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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/15/2008 1:50:05 AM   
angelslave77


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Status: offline 		Sir hasnt bought me clothes but i have a wide and varried wardrobe and when we are together i always ask him what i should wear and every so often when we arent together i get a text to wear a specific outfit. It is one of those things that makes me all warm and fuzzy.

Also when shopping for clothes I think would Sir like it .
(we both have a bit of a goth fetish, I like dressing that way he likes goth girls so it works out well)

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/15/2008 2:33:47 AM   
subantionette


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Status: offline 		I don't think i could let anyone tell me what to wear, suggestions always welcome, then again James would never tell me what to wear. I guess that something I wouldn't be able to handle. i like to pick out my own clothing.

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/15/2008 4:15:52 AM   
fluffyswitch


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quote:

ORIGINAL: subantionette

I don't think i could let anyone tell me what to wear, suggestions always welcome, then again James would never tell me what to wear. I guess that something I wouldn't be able to handle. i like to pick out my own clothing.

same here. i tend to gravitate towards things i know my dom/me would like but i don't think i would be happy having either of them actually tell me what to wear.

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/15/2008 8:43:31 AM   
MercTech


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Status: offline 		How you dress can be a big contributor to the imgage you project.  Self help books like "Dress for Success" are a good example of how much "image" means to our culture.

I do buy for and dress a submissive.  And, what I buy depends on the image I'm looking for her to project.  Some outfits are to show her off attractively in public.  Some outfits are for other purposes.

I dress myself for different images.  Being "just me" runs to jeans and safari shirts.  I do the 3-piece suit when needed.  And, I've been known to wear kilt and doublet for SCA play.

Just thinking of something I have hidden away for a play and photo session.  A certain six foot subbie is going to be dressed in a body hugging black full converage zentai suit.  Then multi colored ropes for tortois shell shibari.  I think the photos will look interesting when I'm done.  I think that for her birthday she will receive some thigh high boots. 

juliaoceania, clothing can be empowering.  I know that if I buy clothing for a submissive, I want it to empower her to show how proud I am of her to the whole world.

Stefan

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/15/2008 10:16:01 AM   
BabyKittyKat


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Status: offline 		My Daddy hasn`t actually bought me clothes, though He knows my wardrobe and He picks what I wear, especially the underwear. Before everytime we`re together, I ask Him what underwear would He desire to see on me. Though in a passive way He has been helping me decide what clothes to buy. When I met Him I still wore sneakers, wide pants.. Now I wear only elegant clothes, boots with heels, lots of jewlery.. Slowly I`m becoming His little lady 

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/15/2008 12:28:08 PM   
Justme696


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Status: offline 		I had my slave making photographs of her cloths, so I could pick everything (lingery,skirts,pants, shirts) and combine.
Damn she had many cloths...lol 

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/15/2008 12:39:16 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		My Daddy wants to start doing knife play, part of his reward for buying me new clothes is he gets to decide which of my old ones get cut up

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/15/2008 1:24:42 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		My Master does not choose my clothes.  If he wants me to wear something in parcitular he will tell me, like say a skirt.  He will not pick it out he lets me pick out the skirt i want to wear.  As for shoes Master knows i have alot of trouble with heels (weak ankles) so he does not make me wear them.  However i di wear the colors he likes it makes me happy to do that.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/15/2008 1:30:31 PM   
mellomyst


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Status: offline 		my master is also my husband, he often chooses my clothes right down to my socks. its never been a issue, he dont say it in a dominant tone or anything, i have always been his and have accepted it, i obey both as a wife and his sub

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/15/2008 1:40:38 PM   
breatheasone


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Status: offline 		Daddy does not pick out my clothes. We don't live together, and that may have something to do with it. He certainly could dress me if He chose to. He will at times tell me what to wear when He is going to see me...but not every time...and then its just the type of clothing, not color scheme or anything like that. For example asking me to wear a skirt, and so forth. He has said when We do have a home of Our own, many freedoms I have now will change, some drastically, some not so much.

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/15/2008 2:19:51 PM   
Tigrita


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Status: offline 		I haven't had a ton of experience with dominants picking out clothes for me, but I know I dress diferently, walk diferently, and act diferently in social situations when I'm enjoying the fact that I'm an alpha male's girl, even when he's not there.  It is indeed an empowerment, in combination with an increased sense of pride and devotion in being theirs.  I actually feel more confident, flirtatious and 'man eating' when I'm taken, this comes out in my clothing choices and behavior.  Gets me in a little bit of trouble sometimes lol, but mostly just good fun.

