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RE: Your stressed "D" type - 1/16/2008 6:03:04 AM

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HaveRope save the mason jars for the moonshiners. I agree with Dari. As long as the sub offers to help that is what counts.

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RE: Your stressed "D" type - 1/16/2008 7:35:12 AM

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Perhaps I can offer some clarity to my love's intent. Anger doesn't really factor into the equation. I have been dealing with such things as city hall (tax errors), and work (adversarial relatinonships betweeen gov't and customer) and the likes. Stress is sometimes ineveitable. We all seem to endure it at times. Candace (candy - the other half of "breatheasone") knows that I enjoy the activity ot whipping her pretty skin - there are just certain colors of pink that color coordinate well with her red hair (you know I love that princess). She knows that it is much like others that would take a walk to blow off steam. She's done that before, and it's been an amazing help to me.

I will have to agree with candy. i have rather cautious by nature (Hey, anyone can buy more chocolate, but she's the last piece of candy I'll ever get, so i gotta make sure she lasts...LOL). So hitting out of anger doesn't really factor in, it's more along the line of a brief cardio work out, with delightful coloring as a side effect. And it's soo much better than offering to spank the City's District Attorny - although they did need it (right baby...LOL).

Mike - the other half of "Breatheasone"

Hi DADDY!!!...wow You made a post LOL! Daddy did You think I needed rescuing? LOL.... Its really ok...I see that Our ways are not everyones ways, and I dig that....heck its what makes the world go round.....So its all good. I wasnt going to explain much more about this...cause I know what I mean...and I know we have a loving, healthy relationship thats SO FAR from any kind of abuse or anger driven beatings, and it wasnt even the point of the post! You and I both know You have never and would never do that Daddy...... LOL...I guess we are just freaks among freaks Daddy LOL

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RE: Your stressed "D" type - 1/18/2008 1:56:08 PM

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my M'Lady would never play with me in anger. if it pleased her to play with me i would of course do it at once but being stressed just would not put my M'Lady in the right space. for my M'Lady a nice foot rub or massage will relieve much of the stress of the day. making dinner or just being at her feet

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RE: Your stressed "D" type - 1/18/2008 2:48:36 PM

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I really do not see a problem with flogging/whipping/playing/whatever in anger. If stress has caused anger, and I am here to help him relieve stress, then by all means, I'm his to use for that. I think people are equating anger with being out of control and over the top, but I do not assume they go together. My Master has taken anger out on me, in a very controlled way, and although it may be difficult for me to absorb, I am never harmed, and would rather take what he gives me than deny him stress relief.

If one can work off anger by running on a treadmill, why can't one work off anger by wielding a flogger?

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RE: Your stressed "D" type - 1/18/2008 4:14:04 PM

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In talking with Daddy yesterday, and then this morning I heard how stressed out He is ...and continues to be, because of a few things that are going on with Him right now. Normally He handles this stuff and the like, in His stride. Right now it seems several things are converging to create the "prefect strom" of stress for Him. I told Him this morning I wanted Him to beat me, soon as in day or tomorrow...He said "Yes, I really do need to do that." (I could hear His voice brighten and lighten little just saying that) Its funny that He doesnt think of that, but that its the one thing that REALLY lifts His spirits, and will get a good deal of that stress off Him. Does anyone else offer up their backside when their "D" type is in need of stress relief?

offering doesn't get me done........
it gets ignored......
sadistic eh?
my backside gets done when He decides and not before
but as they say in strictly behavioural terms.....variable intervals are the most rewarding .....

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RE: Your stressed "D" type - 1/18/2008 4:15:38 PM

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If one can work off anger by running on a treadmill, why can't one work off anger by wielding a flogger?

because my local gym doesn't allow it......

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RE: Your stressed "D" type - 1/22/2008 1:58:08 PM

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I personally have never offered myself for pain for that reason, but now that it's being mentioned, it sounds like something I would just loooove!!!! This is a subject, or situation, that would depend on the sub......we are all different.

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RE: Your stressed "D" type - 1/22/2008 4:34:13 PM

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breatheasone, I totally understand your intent behind the first post and I'm with you 100%. I've done the same thing: offered my back to the relief of a stressful day. I was shocked at first at all the negative comments but then thought about that other thread where the sub asked for a flogging to relieve stress...and all the negative comments over there too. I find flogging cathartic myself, the pain seems to take all the other pain away. Subspace and Domspace for a little while is a nice place to be, a nice escape from reality, a cardio workout (as your Mr called it)...the endorphins and feel-goods are flying all round - the best stress reliever in the world. That's why they bottle it and sell it, hmmm? The whole intent behind the flogging, and the love that you two share, will always keep it on the sane side and be used for good not ill.

Keep on keeping on, if it works for you. I so enjoy reading your posts and knowing there is a very happy couple out there that shares a lot of insight and wisdom. Thank you.

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