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RE: first meet nerves - 1/15/2008 7:51:58 PM

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Consider the cause of the nerves and whether or not you believe it is in your best interests to play in this shape.

If you've communicated your fear and he hasn't reassured you, then think long and hard about meeting him.

The Man would have put off playing on that first meet if I was that nervous. Because he values me as a person more than a warm body to fulfill his fantasies. YMMV

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RE: first meet nerves - 1/15/2008 9:54:18 PM

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Remember to pack the condoms and that he's already your master so if there are any problems, it's nothing to worry about because you've already discussed and decided how everything is going to be together.

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RE: first meet nerves - 1/15/2008 10:38:22 PM

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quote:

because you've already discussed and decided how everything is going to be together.

interesting- question to OP have you?

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RE: first meet nerves - 1/16/2008 2:30:55 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Consider the cause of the nerves and whether or not you believe it is in your best interests to play in this shape.

If you've communicated your fear and he hasn't reassured you, then think long and hard about meeting him.

The Man would have put off playing on that first meet if I was that nervous. Because he values me as a person more than a warm body to fulfill his fantasies. YMMV

Is anyone paying attention? Her first post said it was the first PLAY meet. Not the first meet.

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RE: first meet nerves - 1/16/2008 5:13:05 AM

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I would write a letter to him, telling him about my nervousness, my hopes, my desire to please, my appreciation of him... and then hold onto it... and decide after to give it to him or not... I have done that. It is true, it is the only time it will be your first time. Record it somehow. It will be a deeply cherished gift.

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RE: first meet nerves - 1/16/2008 7:33:57 AM

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i just let the nerves take their course,there was not "play" in O/our first meeting face to face but that was becasue O/our first meeting face to face was when my Lord picked me up at the airport. so i just stayed awake allnight on the airplanes. beleive me i was releived when i got to the final destination and saw Him walking up to me smiling.

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