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Jeffff -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 9:36:12 AM)
I once claimed I slipped.......but considering where I ended up......I don't think she believed me Jeff

sweetstorm -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 9:37:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff I once claimed I slipped.......but considering where I ended up......I don't think she believed me Jeff I love it when that happens. [:D]

meticulousgirl -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 10:18:03 AM)
Nope, never chuckles ~meticulous~

sunshinemiss -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 10:36:43 AM)
My big fear and I blush at this... is well, my crazy sister is into the scene also... My family thinks I went through an "exotic year or two." but then when my sister went through it and she got all in your face and the family balked, and then it didn't stop, I went underground. My big fear is that they will find out now, while I am considered the one who gives good advice and not "crazy" anymore... don't want my cover to be blown. My sister's kids bemoan their mother's "proclivities" not knowing I have the same. But they feel free talking about things with me... so I tell them that I still have friends in the scene... but if they knew, they'd ... well I'm not sure what they'd do, but I don't want to find out.... Smiles.. ummm, none of you are my sister, are you? peace

trappedinamuseum -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 10:42:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff I once claimed I slipped.......but considering where I ended up......I don't think she believed me Jeff Yeah...a guy said that to me too. Hurt like a bitch....fucker didn't even use lube.

Jeffff -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 11:15:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetstorm quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff I once claimed I slipped.......but considering where I ended up......I don't think she believed me Jeff I love it when that happens. [:D] What are you doing this weekend? SlipperyDom

KnOcala -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 11:43:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07 When i first started going to the Munches, my mother asked me where i was going that night. i told her to a Munch. She said what is a Munch. i said it's a social group for people who like to get together and eat. i've never slipped again :) Maybe your Mom was smart enough not to slip and knew what a Munch was...

sexyred1 -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 11:45:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty quote: ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07 When i first started going to the Munches, my mother asked me where i was going that night. You are not really 47, are you? You can't be... At 47, you are worried about your mother finding out you went to a munch? What is she going to do, ground you? Send you to bed without ice cream? Taggard glad someone else said it besides me. jeez.

sexyred1 -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 11:48:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub quote: ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty quote: ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07 When i first started going to the Munches, my mother asked me where i was going that night. You are not really 47, are you? You can't be... At 47, you are worried about your mother finding out you went to a munch? What is she going to do, ground you? Send you to bed without ice cream? Taggard Sighs...knowing that you are an intelligient man..I just know, that you know, the answer of why a person would deceive their parents, even at the age of 47 .....but nooooo..you went for the cheap shot!...and if I am giving you too much credit in the intelligience department..let me state it could be as simple as a daughter protecting her elderly parents from unnecessary worry and angst..Now I know you are a big believer in being up front,and honest about who you are and what you do...but sometimes at what cost??..and is this supposed honesty more important than anything else in the scheme of things??Are we such narcissists that our selves are more important than how we may protect others in our lives??As I am sure you have surmised, we are all adults on this site..we all make our own choices on how we CHOOSE to handle our own responsibilities...Tempting I don't think he was being nasty, but the question of being a grown adult begs another question of why even share going to a munch or anything else that one might be worried about "slipping" about, right? The OP tends to ask such naive questions at her age that I found his reply to be quite appropriate in this case.

Mercnbeth -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 12:36:20 PM)
yes, but mostly on purpose.[:)] some folks have a problem with the skin color of the folks their offspring decide to hang with and/or form relationships with. for others, the judgement is with regards to something else. not necessarily that you would be exposing them to your sex life, for some it isn't just about sexual proclivities, it is a relationship based on an alternative lifestyle, that just happens to include an alternative sexuality. gay, leather, M/s, poly, FemDom, the particulars aren't the issue---any choice of an "alternative" lifestyle or relationship choice, they just don't want to know...it is most likely outside of what their fundie views can accept. this slave wouldn't advise letting your sister, mother or other family member know that it meets a deep seated need for you and you really dig it when you get slapped, beaten, punched, kicked, caned, flogged, whipped, dominated, etc. and worst of all, submit to it whenever he/she demands as well as beg for it your own self. unless you happen to know they dig it too. however, your sister, mother, family member who has been accepting of your transgendered brother and that you converted to another religion as the family MIGHT be a bit more accepting about you coming out to them as participating in a relationship with non-traditional roles, responsibilities and venues to congregate with other like-minded folk. they might appreciate your honesty and enjoy that you share with them...again, assuming this isn't just about the sex---not that there is anything wrong with folks who are into it for that. some family members/friends accept you as is, and don't judge you based on what your preferences are, be it skin color or relationship choice---this slave has found that these relationships are the ones that bring the most joy.

sweetwenchie -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 12:41:31 PM)
i've slipped before... quite often actually. At least that is the reason given for any bruises i might have had at the time [8D]

ocilla -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 1:25:21 PM)
Well I am 44 and when I was in my early 20's I moved from Atlanta to San Fransisco becuase 3000 miles was the only way this 8th generation southerner who is the youngest and only female of the brood could get any freedom. I came back home a few years ago because the now elderly folks need care taking and we all now share a house that is just a little too close for comfort. My father is a don't ask don't tell guy and like trapped's folks is certain that I am a virgin even though he once caught me inflagrante delecto as a teen (can you say therapy). When I first started dating alot after moving here he tried to get the who what where when of any outing and my standard response is none of your business. At first it hurt his feelings but now he just skirts the issue so long as the cubboard is filled and I have arranged for other family to check on them as needed. Although there was a murder of a single gal hiking here recently and he mentioned that he worries about such things happening to me...I just shrug, what can you do. Mom however, is another story. She is tricky and meddling and her imagination is far more kinky and odd than I could ever think to get up too. So with her I get some repercussions that are a pain...her worrying, judgment, etc. And when she gets ahold of something some tidbit that she wants me to change or address differently she is smothering. But I have also made it clear that if she meddles she will not like what she finds and that she will just has to realize that I am grown up and that I lead my own life according to my own ways. I have been here with them for about 4 years now and it is not getting any easier I must say, but family is family. I am trying to generate a creative out that gets them taken care of and me a little more privacy but it is slow in coming.

