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RE: Dominance With No Room For Submission - 1/13/2008 2:49:53 PM

MissHarlet

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I started in the lifestyle many years ago as a submissive with no thought of ever being or becoming dominant. ... I am told I was an excellant submissive and mentored many. I found that I was mentoring newbie dominants ... and was being told by many experienced Dominants tht one day I would open my heart to my true self and admit I was dominant and not submissive at all ...I fought it for years.

One day my soul opened and outshouted my brain and I have never submitted to another and never will. Its impossible.

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RE: Dominance With No Room For Submission - 1/13/2008 3:08:40 PM

MistressMonet2u

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I began this journey as a Dominant...beating and mind-f**king the boyfriends of my high school and college years. Then I submitted to my ex-husband for a year and it was good for a little while but I kept thinking, "I would do this, this way" or "how come he doesn't do more of this because...". After that I decided that I could never be submissive again. I've been Dominant for over 20yrs, you can't fix whats not broken!

That being said, I still have a wickedly masochistic streak and might bottom for a charitable cause of course with full negotiation rights and priviledges...lol!

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RE: Dominance With No Room For Submission - 1/13/2008 3:12:07 PM

DiurnalVampire

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Nope, my mentor trained me to be dominant, not to be dominant to everyone but to submit to her. I was taught by example not by following her commands.
I have never submitted, nor even considered it. The closest thing I have had was respectfully following the trainings of my Sensei. I never questioned his commands, but that would have been pointless. I never consider it submissive to be a good student.

So, theres my answer. I have no interest in submission. I would be a bad sub, I wouldnt enjoy it and I wouldnt learn anything anyway.

DV

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RE: Dominance With No Room For Submission - 1/14/2008 12:08:31 AM

realtuffdom

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I have learned never to say never. Except when saying never in a sentence about saying never to say never, which means that I'm really saying never is okay to say but only in the context of never saying never, which then cancels itself out to the point of where never + never = the negative case of never to a prime factor of never in a most negative way.

Okay, I kind of lost my point. What was I saying again?

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