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RE: What Can I Offer? - 1/18/2008 8:39:02 PM

SouthernSpankin

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You say you "have been speaking with a Master online for several days now," and you are already discussing giving up things of major significance in your life? That's insane. Look at the vanilla world, if you just knew a guy for several days, what would you think if he began to start discussing life-altering changes on your part?

What I meant was this:

Say a loved one in your life was straight-vanilla. She meets a guy, goes on a couple dates with him, spends several days getting to know him (IN REAL LIFE), thinks he is wonderful, etc. The guy starts talking about making her make life-altering chances in her life. What would you tell her? Now remember, you're in the same basic situation, yet you haven't even had any REAL LIFE experience with this person (like you said, it was online).

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RE: What Can I Offer? - 1/18/2008 8:54:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: Archer

Well not that this guy knows this or has any clue as to why he's asking, "what do you have to offer me?"
But there is a legitimate school of thought that by asking the prospective slave to tell the prospective Master whatthey have to offer. They force the slave to do the self examination to see their worth. To see their potential, to understand that there are many ways to be a valuable asset to the relationship.

I have the question mentioned in my profile, not because I expect any financial gain but rather because I expect that any slave I take on will be a net asset when ballanced against them not being in my service.

What can you do to enhance my life?
It's a valid question to be asked both directions top down and bottom up.

Thank you for being a voice of reason. It strikes me as odd that so much onus is put on the dominants regarding what they can do for, and their responsibilities towards, submissives... yet the reverse does seem to be the case nearly as often. Indeed, one wonders, who serves who? Who turns the screw?

As you said, it is a valid question in both directions. I would hope, and advise, the poster to be asking that of this unnamed dominant... but said dominant has just as much right to be asking it as well. If these forums are about discussion, education and a source of learning... as some purport them to be... then what are we teaching these "submissives"?

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RE: What Can I Offer? - 1/19/2008 4:55:33 PM

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Negotiating you do over dinner, not over a keyboard.

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RE: What Can I Offer? - 1/19/2008 6:49:04 PM

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I have my own house and job

Sweetie...use whatever brain power you used in acquiring these things, and apply it towards your relationships. Just curious, are your job and house online as well, or are they real? Get it??? Good...and best of luck next time.

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RE: What Can I Offer? - 1/19/2008 8:05:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: Archer

Well not that this guy knows this or has any clue as to why he's asking, "what do you have to offer me?"
But there is a legitimate school of thought that by asking the prospective slave to tell the prospective Master whatthey have to offer. They force the slave to do the self examination to see their worth. To see their potential, to understand that there are many ways to be a valuable asset to the relationship.

I have the question mentioned in my profile, not because I expect any financial gain but rather because I expect that any slave I take on will be a net asset when ballanced against them not being in my service.

What can you do to enhance my life?
It's a valid question to be asked both directions top down and bottom up.

*pulls out my list...
1. I have a big soft bum for You to beat daily, Oh Domly Dom
2. I have a willing mouth that will be used to suck Your Domlish cock every night before You sleep, Sir.
3. I have an open cunt that of course You will fuck every day (twice on Sundays).
4. I have a pair of nipples that need to regularly be flogged, pinched, licked, and pierced in time.
5. I have eyes that You will restrict every day. And You will ride me about that until I get it right.
6. I have an empty closet that is open to be filled with clothes You buy me and make me wear as Your slutty whore.
7. I have a willing spirit to be passed around to others.
8. I have a ... what's that?

Huh? I'm supposed to do waht HE says I'm supposed to do...*gets out my submissive's book and opens to page 132...

"Submission - the difference between do me subs and giving subs"

ohhhh... oops. I forgot to read that chapter.

In truth... Sure, of course ... what is the purpose of an s type except to bring more meaning and joy and ease to the D types....? And vice versa...

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RE: What Can I Offer? - 1/20/2008 4:23:22 AM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

See, I would have to think that it would be the same all over the world, Dominants (good and real and true and whatever) Dominants can get their dick sucked (or pussy sucked as the case may be) about any fucking time they want.

What do you offer that will enhance his life???????? Cause if he trains you and invests his time in you, knowing that you are gonna be here and in it only when it is convenient for you......

That don't mean money, can you construct, repair cars, garden, teach him to play chess, clean his house, whatever----but something he needs or wants, afterall, what you are looking to find is the fulfillment of a want or need, and since you cannot fulfill his want or need to own you completely 24/7/365 and do as he pleases, what are you offering in compensation for that level (is this making any fucking sense???? I hope so)

Ron

It makes perfect sense! InkedMaster says i enrich His life. It's not monetary in the least. It's not always easy and not always apparent when we are putting focus on ourselves instead of focus on the Dominant. When my thoughts are "what can i do, what can i offer" i am thinking of me instead of thinking "what does He need, what does He want."

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