RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave

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MistressVnus -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 8:17:49 PM)
Thank you!! Thank you!!! Thank you!!! You took the words right out of my mouth!! There was a subliminal message in there somewhere. Otherwise, why didn't they just ask, "What attracts you to a sub?" GEEEEEEEEEEEESHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!

Daddysredhead -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 8:18:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddyncherry in the 80's there was a magazine called BBW That's the first place I ever saw or heard the term, too. The women were definitely "defined" - very attractive, professional looking, heavier set gals who had the same type of "cover girl" look that the smaller girls did, but they just weighed more. quote: i'd much rather see a woman "owning" it....than being nasty and bitter.. nasty and bitter instantly makes any physical beauty marred and ruined. I agree 100%.

agoodgirl4Daddy -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 8:21:10 PM)
To further muddy the definition, Wikipedia has a page on BBW, and cherry is correct. According to Wikipedia, "The terms "Big Beautiful Women" and "BBW" were coined by Carole Shaw in 1979, when she launched BBW Magazine, a fashion and lifestyle magazine for plus-size women." Link to the Wikipedia page: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BBW Some excerpts (all from the Wikipedia site): "Big Beautiful Woman" (commonly abbreviated as BBW) is a neologism most frequently used in the context of affirmation of or sexual attraction to women who are overweight or obese, whose bodies have excessive adipose tissue. The term BBW is a visually-determined concept that does not have an explicit lower or upper weight limitation, and may denote women who may be considered barely overweight to those who are morbidly obese. The term has several near-synonyms with varying shades of meaning: Full-figured or Rubenesque - the latter term refers to the art of Peter Paul Rubens, best known for portraying full-bodied women. Voluptuous and zaftig usually connote ripeness, sensuality, and a body shape involving large breasts and wide hips.

Daddysredhead -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 8:31:08 PM)
hehehe..... ~ wonders how putting this as a description in one's profile will do ~ Lovely eyes, great smile, soft skin, wavy hair, loves to please, and has excessive adipose tissue. [:D]

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 8:32:28 PM)
The use of the term BBW ,while overused to a great extent ,still makes it more palatable to use for those of us of a more "fluffier"? nature..when asked by a male who yet, has not had a chance to view us in our full figured glory asks.."soooo, what kind of body do you have"?..and since the days of "never ask a woman her weight "have since come and gone, and a woman wishes to be as honest as possible without giving the "numbers" out exactly, the term BBW became the way to be honest...to maybe show to that male that she is desireable, to have her particular light burst through that ever present physical taboo....TemptingTaboo..:0)

agoodgirl4Daddy -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 8:34:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead hehehe..... ~ wonders how putting this as a description in one's profile will do ~ Lovely eyes, great smile, soft skin, wavy hair, loves to please, and has excessive adipose tissue. [:D] LOL... you silly redhead! [:D]

Daddysredhead -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 8:41:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: agoodgirl4Daddy quote: ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead hehehe..... ~ wonders how putting this as a description in one's profile will do ~ Lovely eyes, great smile, soft skin, wavy hair, loves to please, and has excessive adipose tissue. [:D] LOL... you silly redhead! [:D] I can't help myself... (giggle, giggle) [:)]

sexyred1 -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 8:45:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressPav quote: ORIGINAL: MistressNoName It's just amazing how many, many times this subject continually comes up. AMAZING! Just goes to show how incredibly obsessed we are with this subject. It's so been said a million times over. No one person is qualified to define what beauty is for all of us. Each individual decides for themselves. Now, can we maybe talk about how ugly (physically and personality-wise) some thin ppl are? Or is there just no interest in beating that dead horse? MNN, BBW Extraordinaire It never ceases to amaze me how many females continute to get pissed off by this topic. Does the truth hurt? No, dear, there is no "truth", that is precisely the problem. The only thing that pisses people off is when complete morons continually make sweeping pronouncements about how other people should define themselves, label themselves and then get pissed off when the confident women who reply to such threads speak up about it.

