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RE: PRETENDERS ? - 8/29/2005 12:51:39 PM   
Kasia


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ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

[laugh] I don't know about Tasmania but if you ever get to San Francisco I'll give you an intro to Fakir Mustifar... he scares me.


Actually, I live in Germany - and so far the only one that is scary seems to be me, I managed to scare off all the "potential subs/slaves" approaching me on this site so far. And even some courageous enough to meet in real (one just freaked out after 10 minutes last Saturday evening and run of).

But I adore scary people, if I ever come to USA I will certainly give a call

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RE: PRETENDERS ? - 8/29/2005 1:16:24 PM   
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[laugh] I don't know about Tasmania but if you ever get to San Francisco I'll give you an intro to Fakir Mustifar... he scares me.


John,
He doesn't scare me because his activities are a "just say NO!" thing for beth & I. But after being in his audience once when he came to LA and "assisting" by pulling and holding one of the ropes that supported him, I was scared FOR him! Yet, it was impressive to watch and I appreciated the mystic aura that his presentation created.


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RE: PRETENDERS ? - 8/29/2005 1:18:44 PM   
JohnWarren


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ORIGINAL: Kasia


quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

[laugh] I don't know about Tasmania but if you ever get to San Francisco I'll give you an intro to Fakir Mustifar... he scares me.


Actually, I live in Germany - and so far the only one that is scary seems to be me, I managed to scare off all the "potential subs/slaves" approaching me on this site so far. And even some courageous enough to meet in real (one just freaked out after 10 minutes last Saturday evening and run of).


I must have been looking at the wrong profile.

It can be very difficult for intense players. Either the person can't play at your level or he or she lacks the skill to do it safely.

You might want to take a look at the story The Brat on my website


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RE: PRETENDERS ? - 8/29/2005 1:35:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: fastlane

I loved the Pretenders, are they still touring?




I wish. As to the OP- whatever happened to 'Fake it till you make it'? We are, to some degree or other, what circumstances have made us, but to the extent that choice is meaningful, becoming begins with wanting to become.

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RE: PRETENDERS ? - 8/29/2005 2:54:39 PM   
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many men must feel physically connected before they can be open emotionally.



I'm happy to hear that many men can be open emotionally. heh Where are these men?



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RE: PRETENDERS ? - 8/29/2005 4:55:43 PM   
sweetpettjenny


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RE: PRETENDERS ? - 8/30/2005 6:09:29 AM   
Slutsub


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Status: offline 		emerald.. i do hope you are teasing...

hmmm i have my Master whom i love with all my heart and soul...it took me along time to find my One. and im just concerned about the new subbies in here being dupped by pretenders and maybe dangerous ones at that...

to me.......this is not a funny subject at all.........having been there and done that before Master rescued me..........

so forgive me if i dont think Your teasing is funny



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RE: PRETENDERS ? - 8/30/2005 6:13:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Slutsub
hmmm i have my Master whom i love with all my heart and soul...it took me along time to find my One. and im just concerned about the new subbies in here being dupped by pretenders and maybe dangerous ones at that...

to me.......this is not a funny subject at all.........having been there and done that before Master rescued me..........

so forgive me if i dont think Your teasing is funny

Absolutely forgiven, humor is as unique a taste as one's preference for wine.

Personally I'm of the tough love camp that we're supposedly all mature responsible adults and need to be taken to task for it and expected to act like it.

We make mistakes, absolutely. But submissive doesn't equate to brainless sex crazed vulnerable puppy UNLESS the submissive allows it.

As usual, I'm not suggesting we don't help others, but we help others by holding them responsible, giving them sensible and reasonable information, and allowing them to live their lives.

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RE: PRETENDERS ? - 8/30/2005 7:38:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Slutsub

hmmm i have my Master whom i love with all my heart and soul...it took me along time to find my One. and im just concerned about the new subbies in here being dupped by pretenders and maybe dangerous ones at that...


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RE: PRETENDERS ? - 8/30/2005 11:36:46 AM   
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I don't have too much sympathy for people who are worried that others are going to be "dupped." Ever stop to think that there might be some SUBS who are just in it for sex?

Lordandmaster


i'm not in it "just for sex" but there had damned well better BE some, LOL.

pinkpleasures

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RE: PRETENDERS ? - 8/30/2005 11:45:15 AM   
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is it just me........or do others see it happening.

seems like we are being infiltrated by pretenders........which..is such a shame..i left the "other site" alt...........because it was happening there........isnt there someway to stop these men.......who are only after sex.......(and not seriously in the scene)
from coming in here and just being a nuisance...........please someone do something !!

slut sub


What should the site do? And why is a Man seeking a play partner less a member of CM than one seeking a life partner? And why should new people be barred? And why can't you develop the discretion to say "bye bye" to a Man who wants something other than what you want?

i'm not talking about safety issues...safe calls..etc. i mean, why can't you "just say no" to a Man who wants something different without the need to enter an Op thread about pretenders?

pinkpleasures

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RE: PRETENDERS ? - 8/30/2005 12:25:37 PM   
slavedesires


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ORIGINAL: caitlyn

You want to stop men from looking for sex?

Good luck with that one. I'm curious to see how well that works out for you. ~huge grin~



lol catlyn...what about the woman too?
i have been in contact with girls here who get off showing nakie pics of themselves to Us and have no further contact.... as if that did something for Us.... others who who are into kinky sex but think WIITWD is a joke and D/s is a farse......

so both genders are totally pretenders.

besides i really like the show (The Pretenders) better than dealing with all this bullshit.

~~shy

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RE: PRETENDERS ? - 8/30/2005 1:36:01 PM   
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RE: PRETENDERS ? - 9/1/2005 9:14:40 PM   
OscarHargraves


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Status: offline 		What exactly makes them 'Pretenders'? Just because they don't do things your way? Or maybe they don't like what you like? Surely *grin* you're not implying that they are looking for sex and the other members of this community don't want sex? Have a heart and loosen up a notch. Lots of people are different and they can still be fun to talk too.

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RE: PRETENDERS ? - 9/1/2005 9:22:13 PM   
LadyAngelika


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pretenders


I love the Pretenders.

I'd have to say my favorite song is a toss up between Brass In Pocket & Don't Get Me Wrong....

- LA

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