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sunshinemiss -> RE: Subspace? (1/13/2008 1:04:36 AM)
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ORIGINAL: tinoketsheli
What exactly is subspace??
To me it's an altered state of consciousness akin to deep meditation.... All is quiet in my mind.... There is nothing except the Dom and his orders. Everything becomes simple, an equation - he orders and I act. That's all.
And is it only achieved through some form of pain??
NO.... some people do find it this way (something to do with endorphins and pain).... I do it ... create it in myself by breathing and letting go of worries. I find it helpful though to be with someone who INSPIRES a deeper level of submission by me. The more trust that is achieved, the deeper the subspace.
And would you recommend it?
Oh my goodness yes.... But be careful, it is a place of intense vulnerability so you will want to make sure you are safe. It allows me the ability to be even more submissive and to follow instructions without judgment (why does he want me to lie on the floor? It's cold there.). Nope, I just lie down. But if he told me to light myself on fire, I'd pop right out of subhead space. That's why I'd only be with someone who would keep me safe.
If yes, how do you recommend achieving it?
Find the way that works for you. Some people find it thruogh pain or being slapped in the face, some through bondage, inability to speak, having a collar snapped into place, whatever. Doing some kind of service helps me get there - cleaning his shoes or setting up the room the way he likes it or something like that - a physical task that puts all my focus on him, his comfort, his desires... That helps me get there. Experiment and enjoy.
Have fun!
peace
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