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Slutsub -> so many Dominants (8/25/2005 9:23:11 PM)

im constantly surprised at how many wonderful Dominants there are on here that are searching for subbies/slaves

i know there are a lot of wanna bee's but mostly i have found lovely genuine Men searching for there One

im happy to say though that a few i have been chatting to have found Her......so nice..its such a waste ...to see wonderful Men like this without a girl of there own

so sisters.......if your looking..........look harder and dont go by first impressions




fastlane -> RE: so many Dominants (8/26/2005 6:01:07 AM)

slutsub, will you be my marketing agent?

LOL, just kidding but that was a nice endorsement for us Dom's in the hunt.



quietlilone -> RE: so many Dominants (8/26/2005 7:08:21 AM)

I would have to agree here. There are a lot of very kind, interesting and articulate Dom/mes on collarme. And all are deserving of their "one". However, in saying that there are also a lot of players who are just "hunting" or haven't got a clue, and unfortunately this makes it diffcult for those that are serious about their life choices when using this medium of communication and meeting.
I myself have probably skipped by some, because on that certain day I had been overwhelmed by mass copy past mail or really really bad come on lines. When you think about it, this scenerio fits into any situation, online or off...so is life.



sweetnes33 -> RE: so many Dominants (8/26/2005 9:37:18 AM)

I'm very new to this site and while i have had the pleaure of speaking to some very nice Doms..... i have also been on the recieving end of one or two abusive men who called themselves Doms................it maybe my newness that attracts them lol......but one of them was very threatening.......... i would like to think there are many more nice Doms than nasty.and i too hope they all find their one x x x



FangsNfeet -> RE: so many Dominants (8/26/2005 1:46:59 PM)

Oh boy how this reminds me back in the day of being single.

Every time I was single I'd always hear "you're such a nice guy, you'll make someone very lucky someday" That's what every ond that was taken or not looking told me. But all the singles looking would disapear as if they didn't exist.

It's funny how singles looking come out of the wood work after you're in a committed relationship.



lonewolf05 -> RE: so many Dominants (8/26/2005 2:06:29 PM)

if i get the gist of this?

if????

i would have to say,......many dommes here are too picky and bring it on themselves, looking for sugar daddys.
and some even go so far as to limit age...like anyone past a certain limit is carrying the plague.

but yeah. a very very select few, need to find their boy .......like MY Ms found ME. She emailed 1st. She wasn't gonna sit on Her butt for someone to look for Her when She can do it as well.
so now i have my Ms and She has Her 1st live-in.

wolf



dominmd -> RE: so many Dominants (8/26/2005 4:28:11 PM)

Want to attract a woman? Wear a wedding band. Same goes for women, wear a ring, you will get men. This just happens, No reason as to why. Maybe the "forbidden fruit."

To put it plain, I am searching both vanilla and kinky. Either one would please me just fine.



Zenar -> RE: so many Dominants (8/26/2005 8:16:24 PM)

dominmd
quote:


Want to attract a woman? Wear a wedding band. Same goes for women, wear a ring, you will get men. This just happens, No reason as to why. Maybe the "forbidden fruit."


So THATS what I have been doing wrong! Here I am being married and neither of us ware any jewelry. Crap I hate wearing rings too!



OddBall -> RE: so many Dominants (8/27/2005 12:14:12 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: dominmd

Want to attract a woman? Wear a wedding band. Same goes for women, wear a ring, you will get men. This just happens, No reason as to why. Maybe the "forbidden fruit."



I've heard that remark before, while humorous, it attracts the wrong kind. As others have stated how could you trust one who'd break their vow. I have found many married women attractive but the wedding band was not the reason. I'd say "Damn, too late" to myself as the ring was noticed. Many lucky men in the world I tell you.


Slutsub, thank you for the kind words on behalf of those looking.



Hissweetshiv -> RE: so many Dominants (8/28/2005 11:17:27 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: dominmd

Want to attract a woman? Wear a wedding band. Same goes for women, wear a ring, you will get men. This just happens, No reason as to why. Maybe the "forbidden fruit."