I also like wearing what I know they will like, if I know they are a leg person, or a boob person, I dress accordingly and that makes me feel good. 


< Message edited by Tigrita -- 1/15/2008 2:22:36 PM >

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/15/2008 5:31:25 PM   
hejira92


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Status: offline 		I'm 5'8", and after being married for 18 yrs to a 5'7" man, I owned no heels. Master loves girly-girls. And is 6'2". Whenever we are together, I must wear 3 1/2 to 5 inch shoes. I had to learn how. Now, I kind of like walking around at 6 feet. At first I was very self-conscious (remember towering over the boys in middle and high school?)
 
He has taken me shopping to approve of purchases (and yes, I am amazed at His attitude towards shopping- He loves it. I have sooo little patience for malls). And He has gotten me into much more body-conscious, sexier clothes.
 
And, yes, it feels submissive and powerful at the same time. A very nice feeling. Almost as nice a feeling as when He looks at me with that gleam in His eye and says "You look great!"

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/15/2008 9:41:43 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I feel really bad for all the "tall girls" who don't wear heels just cuz they are tall.  That's just stupid and I think the world sucks in a small way for somehow making you think you shouldn't wear heels just because of height.  I think tall girls in heels are very hot.

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/15/2008 11:04:48 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		It is very strange how looking my Daddy in the eye when I wear heels makes me feel somehow smaller than him, but it does. In some ways it inhibits movement. I am pretty agile, springy, and athletic... heels definitely make one adjust their movement... and it feels very submissive, tall or not

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/15/2008 11:57:22 PM   
brightspot


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Status: offline 		Yes, my Domina loved to dress me and
have me wear my make-up her way, did
not allow me to cut my hair, just some of
her rules.
I still wear my make-up the way she liked
it and my hair has only been trimmed, it's
down to my belt buckle now and I am glad
that one stuck with me as now I can wear
my hair in a lot of different styles.
 
Missy.

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/16/2008 12:03:42 AM   
BiteGirl


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Status: offline 		I've never had that feeling, but I can imagine I would feel the same as you, but possiably dirty. I don't know, I never feel right in things other people pick out for me. But that's just me. 

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/16/2008 2:14:25 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		InkedMaster loves to see me in heels, especially when that's all i'm wearing, so He's purchased several pairs of heels for me and they are fabulous.  His taste is amazing!  How wonderful to belong to a Man who does not think i can have too many shoes!

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/19/2008 7:13:40 AM   
BikerDomRealTime


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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I hesitated to start this thread because I was unsure how to present the ideas I am thinking on the topic. Recently Daddy took me clothes shopping. I tried things on, he picked them out and bought them for me. It was a lot of fun. He bought me a couple of pair of high heeled boots. One pair he said he would be happy if they never had any wear on the bottom (knee high black suede slouch boots with spiked heels)

He bought me this stuff because he said he wanted me to look the way he wanted me to look. I have been wearing these new clothes on job hunts. The heels have a way of making me feel empowered on the one hand, because I cut quite an impressive figure at 6 foot 1, and employers tend to look at me differently in the clothes he bought me. On the other hand, wearing the stuff he picked out for me makes me feel distinctly submissive, especially the heels.

I haven't worn heels but a handful of times in almost 20 years. They are not hard to walk in, but they feminize my stride, and I guess just the act of wearing them because he wants me to makes me feel submissive in them.

I was wondering, if any of you have ever had this experience with garments, and did it make you feel like it made me feel?



I dress My slave daily.  I do take into consideration what she needs to do during the day and will choose her clothing appropiately.  she buys clothing on her own but if I don't like it what she purchased she has to return it.

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/19/2008 8:48:54 AM   
tulitukka


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Status: offline 		Hijacking the thread, Tigrita, I just love your userpic. The one with half a feather wing.

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RE: Being Dressed By Your Dom - 1/19/2008 8:57:59 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		whenever i'm wearing my wedge heels (sandals, boots, etc)/or regular heels with my short skirts and shorts, my strut down to the bus stop takes on a whole new meaning.  i love it when men stare at my legs (since i wear my ankle chains in public too) nodding as they smile at me. i love the attention it brings - so does Daddy. He knows i love to dress sexy especially for rock shows and approves of me flirting with other men. for me, it's an exhilerating rush, arousing sexual fun to know that they are looking at me.

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