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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/14/2008 10:28:30 AM   
breatheasone


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Status: offline 		I think its a wonderful thing to do. Its nice to have a thoughtful person inquire about someone you love.

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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/14/2008 10:31:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		If you did it all the time wouldn't it just fill the boards with a load of pleasantries

Similar to when you go in a chatroom and the topic involves how is the weather in your area?


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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/14/2008 10:32:51 AM   
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I am specifically addressing those areas where I have already been received.  I wouldn't approach a submissive that I was not familiar with for conversation.  That is another old fashioned thing that I did not address.


Mmm that is not old fashioned, that is very nice behaviour. And that kinda is gone with the latest generations.
Even simple good mornings at work are dead.

What i do mis though (from the old MSN lifestyle forums). Is people wearing eachothers tag to show they are owned or own some one.
That made it clear if you could approach a girl or not.


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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/14/2008 10:38:59 AM   
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What i do mis though (from the old MSN lifestyle forums). Is people wearing eachothers tag to show they are owned or own some one.
That made it clear if you could approach a girl or not.


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No I can't keep typing that when I log in.

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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/14/2008 10:41:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: FullCircle

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ORIGINAL: Justme696
What i do mis though (from the old MSN lifestyle forums). Is people wearing eachothers tag to show they are owned or own some one.
That made it clear if you could approach a girl or not.


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No I can't keep typing that when I log in.


lol, good point, you don't want to know my first Nickname from when i was 16 :P  It was damn long.
But the tags are common  also in many mIRC rooms still

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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/14/2008 10:43:35 AM   
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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/14/2008 3:42:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		I do like to ask after the other parties in a relationship, IF I am sure they are around.  A friend of mine was pretty embarassed when he asked after a local top's spouse and found that she had run off with a mutual friend...

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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/15/2008 6:29:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		Oddly enough, the.dark., it was a comment to you about a compliment on the recent photo, that made the subject come to My mind.  Without thinking, I added something to the effect of, "My best to Darcy".  Of course, I've never met Darcy, but it is just something that I've done out of habit for some time now.  The old lesson of 'always refer to the D' has stuck in My brain through the years.

No, the habit wouldn't always be appropriate on a forum.  It would take up a lot of time and space.  Still, some folks like to have their dynamic respected once in a while.

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I do try to remember to leave thoughts for both or more in the relationship.  I believe it is important to recognise the importance of the relationships.  I am sure I have failed at times however.
If someone has spent some of their precious moments in caring to write something to Darcy and I whether it is positive or constructive - it is also important to recognise when someone passes on regards as well, and politeness to say a simple 'thank you'.

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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/15/2008 8:11:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ah yes Dearest LadyPact, I often find myself yearning for those days of yore.
When a genuine care and concern for others was common thought and practice.

I often think fondly of those cherished moments when familiar faces would
cross the threshold bearing warm smiles, fresh baked biscuits, and other
assorted treats to inspire and persuade the household pets to perform.

Oh the rush of excitement as we tumbled merrily and trembled for each morsel.
"Come" (minds out of the gutter) "Sit", "Stay", "Roll Over", "Play Dead".
(though playing dead more or less became passe' in the early ninties as an
influx of calls nationwide to 911 and other emergency services reaped havoc)

A much simpler time, when pleasantries flowed without question or forethought.

But alas, we progress.

To those and theirs, a most wonderful day, everyday.

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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/15/2008 8:19:48 AM   
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Do you all still raise your pinkie when go to sip a cup of tea?


Actually, yes, I do.

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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/15/2008 9:14:48 AM   
kuuntuli


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Status: offline 		My master doesn't mind other dominants coming to talk to me, and I don't mind either if they are nice and polite (although I actually do prefer that they ask his permission first, if he's around). What I do mind however is people who come straight to me trying to get me to play with them or set up a private meeting or something. I tell in my profile that I'm owned and who my Master is so it shouldn't be too difficult to ask him first.
I've never been to any munches as so far I've been too shy to go. But when I'll go to one I will be going with my master and I will be wearing his collar and I hope people will respect that.