To put it plain, I am searching both vanilla and kinky. Either one would please me just fine.


I have to say that i'm rather offended by this... if i saw a man who was wearing a wedding ring (when i was still looking) he was immediately off limits. Not all people will be attracted to "forbidden fruit". Some of us prefer the kind of relationship that doesn't start out with someone getting hurt. Just my 2 cents.



dominmd -> RE: so many Dominants (8/28/2005 1:07:58 PM)

Then you are a lucky person. But, I have been witness to the things I have said. To me the ring is an absolute hands off for me as well. But let us remember that many people do not share the same ideals as the rest of us. I am sorry you are offended, but I have the right to state my opinion, basing my reply on my own experiences and observations while out in the world. So, sorry, but I am not changing either my mind or my post. Especially since it is hard to please everyone nowadays, I'm not PC. And if you wish to quote, please note that I did not say "all people". Please be more accurate in the future. Also you infer that a relationship would start and someone would get hurt possibly believing that this is what I would do. Well, meet me and know me and you would find that this is not true at all.

It is equally as bad in my opinion, for those that are married to remove their rings while out on the town. But, hey, this happens. Who knows why a man or woman would remove their wedding bands. Maybe their relationship is just not working, or maybe they just want a fling. Is it wrong? Sure. But it happens.

People lie to each other here all the time. People don't show for a meeting. This lifestyle in itself is loaded with pitfalls of every variety, the same as being vanilla. And guess what people that are vanilla do the same things that people in the lifestyle do, just differently and yet so similarly.



NakedOnMyChain -> RE: so many Dominants (8/28/2005 1:49:56 PM)

It is an absolutely refreshing breath of air to hear someone complimenting others on the message boards. So often people focus only on the negative, it's wonderful that you can focus on all of the wonderful aspects of this website, because there are, indeed, so many intelligent and kind people here. Bravo.



dominmd -> RE: so many Dominants (8/28/2005 1:54:18 PM)

Yes, I kinda missed that even at my first post. I am a little too focused right now. Time for a nap.



FTopinMichigan -> RE: so many Dominants (8/28/2005 3:06:17 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: dominmd

Then you are a lucky person. But, I have been witness to the things I have said. To me the ring is an absolute hands off for me as well. But let us remember that many people do not share the same ideals as the rest of us. I am sorry you are offended, but I have the right to state my opinion, basing my reply on my own experiences and observations while out in the world. So, sorry, but I am not changing either my mind or my post. Especially since it is hard to please everyone nowadays, I'm not PC. And if you wish to quote, please note that I did not say "all people". Please be more accurate in the future. Also you infer that a relationship would start and someone would get hurt possibly believing that this is what I would do. Well, meet me and know me and you would find that this is not true at all.


Me thinks he doth protest too much! [;)]

As I see it, Hissweetshiv had the right to state that she found the previous sentiments expressed as offensive. You are entitled to your opinion, as she is entitled to hers.

Also, she did quote your entire post, and neither you OR her, mentioned "all."

I missed her trying to change your opinion, and I don't think you needed to beret her for sharing hers.

Perhaps this could be the start of another thread, but I'm seeing far too many submissives attacked for stating how they feel on a particular subject, when they are only sharing their personal opinion, contrary as it may be to some. (Now, the whiners, and extreme pessimists, are a completely different story. [:@])

I've read your posts dominmd, and enjoyed them, until this one. While I was not offended by the sentiments expressed, I have also not seen the trend of those being attracted to married folks. For those I do see, it's usually the married ones, seeking other married ones, to hide their interests, and not get "involved" on any level other than casual encounters.

I am with Shisweetshiv on this topic though. Married men are of no interest to me, except as friends.

Maybe you missed your morning coffee. [:)] I had mine, but then it's not morning now either. [:D]

K



dominmd -> RE: so many Dominants (8/28/2005 6:48:47 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Hissweetshiv


quote:

ORIGINAL: dominmd

Want to attract a woman? Wear a wedding band. Same goes for women, wear a ring, you will get men. This just happens, No reason as to why. Maybe the "forbidden fruit."

