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Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:16:04 AM   
Dnomyar


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It's been a while since I dared post on here but this really got to me. In one of the answers to a post the person claimed that it took a Real man to be a Dom. What constitutes a REAL man??  After all of this time I may be a fake. Educate me people.
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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:20:16 AM   
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well I know you gotta have a penis.......thats a must have

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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:21:42 AM   
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LOL! Some of the "real" men I've met have made the best subs.

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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:22:07 AM   
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It's in the eye of the beholder. 
It's that troublesome real word.  Again.


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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:22:21 AM   
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What is the presence of dingleberries.

I'll take "Who has a big cock" for one thousand Alex.

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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:23:58 AM   
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If he is born with a penis thats usually the first sign that he is a man. When I hear people say this sort of thing I have to laugh. What may make a man "real" in one persons eyes can make them less of a man in anothers. Personally Dominance doesn't make a "real" man for me, for me,  it is a male who is honorable, trusthworthy, open minded, intelligent, compassionate, someone who is not afraid to live their life their own way. This is just a partial list of my criteria, I am sure others will have their own.

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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:24:40 AM   
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In the last twenty years or so, there's been a wholesale adoption of "the bdsm lifestyle" by that part of Western society that resents and resists the increasing blurring of sex roles. Two formerly distinct streams are merging as traditional roles become marginalised and thus "perverted".

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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:24:58 AM   
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*sigh* alas, i believe i have failed my duties as a true slave......*bigger sigh* i attempted to help You Dnomyar, in Your quest for knowledge...But, sadly i feel as if i've failed in my duties....The only thing i could come up with when i looked at a "real man" on wikipedia was a damn french film...Damn the french!!!

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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:25:36 AM   
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Jefff what if the guy is a dickhead. Does that count?

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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:25:50 AM   
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If you'd met some of the sub males I have you'd know that just isn't true.  Let those "real men" stay tied, beaten, and generally deal with what a Domme can dish out...and still say "thank you Mistress". 

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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:27:42 AM   
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If you even felt you had to dignify that with a question....come on now, you know you are as real as you are ever going to be.

I cannot stand this real crap, what is unreal? A hologram? From now on, if anyone uses the REAL word there should be a collarme fine placed on them that goes to Mod X1 for all her efforts. (did I kiss up enough here?)

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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:27:54 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff
well I know you gotta have a penis.......thats a must have


That is such a genderist thing to say.  Just cause you have a penis doesn't make you any more of a REAL MAN(TM) than some of the female leather daddies I have met.

I am offended for all the female leather daddies...  Though they couldn't give a shit what any of us think, and would kick our asses inside and out if they did.

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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:30:23 AM   
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I always thought dingleberries were what was left on my dog's fur after she does her business...


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What is the presence of dingleberries.

I'll take "Who has a big cock" for one thousand Alex.

chia* (the pet)


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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:30:54 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff
well I know you gotta have a penis.......thats a must have


That is such a genderist thing to say.  Just cause you have a penis doesn't make you any more of a REAL MAN(TM) than some of the female leather daddies I have met.

I am offended for all the female leather daddies...  Though they couldn't give a shit what any of us think, and would kick our asses inside and out if they did.

Taggard



FUCK!!!!!!!!....I am sooooooo insensative....I feel like weeping now

Jeff

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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:32:02 AM   
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Dnomyar,

In this thread: What is "Mastering Yourself"?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1497585/mpage_1/tm.htm

topcat posted the answer to your question.

IF

IF you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: 'Hold on!'

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
' Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch,
if neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!


Rudyard Kipling.

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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:32:16 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

If you even felt you had to dignify that with a question....come on now, you know you are as real as you are ever going to be.

I cannot stand this real crap, what is unreal? A hologram? From now on, if anyone uses the REAL word there should be a collarme fine placed on them that goes to Mod X1 for all her efforts. (did I kiss up enough here?)



Sexyred's a suck ass....Sexyred's a suck ass....A cute and sexy one...But a suck ass at that....

*note only to Mod 11: i personally have nothing against sucking up to You, oh holy one*


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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:33:33 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kalista07

quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

If you even felt you had to dignify that with a question....come on now, you know you are as real as you are ever going to be.

I cannot stand this real crap, what is unreal? A hologram? From now on, if anyone uses the REAL word there should be a collarme fine placed on them that goes to Mod X1 for all her efforts. (did I kiss up enough here?)



Sexyred's a suck ass....Sexyred's a suck ass....A cute and sexy one...But a suck ass at that....

*note only to Mod 11: i personally have nothing against sucking up to You, oh holy one*



Shhhhh!! I am only a suck ass to HER, she is my new Domme.

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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:33:53 AM   
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No weeping, the tissues are being used on the forced oral thread.
 
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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:36:01 AM   
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sexyred1 if your going to kiss up at least move a little closer. Why go on the offense just because someone makes a statement that differs from your viepoint?  

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RE: Dom = real man. - 1/9/2008 9:37:09 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: cautiousiasub

I always thought dingleberries were what was left on my dog's fur after she does her business...


quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

What is the presence of dingleberries.

I'll take "Who has a big cock" for one thousand Alex.

chia* (the pet)



So then we are in total agreement I see.

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