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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/15/2008 9:17:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Kitte9

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Do you all still raise your pinkie when go to sip a cup of tea?


Actually, yes, I do.


me too, else it gets burned against the cup  ;)

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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/15/2008 10:41:55 AM   
daddyncherry


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Status: offline 		i defintiely agree that so many manners in people have simply slipped by the wayside....it's kinda of sad.

i do try my best to remember to ask how a SO is when speaking to someone, and if i contact the Master i do my best to not forget to contact his slave as well....to me i think it is in poor taste and i would never want a slave to have any concerns over my intentions to their Master...sure sometimes if you have a comfotable friendship you might forget to do this at times but it is still, IMO, the nice and right thing to do.

Also, i have contacted different girls online who i know either know or used to play with my Daddy, just to say hello to them, kind of as an ice breaker.. So there wouldn't be any weirdness if/when we cross paths..Of course these are girls who i already know won't have bad feelings toward me for anything....Just trying to keep the peace on the wwwplayground and i have met some really sweet girls this way...some however do not respond to me when i am not actually with my Daddy in person and that always pisses me off.....it's rudeness.


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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/15/2008 10:59:55 AM   
Justme696


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some however do not respond to me when i am not actually with my Daddy in person and that always pisses me off.....it's rudeness.


yes that makes you think, not? Find that indeed rude and thoughtfull

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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/15/2008 11:18:51 AM   
KaylinSilverfurr


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Status: offline 		Greetings to all.

Some wonderful posts here so far!

Ackowledging both Dom(me) and sub in coversation not only shows politeness, it also shows the realisation that the sub you are speaking with is property of his/her owner, and that you respect his/her property as you would your own. Basic common sense really. Just like when you ask your best friend if you can borrow their shirt for the week-end, you also return it promptly and make sure it's been washed properly.

Speaking of laundry, I need to find myself some Old fashioned wooden cloths pins.

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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/15/2008 11:21:47 AM   
Justme696


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ORIGINAL: KaylinSilverfurr

Greetings to all.

Some wonderful posts here so far!

Ackowledging both Dom(me) and sub in coversation not only shows politeness, it also shows the realisation that the sub you are speaking with is property of his/her owner, and that you respect his/her property as you would your own. Basic common sense really. Just like when you ask your best friend if you can borrow their shirt for the week-end, you also return it promptly and make sure it's been washed properly.

Speaking of laundry, I need to find myself some Old fashioned wooden cloths pins.

~Kaylin


well they are handy on more then just cloths  ;)

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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/15/2008 11:38:37 AM   
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well they are handy on more then just cloths  ;)



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Yes....yes they are.

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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/15/2008 12:52:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		Its good to hear that someone else feels this way.

I was raised to be polite to everyone, and as a part time worker in the service industries (I have to have a bit of cash for school), its required.

I always refer to my customers as "Sir" or "Ma'am", to show my respect and willingness to be of help/service. I can't even begin to tell you the number of times people have given me dirty looks for saying either of those words; often times they believe I'm patronizing them.

People need to be more polite, and expect politeness.


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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/15/2008 12:58:28 PM   
Justme696


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Its good to hear that someone else feels this way.

I was raised to be polite to everyone, and as a part time worker in the service industries (I have to have a bit of cash for school), its required.

I always refer to my customers as "Sir" or "Ma'am", to show my respect and willingness to be of help/service. I can't even begin to tell you the number of times people have given me dirty looks for saying either of those words; often times they believe I'm patronizing them.

People need to be more polite, and expect politeness.



I do that too, when i for example ask the time or when we have visitors in the company. Yes they look weird. I don't care..i feel comfy with it..and it is decent.

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RE: Old fashioned pleasantries - 1/15/2008 9:16:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think asking about ones "important persons" in their life is completely polite and I fully encourage it.

I think assigning social status to personal relationship orientation is a horrendous idea.

I wonder if/when you were to meet myself and my partner how you would address this issue, knowing that we are both switches?  And you only KNOW this because I've told you in our correspondence- people we meet in real life at parties have no idea.



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