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justheather -> RE: Protecting Your Dominant (1/13/2008 5:19:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kyraofMists heather, Our best wishes to the both of you; hope you had a great New Year. Knight's Kyra Hi Kyra! Thanks for the hello and best wishes. We certainly wish you and your wonderful family much happiness (together!) in the New Year as well. Things here are developing and unfolding in wonderful ways. :-)

Suleiman -> RE: Protecting Your Dominant (1/13/2008 5:24:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania I find it interesting that some of the dominants next door seemed to want to make sure that everyone knew that they did not have White Knight Syndrome.... My Daddy thinks I have the female version of that. I want to "fix" every freaking thing and make it all better. When I can't I get anxious. What is the female version of the White Knight Syndrome called? In this context, White Knight is the correct use. While a female Knight is properly a Dame, in battle (on those rare occasions when a woman would take the field) Knight was the term applied to her. Knight is also very appropriate in general as a term for a devoted servant or vassal - the term comes from an old english word for servant.

juliaoceania -> RE: Protecting Your Dominant (1/13/2008 7:45:36 PM)
quote: In this context, White Knight is the correct use. While a female Knight is properly a Dame, in battle (on those rare occasions when a woman would take the field) Knight was the term applied to her. Knight is also very appropriate in general as a term for a devoted servant or vassal - the term comes from an old english word for servant. Well that rightly makes me feel very submissive in my White Dameness...thanks for the info...

BlackPhx -> RE: Protecting Your Dominant (1/14/2008 4:53:41 PM)
Wow my second posting. Poenkitten here. When I first read the question I guess I read it differently. My first thought was don't we already protect them? Blackphx is stronger than I physically, even though I have skills (sword, knife, cast iron skillet) that he doesn't. But with each and every meal I cook I protect his health and waistline. The same for Doctors appts. I make for him with his permission, and when I drive and he passengers, defensive driving is always on the table. I protect his credit with careful budgeting and spending. Protect his home when he is not here. Protect my health as it would adversely affect him in many ways if I were no longer around. Protect his heart in the care I take of my words to him and I deal with bureaucracies (he hates them and dealing with health insurance for example stress's him). I protect his time to be alone (grand central phone at times) and yes I would give my life for him. Of course I would rather the offender give his life, but, that depends on whose better prepped. If Master is down, the situation will dictate if it is cops or a brick to the persons head first. He is my all, and I am his, but that does not mean I am less capable of protecting him, it only means I do it in many different ways, daily. He leads, I follow, but in following, he knows I have his back in anything and everything. poenkitten

piercedntattooed -> RE: Protecting Your Dominant (1/14/2008 7:01:00 PM)
i would give my all, including my life to protect my Master if the situation did come about, He is, however, very capable of taking care of Himself i have the problem of not telling my Master everything, leaving key details out and deep down i feel like i do it for Him, because i dont want Him to worry or to stress and He does explain to me that He is here to help and to protect me, then i lay it all out on the line...i just dont want Him to hurt i guess, if He hurts i hurt and vice versa

CaraCaeth -> RE: Protecting Your Dominant (1/15/2008 1:14:26 PM)
I absolutely feel that i have a duty to protect my Master. It is my responsibility to take care of Him; wouldn’t protecting Him fall into that category as a matter of course? However, i can see the point of the question. The Master is the “strong” one of the pair as the dominant. In my own relationship, my Master is stronger than I am physically, mentally, emotionally. A Master would not normally been viewed as someone needed protection. However, just because He does not need me to protect him does not mean that i would not if the situation arose. There is also the possibility of someone viewing “protecting” as if the person being protected was weak; which would assault the sensibilities of any good Master or submissive/slave alike. However, not only the weak need protection. For example, if i were to witness something harmful to my Master that He was unaware of, it would not make Him weak for me to prevent Him from coming to harm by protecting Him. On another note, it is a natural tendency for anyone to protect someone they love. i not only serve my Master, i love Him with all my heart and soul. If for no other reason than that, i would make any sacrifice i had to in order to protect Him; second only to the protection I would give my children. Because of that, while i do feel it is my duty and responsibility to protect my Master, it is something instinctive for me that i would never even think twice before acting on. It is not a task, a chore, or an obligation for me; it is a desire, a spontaneous reaction, and a part of my life. There can be a true grandeur in any degree of submissiveness, because it springs from loyalty to the laws and to an oath, and not from baseness of soul. - Simone Weil (1910-1943, French Philosopher, Mystic)

breatheasone -> RE: Protecting Your Dominant (1/15/2008 1:30:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania There was a thread in the "Master's Forum" about a dominant's responsibility to protect a submissive, and I was wondering if submissives feel a duty to protect their dominants? Yes... I have done it. Something VERY unpleasant happened, as a result I "threw myself in front of the speeding train" to protect Him....I'm EXTREMELY thankful I didn't have to follow thru with what I was prepared to follow through with. For Daddys sake I certainly would have though. I also protect Him from Himself... Helping Him see dietary changes that will help Him(Hes diabetic)

LPslittleclip -> RE: Protecting Your Dominant (1/15/2008 4:04:45 PM)
of course i would protect and defend my M'Lady, just as she does me. i would do so if she or the rest of my poly family were in danger, my first rule is to protect what is hers and i will and proudly so happily collared by LadyPact LPs_littleclip

kuuntuli -> RE: Protecting Your Dominant (1/19/2008 2:16:47 AM)
I try to protect him, ofcourse. I try to do my best not to cause him stress and if he's stressed because of work or something I remind him to rest enough. And I try to make him not worry about me even if I am a little stressed at times, because I always survive and get better eventually.

tulitukka -> RE: Protecting Your Dominant (1/19/2008 4:37:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kuuntuli I try to protect him, ofcourse. I try to do my best not to cause him stress and if he's stressed because of work or something I remind him to rest enough. And I try to make him not worry about me even if I am a little stressed at times, because I always survive and get better eventually. She truly does. Such a wonderful and caring creature that she is. Sometimes I even let her. hugs

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