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LPslittleclip -> the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/15/2008 5:41:45 PM)

have you ever received news so good you forgot a previous instruction from your Dominant? this happened to me today, i wasn't trying to be disrespectful but it happened. instead of being happy with my good news M'Lady was disappointed with me for forgetting the instructions. has this happened to you? please let me know i'm not the only submissive thats done this during training.



juliaoceania -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/15/2008 5:54:45 PM)

Howabout I did that today? I do it too often. I do it more often when I am not feeling well, which I have been ill for over a week. I just can't control my behavior as well when I feel icky.

Today it was when I interupted him when we were talking on the phone... twice. I was so anxious to make up for interupting him that I did it again. I am sitting here beating myself up for it, but I know if I call to apologize I might do it again, so I will wait for him to call me and be vewy qwiet.



slaveluci -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/15/2008 6:31:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LPslittleclip
have you ever received news so good you forgot a previous instruction from your Dominant? this happened to me today, i wasn't trying to be disrespectful but it happened. instead of being happy with my good news M'Lady was disappointed with me for forgetting the instructions. has this happened to you? please let me know i'm not the only submissive thats done this during training.

I'm not sure I really understand what happened.  You got good news and were then somehow disrespectful in the course of your reaction?

I can't really picture doing something He'd consider "disrespectful" because I'd gotten really good news.  I can say, though, that if I got news that was THAT good, He'd put aside the disappointment He might be feeling to be happy for/with me and address His disappointment later.  May not be the "domliest" reaction, but I know that's what He'd do.  Seeing me that happy would take precedence over not following a protocol.  Hey, if He made the rule, He can bend it[;)].

You're not the only sub to forget an instruction, so don't even imagine that you are.  As I said, though, I don't really understand what you apparently did that disappointed her....................luci



takenbyjohnr07 -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/15/2008 7:02:17 PM)

No it hasn't happened yet, for he is my world, but there is always tomorrow :)



Bound2One -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/15/2008 7:12:18 PM)

I don't know about the 'good news' part... but I've definitely forgotten bits of my training - minor things that sometimes slip my mind due to the general business of life.  No one is perfect!



angelslave77 -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/15/2008 7:46:54 PM)

I am hopless Sir will give me a task to do on the ph at night, for eg at midday tomorrow till 2pm you cant speak to anyone, just a little test to see if i can do it. But so often life gets in the way and i forget, thus i usually get a worse tasks to remind me not to forget things lol



xxblushesxx -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/15/2008 7:50:06 PM)

HoneyMaster enjoys exhuberance on my part, so, He would easily overlook that.
If I were ill, He'd make excuses for me too.

(yeah, I know, He's pretty wonderful)

~Christina



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/15/2008 9:51:18 PM)

That's the whole point of training- the worst thing you could do is suck yourself down into a "I'm so awful" spiral and not just take it for what it was, learn and move on.



rubberpet -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/15/2008 11:25:38 PM)

Yes, it has happened to me, but luckily for me, Mistress is pretty patient and understanding.  If She gave me instructions for something and I forgot them because I saved $12 a month on my car insurance by switching to Geico, it's safe to say I'm in for an ass reaming!  On the other hand, if given the same instructions and I forgot them because I just hit the lottery for $50,000, then She'd be nice enough to forgive my little faux pas.  She'd punish my ass afterwards for forgetting Her instructions, once the excitement wore off, of course.  She wouldn't want to ruin the moment.  See how sweet and benevolent She is? [:D]

Seriously, the importance of following a dominants instructions is very simple...remember them and you won't get beaten like a pinata!  [:D]



venusinblu -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/16/2008 2:20:17 AM)

Yes this has, i have often rushed in to tell Master something exciting and have completely forgotten what it was i was supposed to be doing for him! ...  i don't actually get physically punished for it, but a well raised eyebrow and the 'I think you've forgotten something' look is enough to make me blushingly contrite remember my manners. 



