adoracat
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ORIGINAL: herpreferance Des,the thing is shes been smoke free for 3 years and smoked for 32 , so she knows what im going through. fact of the matter is shes willing to cut me slack in that regard. what shes NOT willing to do is have me sneak around and lie about it. hon...i smoked 2 packs a day. when i was 12. ok? i continued that for a couple of years (lucky for me my mama is so clueless...and i say that with love an affection). one day i was outta smokes and outta money and didnt have anyone to bum from. so i stopped for several years. i didnt have a twinge of withdrawal. my body just *doesnt* do addiction. (not alcohol, not 'scrip painkillers, nothing). i can look at you and say "hey, i didnt have a problem! you shouldnt either!" but that is NOT realistic. there are MANY more people like you when quitting smoking than there are like me. it honestly sounds like everything is piling up on you at once, and if you cant go to the person who means more to you than anyone else....who can you go to? kitten, thoughtfully
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