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RE: We have all answered this question - 1/15/2008 10:27:58 AM

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What repels me.. Well, my Daddy sometimes can be really mean to me. REALLY MEAN. And I hate it Also, sometimes He says really awful things, which make me really sad. Saying things like "If it weren`t for you, I would still be beating up people for money and I won`t be starving". But He says such things on rare occassions, thank God! After that He apologises, but it`s still sad. Well, everyone has flaws. And I love Him the way He is.

Wow. Good thing for you it's a "rare" thing. That kinda remark, "if it weren't for you, I would..." (be doing something better, be someone better, have more money, whatever), would get a swift kick in the arse and a shove out the door.

Cali

and deserved, but we don't know how she herself reacts in fights ;) females can be real mean lol

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RE: We have all answered this question - 1/15/2008 11:14:07 AM

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I personally recommend "fight sex." Can't stay mad...

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RE: We have all answered this question - 1/15/2008 11:15:32 AM

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Oh yes I can.

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RE: We have all answered this question - 1/15/2008 11:18:47 AM

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I can stay angry a long time too......even stay away..which is a bad habbit.

and then we have fight sex lol

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RE: We have all answered this question - 1/15/2008 11:26:08 AM

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I should have said "I" can't stay mad. It would probably negate the effectiveness of fight sex if one of us stayed mad...

(still fun though)

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RE: We have all answered this question - 1/15/2008 2:39:49 PM

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Hmmmmmm <ponders awhile>

I know!

There are several things that attract me to Mommy. The number one on my list is the feeling i have when i am with Her. When i am with Mommy i feel completely safe and cared for. Also i love how funny She is. The funny voices She does leaves me on my back rolling, unable to breathe. Just sitting with Her watching the sunset ( and when i mean sunset i mean i'm staring at Her) is heaven on earth.

I love my Mommy, forever and ever

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RE: We have all answered this question - 1/15/2008 2:44:26 PM

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Hmmmmmm <ponders awhile>I know!

There are several things that attract me to Mommy. The number one on my list is the feeling i have when i am with Her. When i am with Mommy i feel completely safe and cared for. Also i love how funny She is. The funny voices She does leaves me on my back rolling, unable to breathe. Just sitting with Her watching the sunset ( and when i mean sunset i mean i'm staring at Her) is heaven on earth.

I love my Mommy, forever and ever.

That sounds nice...... sounds so cozy

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RE: We have all answered this question - 1/15/2008 2:49:39 PM

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   Nothing about my Dom repells me, for the things that repelled me would have come out in the very beginning and I would have backed off, if something distasteful were to occur later on chances are that because I loved him so much I'd be apt to overlook it.
If the OP is speaking about Dom's in general and I was seeking what would repell me enough not to continue then:
   If he consistantly had poor typing skills "hetc at nra a fter hted og." or consistant spelling errors or consistant grammar errors. That might be a problem.
   If he had unrealistic expectations (I'd be moving in with him by the end of the week on a first chat) or if our expectations didn't agree such as I would give up my career and remain literally chained to the stove all day.
    If he demanded 'Yes Sir' immediately.
    If he had um's.    Hard hard limit.
    If he currently had a wife or SO or had recently (less than a year) gotten out of a long term relationship
    If he expected me to sit in front of the pc or wait by the phone and always be available for him.
   If his voice was really annoying to me or and sorry no offense meant, but if he had a southern accent, I simply could not deal with it.
   If he were an incredible sports buff especially NASCAR it would be a deal breaker (sorry again no offense)
  If his pants show off his ass crack (I don't mind if his pants hang low and his ass is covered with boxers) I'd slip an ice cube down the back of his pants and then tell him 'not interested.'
   Bad teeth.   I understand problems with teeth but if they are all rotted, broken and missing especially in the front, I am repelled.
   Bad hygiene.
   And I have certain physical charateristics and if he does not possess them, I have to say no.

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RE: We have all answered this question - 1/15/2008 3:03:11 PM

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Oh yes I can.

oh no you can't!!!.

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RE: We have all answered this question - 1/15/2008 3:24:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: pupofMoGa

Hmmmmmm <ponders awhile>I know!

There are several things that attract me to Mommy. The number one on my list is the feeling i have when i am with Her. When i am with Mommy i feel completely safe and cared for. Also i love how funny She is. The funny voices She does leaves me on my back rolling, unable to breathe. Just sitting with Her watching the sunset ( and when i mean sunset i mean i'm staring at Her) is heaven on earth.

I love my Mommy, forever and ever.

You have some pretty funny voices yourself! And I LOVE laughing with you. I wouldnt have it any other way :)

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RE: We have all answered this question - 1/15/2008 6:24:01 PM

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This thread is ironic. I love irony.

A very wise therapist well-known in the community here once told me there are very few unique human emotions/expressions. For example, most anger is really fear of something and anger is the protective response we have. Many of the things that repel me about people are based on feelings of insecurity. Elitism, defensiveness, closed-mindedness, racism, intolerance for the plight of others are just a few I can think of off the top of my head.

Now, we all are insecure about some things and I think that's natural. However, insecurity to the point of being blind to the world around you and opinionated or close-minded or self-important is a gigantic turn off to many people. Oddly, this same therapist would tell you that people like that actually seek to repel others even though it appears they are asking for attention as they don't believe they are good enough. Either way, it's not my job to be their therapist and it is something I avoid completely.

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RE: We have all answered this question - 1/15/2008 8:14:21 PM

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And sarcasium to make light of a tense situation is just as good, but to say something thoughtless as that just for the effect to a person who is devastated, demeaning her feelings and her love for the man she lost does not fall under the catecory of funny to me.

That which you find thoughtful another finds thoughtless and in the reverse. No one person gets to decide which is the truth, only what is the truth to them.

We have you seen make statements that were found to be offensive, though you never bothered to apologize or own up to them. Others make statements and you think they should apologize because they offended you.

No one person gets to decide the right and the wrong.

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