LPslittleclip -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/16/2008 4:56:05 PM)

i thank all of you for your responses they do make me feel a little less like a idiot for forgetting M'Ladys instructions. i do try to rember all of M'Ladys assignments and instructions i want to please her always, but i am only human.
happily collard by LadyPact
LPs_littleclip



batshalom -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/17/2008 7:00:56 AM)

The older I get, the more distractable I become. I've forgotten things because of good news, bad news, illness, boredom, sleepiness, busy-ness, and general malaise. Forgetting just happens, for whatever reason.



LaMspeach -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/17/2008 7:24:27 AM)

Thanks for reminding me that I forgot to do something yesterday.

Yes, I forget things all the time. I get so wrapped up in everyday life that I simple forget. I used to be beat myself up a lot and just feel awful, for me that the worse possible things to do. (As LA mentioned it starts a whole downward spiral)  Now I simple apologize for forgetting, go and do what ever I forgot, and take the consequences. When he knows I am trying my hardest he isn’t as hard on me, when he thinks I am slacking off and not putting forth my best effort ... well that is a different story.



Justme696 -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/17/2008 7:28:57 AM)

may I aks if there are certain instructions you forget...or is it random and dependend on other things?



LaMspeach -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/17/2008 7:39:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Justme696

may I aks if there are certain instructions you forget...or is it random and dependend on other things?
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It is random depending on what else is happening. I am single mom of three, work full time, and very active in my three UM’s life. I don’t use any of the above as an excuse as to why I didn’t get what ever he told me to do done, nor do I have an “oh well”  attitude about it. I just learned I can do longer beat myself up about being human. Only Master is allowed to do that. * smiles*

Edit to add ... I didnt mean to imply that it is daily by syaing " all the time" or that he just lets it go. 



Justme696 -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/17/2008 7:45:48 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LaMspeach

quote:

ORIGINAL: Justme696

may I aks if there are certain instructions you forget...or is it random and dependend on other things?
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It is random depending on what else is happening. I am single mom of three, work full time, and very active in my three UM’s life. I don’t use any of the above as an excuse as to why I didn’t get what ever he told me to do done, nor do I have an “oh well”  attitude about it. I just learned I can do longer beat myself up about being human. Only Master is allowed to do that. * smiles*

Edit to add ... I didnt mean to imply that it is daily by syaing " all the time" or that he just lets it go. 


That is usefull information. Ofcourse as a Dom you can give a girl instructions, but is she fails over and over because of certain aspects in her private live (kids etc) then it has no use to give them. Both will get irritated
I will keep this in mind of rmyself, thank you :) 

edit:
to your add:  No we surely don't accept that :P



IrishMist -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/17/2008 8:13:37 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LPslittleclip

have you ever received news so good you forgot a previous instruction from your Dominant? this happened to me today, i wasn't trying to be disrespectful but it happened. instead of being happy with my good news M'Lady was disappointed with me for forgetting the instructions. has this happened to you? please let me know i'm not the only submissive thats done this during training.

Sure, all the time. You are, after all, only human [:)]



BeingChewsie -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/17/2008 9:34:54 AM)

Yes I have done that. I just did it yesterday..I was so excited over a commercial property in Kansas where the numbers are working out that I interruped him when he was voicing some concerns he had about it. He didn't snap at me, he just said "You might want to try listening to me when I talk"..[sm=whoa.gif].oopsies. He considers that "excited yipping leaping terrier" behavior of mine an endearing quality but likes when I remember the appropriate time and place to express it. I apologize, lifes goes on and I remember for at least the next few days [;)].



Justme696 -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/17/2008 9:39:59 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BeingChewsie

Yes I have done that. I just did it yesterday..I was so excited over a commercial property in Kansas where the numbers are working out that I interruped him when he was voicing some concerns he had about it. He didn't snap at me, he just said "You might want to try listening to me when I talk"..[sm=whoa.gif].oopsies. He considers that "excited yipping leaping terrier" behavior of mine an endearing quality but likes when I remember the appropriate time and place to express it. I apologize, lifes goes on and I remember for at least the next few days [;)].


somehow that sounded as cute behaviour  haha



LPslittleclip -> RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions (1/17/2008 9:58:05 AM)

i know that feeling very well, i have to watch and make shure i dont do it myself i do get to excited sometimes. thank you for your reply
LPs_littleclip



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