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RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions - 1/18/2008 2:45:06 PM

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thank you for your response. with my luck i would lose the planner somewhere

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RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions - 1/18/2008 2:49:49 PM

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yeah, mine gave me a notebook about a year and a half ago, to write down His directives and stuff.
I wonder what ever happened to that?...

That will be me, if I ever find a Dom.

That will probably also be the reason I never find a Dom.

dot fret if you give up before you start you will make it come true. just be yourself and keep looking you will find only that which you seek.
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RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions - 1/18/2008 9:04:52 PM

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pixel,

I wanted to come on Myself and tell you how very nice your comments were about Me. Yes, My clip has been told many times of O/our talks together and how valuable I feel you are as a friend. Thank you again, dear, for the kind words.

You're very welcome Lady Pact. My words were genuine and from the heart. I am honored to call you my friend and would greatly miss our talks.

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RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions - 1/18/2008 9:22:29 PM

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thank you for your response sir. i do enjoy pleasing her and i am very disappointed with my self when i fail for some reason. i do trust her completely this thread is part of the corrective measures M'Lady has put me to .it has helped to elevate the worst of the self abuse sir.
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littleclip,
Your Mistress is very wise. She has given you the opportunity to learn that you are not the only one who feels such deep self-loathing once they realize that for some reason, they've either disappointed or not completely satisfied the desires of the One they serve. I hope you're seeing, that it happens to us all.

Welcome to learning that regardless of how hard you try, you're still a male submissive who's just a member of the human race, and thus expected to make mistakes from time to time!

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RE: the importance of following a Dominants instructions - 1/19/2008 12:38:58 AM

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have you ever received news so good you forgot a previous instruction from your Dominant? this happened to me today, i wasn't trying to be disrespectful but it happened. instead of being happy with my good news M'Lady was disappointed with me for forgetting the instructions. has this happened to you? please let me know i'm not the only submissive thats done this during training.

I'm not sure I really understand what happened. You got good news and were then somehow disrespectful in the course of your reaction?

I can't really picture doing something He'd consider "disrespectful" because I'd gotten really good news. I can say, though, that if I got news that was THAT good, He'd put aside the disappointment He might be feeling to be happy for/with me and address His disappointment later. May not be the "domliest" reaction, but I know that's what He'd do. Seeing me that happy would take precedence over not following a protocol. Hey, if He made the rule, He can bend it.

You're not the only sub to forget an instruction, so don't even imagine that you are. As I said, though, I don't really understand what you apparently did that disappointed her....................luci

What she said!

If my Dom didn't put aside protocol for the moment of excitement that made me thrilled, I don't think he'd be my Dom for long. And by the way, I did that the first time I talked to a particular Dom on the phone. I squealed and was talking a mile a minute, and he chuckled, "I was looking for the word 'Sir'," but it was all good. So what did I do? I said "Thank you Sir, for reminding me," and went back to talking a mile a minute and fell on my bed giggling.

This is one of those places where reality and fantasy meet, I think.

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