justheather -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 4:18:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub quote: ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty quote: ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07 When i first started going to the Munches, my mother asked me where i was going that night. You are not really 47, are you? You can't be... At 47, you are worried about your mother finding out you went to a munch? What is she going to do, ground you? Send you to bed without ice cream? Taggard Sighs...knowing that you are an intelligient man..I just know, that you know, the answer of why a person would deceive their parents, even at the age of 47 .....but nooooo..you went for the cheap shot!...and if I am giving you too much credit in the intelligience department..let me state it could be as simple as a daughter protecting her elderly parents from unnecessary worry and angst..Now I know you are a big believer in being up front,and honest about who you are and what you do...but sometimes at what cost??..and is this supposed honesty more important than anything else in the scheme of things??Are we such narcissists that our selves are more important than how we may protect others in our lives??As I am sure you have surmised, we are all adults on this site..we all make our own choices on how we CHOOSE to handle our own responsibilities...Tempting I don't think he was being nasty, but the question of being a grown adult begs another question of why even share going to a munch or anything else that one might be worried about "slipping" about, right? The OP tends to ask such naive questions at her age that I found his reply to be quite appropriate in this case. Some people rely on their family members for things like childcare and transportation. Some people have the type of relationship with their parents that entails things like discussing what they are doing that day or night. And some of those people would rather not have an innocent, friendly and most likely well-intended question like "You look nice. Where are you going?" turn into a big revelation about their sex lives. When I first moved to the same town as my parents (as an adult), they were interested in my social life (or lack thereof) because they cared about how I was settling in a new area with a newborn. They wouldnt have been out of line or being nosey at all to ask me a question like "Where are you going?" if I asked them to watch my UM while I went out on a weeknight. Would "None of your business." or "Out with friends." have been an appropriate response? No, in my case it would not have been. It would have seemed rude and would have caused more confusion and hurt feelings than the situation warranted. They knew I didnt have any friends, so that answer would have led to "Oh, where did you meet them?" So, I said "Im going out with some friends I met online. They meet once a month." What's so immature/un-adult about that? I dont get why this is so difficult for you and others here to understand. Some people communicate openly with their families about lots and lots of things but don't want to "go there" when it comes to sex. I dont care what kind of sex life my parents have. They can be as kinky as the night is long. I just dont care to know about it and my own personal preference is that they not be privy to such information as may make them uncomfortable as well. People might feel just fine and dandy sharing these kinds of details with their family members, or they may not. Neither type of person is any less "grown-up" because of the way they choose to handle the situation.

ta2dqt -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 6:10:14 PM)
I dont know WHY........ but once my mom asked if I had a guy chained to my wall and was wondering if "that" was why I dont like pple coming to my appt!!! ........................ Just yesterday my mom told me.......... "when it comes to you, nothing is normal"................. DUH!!! :P

TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 7:08:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: justheather So, I said "Im going out with some friends I met online. They meet once a month." What's so immature/un-adult about that? Not a thing, and if that had been the OP's response, I would not have said a word. But that was not what she said. What she said was that when she first started going to "the Munches", she let the words "the Munches" "slip" (hence the title of the thread) into the conversation. This was not the well thought out reasoning of an adult, it was the adolescent titterings of a child-woman. She then said it had nothing to do with her mother, but rather her 11 year old son, like he would have any idea what "the Munches" were. I have been in this lifestyle some 14 years and I am not exactly sure what "the Munches" are myself. The simple point of my post was that I am highly suspicious of this poster. I don't believe she has ever been to a munch, much less has a Master. I have been dealing with fakes as long as I have been online, and she rings my fake buzzer. Taggard

KatyLied -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 7:25:01 PM)
Oh, this is not going to end well.

justheather -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 7:34:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty What she said was that when she first started going to "the Munches", she let the words "the Munches" "slip" (hence the title of the thread) into the conversation. The word "munch" (or the words "the munches") do not hold any special powers and believe me, most people have never heard the terms before and have no idea they have anything to do with BDSM. Ive called a munch a munch in front of my family before. They asked me "what's a munch" and I said "People online get together for food and drinks. You munch." Does this make me an adolescent child-woman, too? How kinky. Hey, I respect your "fake buzzer". Your comment, however, had to do with what-the-hell-is-someone-your-age-doing-caring-what-mom-thinks, as opposed to "I think you are talking out of an orifice other than your mouth and have actually never been to a munch.", hence my response to you.

justheather -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 7:35:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied Oh, this is not going to end well. Katy, you're so jaded. What happened to the carefree girl who felt me up in the department store dressing room?

Jeffff -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 7:36:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied Oh, this is not going to end well. and you just hate that...........don't you....:) Jeff

Asherdelampyr -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/11/2008 7:39:40 PM)
On a slightly different bent, I remember when I told my family I was bi. I was soo worried about tellin my grandma and even more worried about it slipping to my 80+ year old great grandparents. When I told my granny her response was "are you staying for dinner?" My great grandma asked me a few days later when I went to visit again if my "pretty eyed boyfriend was gonna come back and see her" -Back on topic, My ma definately knows, and Im pretty sure my grandma knew as much as she wanted to before I did.

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