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Sirsinini -> RE: Non-Constructive Responses (1/13/2008 1:27:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MadRabbit How would you deal with a submissive/slave/whatever who responded in a non-constructive manner to any form of disapproval, correction, or disappointment you showed over an error or bad behavior? For example, the person automatically responds by getting down on herself and viewing herself as a failure and incompetent as opposed to constructively viewing this as an opportunity to improve. I am at fault. I have done this most of my life. Finally I have a Sir who works patiently with me and my therapist in helping me, disciplining me appropriately, so I can view myself as something other than what my old tapes have repeated to me endlessly over the years. Sir's Inini

topcat -> RE: Non-Constructive Responses (1/13/2008 1:30:44 PM)
M. MR- I am still going with the cattle prod, or any simple, unequivical negitive reinforcement, for the faint of heart<g>. I see this behavoir as a way of manipulating your responce from being a ligitimate correction to a undesired behavior, and turning it into a ego stroking for the transgressor. It's the sort of thing I have a very low tolerance for. If she was worthless, she'd be at the curb, waiting for a cab. Letting her distract me from the subject at hand is not helpping anyone. Stay Warm, Lawrence

Level -> RE: Non-Constructive Responses (1/13/2008 1:44:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick FR to yank this kicking and screaming back to the original topic... Nooooooooooo, MR is attempting to get some jello-tized nudity going!

CalifChick -> RE: Non-Constructive Responses (1/13/2008 2:30:46 PM)
Sigh. There is no stopping jello. Wiggles and Giggles. Cali

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