about my tallywhacker...

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LMAO. And can ya write your name in the snow with it, without using your hands?

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lol... I was thinking the very same thing!

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 1:02:26 PM

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Yeah, yeah...you love it....

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 1:21:19 PM

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All these babes talkin' about my tallywhacker...

And???

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 2:24:03 PM

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Yup,
Masage to relax the muscles involved so that they dont clamp down to hard.
A really good build up to it.
The Zen like mental acceptance of fate of the orgasm.
Making a lot of noise.
Its kind of like a wave... normaly you get thrown off and out of the water so its kind of like mentaly being able to stay with it so to speak.
Proper stimulation after the first orgasm as to not over stimulate and cause pain.
Trust that the woman I am with will know how to properly stimulate me as not to cause pain and knowing what she is going to do while I am having an orgasm because for some reason woman have this thing sometimes where they change pace and what not durring the orgasm and I dont know why they think that id dosnt fuck us up even though it allways screws them up.

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 2:43:06 PM

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OK but I can wiggle my erect penis with no hands and that takes at least as much natural talent.

Mmmmmm I'll bet some women can make that erect penis wiggle with no hands too.

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 4:32:34 PM

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LuckyAlbatross is right – while ejaculation and orgasm are connected, they’re not married to each other. Learn to separate the two and you’re on your way to whole new realms of ecstasy.

In my younger days – when I was, shall we say, less worldly – I had the good fortune of meeting a wonderful woman, fifteen years my senior, who educated me about a few things. When, during conversation, I mentioned the old canard that only women can have multiple orgasms, she laughed and then proceeded to instruct me.

First, she told me, there is a definite quantity versus quality relationship. You can get off every day if you want but if you let the juices simmer for a couple of days...

Second, lots of foreplay with several occasions of coming close and then backing off to cool the jets a little.

Third, when its near time to launch – resist the orgasm. Resist it with everything you got. You’re going to lose eventually but the longer you hold out... That’s the key, she said, the longer you can hold yourself on the brink, the greater and longer it’s going to be.

Fourth, when you do orgasm, surrender to it completely, don’t hold anything back.

We then proceeded to the practical portion of the instruction. At first I thought I had done something wrong when I had ejaculated several seconds before the first of three orgasms hit but she assured me that I was off to a good start and that it would only get better with practice (I asked if we could schedule the next practice session right then and there).

Looking back I realize that I owe that woman a lot. If I had never met her my sex life would,’t have been half as great as it has been.

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 4:41:34 PM

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At first I thought I had done something wrong when I had ejaculated several seconds before the first of three orgasms hit

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thank you for the post...but i missed something, how were the multiple orgasms produced? did you ejaculate three full times at once?

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 5:23:01 PM

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thank you for the post...but i missed something, how were the multiple orgasms produced? did you ejaculate three full times at once?

No. I ejaculated but still felt like I was on the brink. I was suspended on the brink for several seconds then the first orgasm hit, an incredibly intense long one. There were a few seconds when I started to come down but then the second orgasm hit. Not as intense as the first one but still very damn good. This was followed by several more seconds of starting to come down when the third hit. Again, not quite as intense as the first two but wonderful in and of itself. My penis remained erect (and throbbing) the whole time but I only ejaculated that once. Today, on a good night I can hold myself on the brink for thirty to forty-five seconds (a past girlfriend of mine actually put a stopwatch to it) and I’ll have anywhere from six to nine orgasms. I’ll usually start losing my erection after the third or fourth and the last few orgasms may have as much as a minute between them are comparatively mild. Another girlfriend dubbed them aftershocks – it is an apt analogy considering the earthquake that is that first orgasm. I like to think of them as the after dinner liqueur of the whole experience.

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 5:53:07 PM

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Look for a book called ESO: How you and your lover can give each other hours of extended sexual orgasm, by Richard Rhodes and Alan Brauer.

