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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/12/2008 11:28:36 PM   
kc692


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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

i accept your apology. :)


MM, I know I'm drinking nog, but I think I need to be drinking what this girl is drinkin!!!!!!!!!! Hell, then I might get on a plane too!!

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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/12/2008 11:32:43 PM   
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I don't think it's anything she's DRINKING..........................................................

White powder anyone?

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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/12/2008 11:32:55 PM   
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When is the part where you start inspiring? Did you actually write that with a straight face?

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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/12/2008 11:36:09 PM   
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Oh, girlie, I hope you like spankings....I got a feeling you are fixing to get one.

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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/12/2008 11:38:02 PM   
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Honestly the age in Canada is. So how could i have said he raped her. Mad hatter said that. not me, then i believe he disappeared with the damage he knew he was going to cause.. For someone who is so into the legal profession you sure don't bother with the facts much.  It doesn't matter , you had a chance to make some else look bad. Yeah for You!

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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/12/2008 11:38:05 PM   
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I don't think it's anything she's DRINKING..........................................................

White powder anyone?


dont tease!!!

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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/12/2008 11:39:22 PM   
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the age is 14 in Canada

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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/12/2008 11:40:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

Honestly the age in Canada is. So how could i have said he raped her. Mad hatter said that. not me, then i believe he disappeared with the damage he knew he was going to cause.. For someone who is so into the legal profession you sure don't bother with the facts much.  It doesn't matter , you had a chance to make some else look bad. Yeah for You!

Let me see if I can make this more clear...  Knock This Crap Off Now. 

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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/12/2008 11:41:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

isn't it against the law for a man in his 20's  to be sexually involved with a minor or just' living with a minor if he doesn't have legal gardianship of her? i'm not sure.


Do you believe we can't read the english language?  You said this.  MR wouldn't say that, he's not clueless.  At what point do you ever own up to making silly statements and stop flaming to avoid your own mistakes?

Edited to add: posted at the same time ModXI, sorry.

< Message edited by laurell3 -- 1/12/2008 11:42:23 PM >


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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/12/2008 11:45:31 PM   
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it is a general question. Where does that girl come into it.l It was a response to someone else's post. Please be kind enough to show me where i said that Knight raped anyone. While you're looking for that, please take a look at madhatters post. i believe it's almost to the last page if not the last page. Thanks

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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/13/2008 12:06:10 AM   
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My moms 67 or 68can't remember which right now,  and she can't pump gas,and she'll never have to learn cause my Dad will do it for her. Or would get a gas station attendant to do it for her. wouldn't know the first thing on how to make the machine run or anything. She also wouldn't have the manual hanf strength to squeeze the lever till it pops into place.

She doesn't know how to balance a check book either.

Now they're not a kinky relationship in ANY way, but they have been married for 48 years, and they're happy and content.


Just cause you don't know one or two facts of life doesn't mean you shouldn't be doing X or Y lifestyle or not.. Doesn't make you qualified to decide who should be doing what it is they do either.

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No matter what the age, you should never venture into anything you are not ready for. In this day and age if you do not know how to balance a check book, savings account or pump your own gas you should not be entering into any type of  Totally controlled Dominanting relationship.

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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/13/2008 12:15:21 AM   
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They sound like a cute couple, but what about the woman who doesn't have family to turn to or friends that can help her  when her husband or S/O  passes away or leaves hera nd she has to start all over again.

i have a feeling that your mom is very loved and will have plenty of help and support from you.  You have akind face.

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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/13/2008 12:16:47 AM   
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I find it's often best to simply teach a slave what you feel she's missing.  It seems like the easy solution, even if it does require a little bit of time to do the teaching.

Hell, my slave and I are taking different forms of Engineering in college, so I have us sit down regularly when the oppurtunity presents itself and we teach each other what we've been studying.  So, now, we both have a working knowledge (even if not as strong a command) of a new form of Engineering- a very productive exchange.

But even if it's just how to cook or clean or do taxes or deal with salesmen or anything, really.. it's good to share this stuff with those close to you, particularly in a relationship.. perhaps even more so in M/s.

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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/13/2008 12:50:28 AM   
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i accept your apology. :)


She didn't apologize. And she shouldn't. Quit it already, you look terrible. Listen to the nice mod.

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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/13/2008 12:56:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

. Here in florida if you are under 18 as she  was . It is against  the law no matter if she jumped on him and raped him herself. Here he would still be charged. It's on our news casts here almost every day.

They met 20 years ago,. Was the law in New York the same as they are now? Just curious.


Feel free to start a new thread to hurl accusations of being a stationary rapist at KnightOfMists (someone I have a good deal of respect for as an online entity).

(Thanks to everyone who has posted.)


You see i was questioning a new york law and used that recent Knight relationship as an example, because of the time frame.asking did the laws change in New York after twenty years?

These people are from Canada. Our laws have nothing to do with them.

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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/13/2008 12:59:33 AM   
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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/13/2008 1:00:35 AM   
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Why would you care she has no life skills if you are always going to take responsibility for that? Unless you get run over by a bus maybe and she is left alone.


You answered your own question. I understand the point of the OP. I make sure that my boy knows everything there is to know to sustain him in life thus far. I can have a TPE with him, but I would still insist that he knows basic living skills. I dont understand why this is so hard for you to understand.

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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/13/2008 1:08:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

Note to Self : Choose better examples.


<Hugs the Rabbit> No, you used perfect examples. There are none so blind that will not see.

*I am legally blind and even I can see your point*

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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/13/2008 1:16:48 AM   
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LOL I'm not sure who is older - in my Home Ec class, we learned sewing and cooking.  Us girls didn't have to worry our little heads with matters like finances. 


One could only WISH that they had taught banking in school. The thing that they should be teaching is how to protect your credit.

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RE: Control, Young Subs/Slaves, and Individual Growth - 1/13/2008 1:17:09 AM   
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you misunderstood another post dear. Laurel understood what i meant.

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