agoodgirl4Daddy -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 8:48:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 No, dear, there is no "truth", that is precisely the problem. The only thing that pisses people off is when complete morons continually make sweeping pronouncements about how other people should define themselves, label themselves and then get pissed off when the confident women who reply to such threads speak up about it. [:D] Yuppers!!!! tell 'em about it, sexyred!!! [:D]

irisartisan -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 8:52:59 PM)
I think Meredith Brooks labelled us best when all is said and done. I’m a bitch, I’m a lover I’m a child, I’m a mother I’m a sinner, I’m a saint I do not feel ashamed I’m your hell, I’m your dream I’m nothing in between You know, you wouldn’t want it any other way“

sexyred1 -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 8:55:15 PM)
What is really sad, is that the OP even has to to start a thread like this because she feels no one is attracted to her and then globalizes it to mean no one is attracted to BBWs. Rather than take ownership for herself. I can assure the OP that there are indeed men all over the planet, including the smaller known satellite of collarme where men do enjoy BBWs and every other type of woman. What the OP and every other person who starts the ill fated BBW and fat chicks threads FAILS to realize, ad nauseum, is that the most attractive quality that any woman or man can posssess, in spades....is CONFIDENCE. Without it, the most beautiful woman is a quivering mass of insecurity and the plainest of women becomes a goddess. But let's stop the passive/aggressive questioning of what would attract you to a BBW or any sub/slave; the question really is not about that, OP, is it now?

KnOcala -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 9:00:01 PM)
confidence and self respect in appearance. 1st

Bound2One -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 9:00:40 PM)
quote: What the OP and every other person who starts the ill fated BBW and fat chicks threads FAILS to realize, ad nauseum, is that the most attractive quality that any woman or man can posssess, in spades....is CONFIDENCE. Without it, the most beautiful woman is a quivering mass of insecurity and the plainest of women becomes a goddess. Thanks for saying it for me sexyred! Precisely what I would have said...

daddyncherry -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 9:20:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressNoName Now, can we maybe talk about how ugly (physically and personality-wise) some thin ppl are? Not trying to be antagonistic but there is there a term like SSC (Small,Sexy,Chick) or TBW (Thin,Beautiful Woman)?......If there was then people would be pissed or at the very least not quite impressed There are ugly and beautiful on both ends of the scale...and for those of us in the middle somewhere too....Alot can be made up for or destroyed by personality....and like sexyred1 said, CONFIDENCE is the biggest HOT thing of all.

dcnovice -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 9:31:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead DC, I must know. What does this stand for? BNSBBCQWM [8\|] I'm waiting... taps foot... [:D] BNSBBCQWM = big not-so-beautiful but charming [in a] quirky way man

Daddysredhead -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 9:32:54 PM)
See? I tooolllldddd you... [;)]

azropedntied -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 9:56:37 PM)
will somebody just please tie me gag me and beat and play with me for a few days female with bilateral breath sounds and a pulse, blood coursing through her veins experience a plus .deviant a bonus !hows is that for descriptive ?too desperate chuckles ...

CalifChick -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 9:59:31 PM)
AZ sweetie? You forgot to tell her to pack the crime scene tape. Cali

breatheasone -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 10:13:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressPav quote: ORIGINAL: MistressNoName It's just amazing how many, many times this subject continually comes up. AMAZING! Just goes to show how incredibly obsessed we are with this subject. It's so been said a million times over. No one person is qualified to define what beauty is for all of us. Each individual decides for themselves. Now, can we maybe talk about how ugly (physically and personality-wise) some thin ppl are? Or is there just no interest in beating that dead horse? MNN, BBW Extraordinaire It never ceases to amaze me how many females continute to get pissed off by this topic. Does the truth hurt? OMG...i LOVE that....yes....yes....yes.....apparently the truth does piss some people off....me?....call me fat...go ahead...say it...You know what?...its TRUE!!!....am I going to wither and die....no....if it bothered me, I guess I'd change it wouldn't I?

dcnovice -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 10:15:30 PM)
quote: It's just amazing how many, many times this subject continually comes up. AMAZING! Now if we could just find a way to combine it with forced bisexuality . . .

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