To put it plain, I am searching both vanilla and kinky. Either one would please me just fine.


I have to say that i'm rather offended by this... if i saw a man who was wearing a wedding ring (when i was still looking) he was immediately off limits. Not all people will be attracted to "forbidden fruit". Some of us prefer the kind of relationship that doesn't start out with someone getting hurt. Just my 2 cents.



If you'd like I can requote my post as well.

So lemme get this straight cuz I don't ever wanna offend somebody, cuz it might break their little hearts[:)]

1. I don't drink coffee and certainly do not need it to carry out my daily activities at any time of the day. This is just condescending and uneccessary as far as comments go.

2. You are offended but not offended. Seeing how you have enjoyed my posts up till now, when I have actually stated not only an opinion but observations of people out in the social world. And true as you stated we are allowed them.

3. Look, you may like a lot of posts that I write, thank you. But every now and then there will be times when I have an opinion that someone here will not agree with and take offense of said opinion.

4. I have done years of security and bodyguard work that put me in places where I could observe these behaviors unfold and happen. I have been witness to some of the worst human behaviors known. I have seen a single person hit on a married person at weddings. I have seen the groom banging the maid of honor at a wedding in a closet and the bride catch them. I have seen the trend you speak of with my own eyes. I have friends that are married and have stated that they get hit on now more since they have been married. If you require more examples, I can certainly give them to you.

5. I am attacking nobody, if I would, it would be relentless and at the same time pointless if you look at it logically. I did not berate her, I challenged her view. I also did not beret her because I did not send her a hat either[:D]

6. My reply has nothing to do with her being a sub or me being a Dom. If I have something to say, obviously I will say it.

7. As far as this thread goes, I am done. I will not be a party to another useless flamewar that several people here seem to love and thrive on. So, please do continue the discussion, and note this as my final word. And that include emails as well, they will just get deleted.

Peace, love, kisses, and have a wonderful day.[:)]



softysub -> RE: so many Dominants (8/28/2005 6:52:38 PM)

I would like to know where? All i've had are lies lies lies....and Doms wanting a *barbiedoll* or a doormat which i am far from that. Maybe i am too demanding.......and perhaps not....i only want honesty!

False hopes......but i know one day, i will meet *Him*.


softysub



FTopinMichigan -> RE: so many Dominants (8/29/2005 4:17:34 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: dominmd

7. As far as this thread goes, I am done. I will not be a party to another useless flamewar that several people here seem to love and thrive on. So, please do continue the discussion, and note this as my final word. And that include emails as well, they will just get deleted.



Damn...did I miss another flame war?

And here I was just enjoying a thread that included people discussing how they felt on a particular subject, and what was said about it.

I guess I missed it again. I didn't even see the smoke. [:D]

K



KatyLied -> RE: so many Dominants (8/29/2005 6:39:24 PM)

quote:

its such a waste ...to see wonderful Men like this without a girl of there own


or....it's such a waste...to see a wonderful sub without a Dom of her own.

So many are searching. And I wonder how many are seriously searching for a true D/s based relationship.



WickedKev -> RE: so many Dominants (9/2/2005 7:16:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: dominmd

Want to attract a woman? Wear a wedding band. Same goes for women, wear a ring, you will get men. This just happens, No reason as to why. Maybe the "forbidden fruit."

To put it plain, I am searching both vanilla and kinky. Either one would please me just fine.





I have to say when I was married I once had a part time job as a bouncer..oh ok then a club security man....and decided to do an experiment I put on my wedding ring and was amazed at how many times I was hit on but once I took it off then nothing. I did it a few times just to make sure and it worked every time. And before people think I was playing around on my wife she knew I was doing this and trusted me. Nuff Said.



lovelyone -> RE: so many Dominants (9/3/2005 12:38:36 AM)

Sir hello

why thankYou.......although there are so many pretenders and wanna bees......out there i have met several lovely Doms.....that are aching to find their One girl....and yes...ill help ya...........lol...ss



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