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Statepalace -> RE: Things said in the heat of the, uh, moment (2/22/2008 5:06:24 PM)

I told Him tonight. I wimped out and did it by email. Couldn't wait any longer.

We shall see.



SailingBum -> RE: Things said in the heat of the, uh, moment (2/23/2008 5:11:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

You know, I don't think anyone has ever asked me--at least not in the forums.

I like the avatar for a few reasons.

1.  It shows two animals doing what they want to do without an iota of self-consciousness.  Pretty much bullshit-free communication, and they really don't give a shit what anyone else thinks of what they're doing.  I admire that.  We humans, once we set aside all our baggage, strive to do what those elephants seem to be doing effortlessly.

2.  I admire elephants because they work together and care for one another, and use intelligence to solve problems.

3.  No one ever fucks with an elephant twice.  You don't bother the elephants, and the elephants won't bother you, but if you fuck with one, you'll find out that you made a mistake.


You ruined my visual.  I just assumed you A. had penis envy.  B. A vouyer.  C. Likes watching elephants fuck.

BadOne



Constrictor1 -> RE: Things said in the heat of the, uh, moment (2/23/2008 6:44:59 AM)

If you are using the big "O" as the definition of heat of the moment , I like the 2 minute guideline. Any thing said 2 minutes prior to or 2 minutes after is endorphine produced outburst. Somewhat like Bobcat Goldthwaites interpretation of his tiurets character from police acadamy. There's a visual for you.

Constrictor



SailingBum -> RE: Things said in the heat of the, uh, moment (2/23/2008 7:03:56 AM)

Hell most ppl will tell you anything to get laid.  Yes girls are included in that statement.

BadOne



windchymes -> RE: Things said in the heat of the, uh, moment (2/23/2008 2:54:46 PM)

STOP RIGHT THERE!  I GOTTA KNOW RIGHT NOW...
Before we go any further, do you love me?
Will you love me forever, do you need me?
Will you never leave me?
Will you make so happy for the rest of my life?
Will you take me away, and will you make me your wife?

Let me sleep on it, baby, baby
Let me sleep on it
Let me sleep on it, I'll give you an answer in the morning.
 
What's it gonna be, boy, yes or no?
I can wait all night!
What's it gonna be boy? Yes?  Or....No?

I couldn't take it any longer, oh man, I was crazed
And then the feeling came upon me like a tidal wave
I started swearing to my God and on my mother's grave
That I would love you till the end of time,
I swore I'd love you till the end of time.
 
And now we're praying for the end of time
To hurry up and arrive
Cause if I had to spend another minute with you
I don't think that I could really survive
I'll never break my promise or forget my vow
But God only knows what I could do right now
Praying for the end of time
So I can end my time with you!
 
Not that "I Honestly Love You" isn't a lovely song....[;)]



ThunderRoad -> RE: Things said in the heat of the, uh, moment (2/23/2008 3:00:47 PM)

In my experience, when people are in a position to let go of their inhibitions, which can include being intoxicated or in Domspace or Subspace, you tend to see where their real emotions tend to be.

That doesn't say whether you should "confront" him about it.  But I think it can give you some insight into what is in his head, even if he can't acknowledge it yet.

Who knows, maybe he specifically "tested" the waters to see how you react.  If you do nothing, he could misread that.  Honestly, there's no reason NOT to talk to him, but just set it up the right way.  "Sir you said something when we were playing, and I want to make sure I didn't misread anything."  Any good person won't be offended.



Lumus -> RE: Things said in the heat of the, uh, moment (2/23/2008 3:33:41 PM)

I'm a bad person to ask, primarily because I mean what I say...sometimes even the facetious bits.



camille65 -> RE: Things said in the heat of the, uh, moment (2/23/2008 3:42:11 PM)

I really hope things went well for you.



litehearted -> RE: Things said in the heat of the, uh, moment (2/23/2008 5:57:58 PM)

I think that if he meant it... it will come up again later if you give it time. If you don't hear anything about it in the next 2-3 weeks he probably didn't mean it.  But if he says it again during maybe some passionate happening then that means it's on his mind as well.  I would just give it time... and try not to get your hopes up if the answer isn't what you see.  Good luck!  *hugs*



Kirata -> RE: Things said in the heat of the, uh, moment (2/24/2008 1:54:53 AM)

I'm getting in at the end here (well, poor choice of words) but this is what I think, before the answer is revealed.
 
I have to guess at your relationship, but, with what I have to go on, I think he meant what he said. What you have to realize is, all of him wasn't in on conference when he said it. Whatever he said was not the sum of his feelings and thoughts where you are concerned. It was an honest sum of what he had in consciousness at that moment, but there may or may not be other feelings and thoughts too.
 
As to what that means for your relationship, it sounds like things are going very well in part at least!
 
K.
 



CelticPrince -> RE: Things said in the heat of the, uh, moment (2/24/2008 6:37:14 AM)

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So my question is this - Do you ever make affectionate comments and/or references to future togetherness that you completely do not mean, while "in the moment"?


state,

For myself, I never say anything that I do not mean regardless of the time place.

CP



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