Basically, men can achieve a capacity for multiple orgasm. Mostly, it takes practice. To get him to where he's capable of doing it on a regular basis, you're going to have to undergo a basic exercise program of regular sexual stimulation. Most of all, don't take him going soft as a sign that it's all over for the evening. Keep him interested, keep playing with him, and he'll get his interest back.

Don't fixate on his cock as the sole source of his sexuality. That feeds into the cycle of believing that he's only a sexual person when he's hard, which reinforces the idea that when the tent pole goes down, the circus is leaving town. Men have just as many nerve endings in their body as women, but are often not taught to enjoy basic physical stimulation.

Being at least vaguely healthy helps. If you don't have much energy period, you can neither put much in nor get much out of sex.

Mostly, you'll have to be patient, and keep working on it.

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 5:57:05 PM

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OK but I can wiggle my erect penis with no hands and that takes at least as much natural talent.

Anybody can do that if they just learn to isolate the correct muscle groups - which are in fact the same muscles you use in ejaculation. It's a variation on kegel exercises where you use a damp washcloth (to start with) hung off your erection to provide weight resistance. Once you get the exercises going, it allows you to have greater control over when you ejaculate and increases the amount of pleasure you experience from it. It also allows you to withdraw your testicles up into your body - a useful trick if someone is aiming for your crotch.

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 6:12:50 PM

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OK but I can wiggle my erect penis with no hands and that takes at least as much natural talent.

My ex could do that. Didn't turn me on but it was great for a laugh watch his dick wiggle and wave at me!

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 6:19:47 PM

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I had to open your profile to make sure I'm not your ex. Doesn't look like it though.

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 6:39:02 PM

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Only thing I can say. I've came 13 times in 1 night none stop. Granted I wasnt walking the next day because of the pain, but yeah.... And yes there was ejaculation each time. Main thing I can say is, Keep intrested. The man has to have the thoughts to want to do more. As physical as any person is will also reflect in thier sex life. If you are lazy @ work, Lazy @ home, Or just plain lazy, then well the sex will be the same way. There isnt no forced or riggerous training. Just take care of yourself. Also note. That extra strong make the man jump after an orgasm that so many women love to do.. NOT a good idea. You make a man jump lose his focus and thoughts of you to a "jolt" of "pain" then you got what you asked for. You wouldnt want your partner to be having sex with you in a car, someone hits your parked car and he keeps going with you 2 in the back seat.

Hope this provides food for thought.
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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 8:00:21 PM

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nahhh no viagara... he's not into any thing like that... no chemicals... all organic stuff.. he's a very young 60... when I met him I thought he was younger than me, he actually appears about 45 years old!

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 8:08:35 PM

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I had to open your profile to make sure I'm not your ex. Doesn't look like it though.

Good, cuz as I stated in another post about *ahem* check cashing that punk bastard owes me money! I might consider taking Mr. Wiggles hostage......

Don't worry, LandM, I like your elephants to much to take your Mr Wiggles; reminds me of a documentary I saw on tv.....imagine wiggling THAT thing....if you could get a woman near it....

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 8:47:18 PM

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You don't mean this, by any chance, do you?

http://www.ebaumsworld.com/video/watch/69235/

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reminds me of a documentary I saw on tv.....imagine wiggling THAT thing....if you could get a woman near it....

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 8:51:16 PM

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LOL that video was HILARIOUS!!!

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 8:53:13 PM

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LOL that video was HILARIOUS!!!

Unless you are the poor humiliated anteater!

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/9/2008 9:44:01 PM

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I remember that my former brother slave, could orgasm twice within ten minutes. But he's 19 and healthy.

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RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... - 1/10/2008 11:30:53 AM

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Thanks for the advice and for the books, I will have to go and look into them. My partner is in his late 40s and is in great shape [he has to be for what he does], we can't keep our hands off eachother when we are together and staying interested hasn't been a problem. After we have sex, we stay 'together' and keep that body-to-body contact. He gets home on the 28th, so I guess on the 29th we can try out some of the suggestions above. It looks like we will need to get away for a weekend alone, darn; we have to go up to the lake and stay in bed all damn weekend, darn. Oh well. The sacrafices we make.

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