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RE: About age play.. I`m ashamed to tell Him! :/ - 1/14/2008 5:09:52 AM   
JDEmpath


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I would like to approach this from a slightly different angle. It seems to me that the main issue here is not whether the idea of Daddy/girl play is right or wrong, rather the issue is: Will he respond to your statement of needs by then deciding that you are sick and therefore in need of professional help?

It is impossible to know this answer with certainty, but I have some confidence that he would not respond that way. I think just because somebody is a professional in the field of psychology, it does not mean that they consider themselves "above" the people for whom they are expected to care. I believe many psychologists enter the field because of a need to confront or accept their own perceptions of their own psychological "problems" (I put that in quotes because I tend not to see problems as problems in many cases) and deal with them first before going on to help others. I could be wrong about this. But if I am not wrong, then it seems likely that a good psychologist should be less inclined to judge others simply by recognizing their own "flaws" as well.

I addition, I feel I must point out that you and he are already in a sadomasochistic relationship (I am using that term because it is the term found in the DSM-IV). This should be considered a "condition" by the criteria of modern psychology, at least until they decide to change the DSM codes again. With this in mind, clearly he has already accepted the fact that both of you are currently enjoying and unabashedly continuing to enjoy a "deviant" lifestyle. I expect that he would not be quick to judge.



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RE: About age play.. I`m ashamed to tell Him! :/ - 1/14/2008 10:53:25 AM   
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Hiiii! Thank you all for the encouregement! I told Him! And He said that He was interested in it and would love to try it out and see how it works for us! Again thanks to all! 

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RE: About age play.. I`m ashamed to tell Him! :/ - 1/14/2008 11:01:23 AM   
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I'm so glad you worked up your courage and let him into your thoughts, and especially glad that he was receptive to them.Yay for you both.

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RE: About age play.. I`m ashamed to tell Him! :/ - 1/14/2008 11:19:20 AM   
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Good luck, hope this dynamic brings you both much happiness.

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RE: About age play.. I`m ashamed to tell Him! :/ - 1/14/2008 11:31:02 AM   
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I'm glad things worked out. Good luck with your new found journey (or new part on it anyways).

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RE: About age play.. I`m ashamed to tell Him! :/ - 1/14/2008 11:39:00 AM   
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Thanks :)

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