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IronBear -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 11:04:11 AM)
Roughly half the Dommies I know are BBFW (Big Beautiful Fiesty Women) and about half the sub/slaves (female) are BBW. As one lass commented to me on the phone the other day. "The advantage of having a BBW sub is you have more body to flog, more flesh to decorate with needles and more fun with bondage." Iron Bear Master of Bruin Cottage (A Victorian Lifestyle poly home) "I judge a Man by what I see him do and not by what others tell me he does." (Captain Sir Edward Pellew of the HMS Indefatigable to Midshipman Hornblower ~ C.S. Forrester)

subtee -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 11:06:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lisakb I am really thin and gorgeous... This is a common affliction here on CM; all of the women are thin and gorgeous. The men too, except they're all ripped and gorgeous. It's very ordinary and mundane here, and the best advice I can give you is to try to live with and accept yourself as the thin and gorgeous person that you are. No one should judge you for these outward, shallow limitations. It's not your fault and those who would not only judge but try to change you are monsters. Just because you're thin and gorgeous does NOT mean there is anything wrong with you! Sure, it's rather boring, but I'm sure you're just as thin and gorgeous on the inside as you are on your regular, run of the mill, humdrum thin and gorgeous exterior. Godspeed.

everhope -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 11:24:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sassysexygirl that's my [sm=2cents.gif] gemmie PS and i never refer to myself as a BBW. just never have. i've always considered myself "thick" and called myself that as well. i never have either. i prefer cute fat chick. and in all honesty, i really just wanted to see my new sig line.

somethndif -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 11:46:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BeMyDogBitch Ever notice how many submissive women are BBW's? I wonder if it's really low self-esteem as a result of being unhappy with their bodies that drives their "submissive" desires. To me, this not true submissive nature, and I suspect that many of them would not be seeking the bottom role if they had a better opinion of themselves. I think that's why there is so much insecurity and emotional baggage that seems to go with dealing with BBW "slaves". Don't get me wrong, I'm not putting anyone down, but personally, I prefer my slave(s) to be secure in their desire to be dominated, no matter what their body-type is. Know thyself, slaves. By and large, women in BDSM and D&s are bi and LARGE. But not mine. grin Dan

lizcgirl -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 11:46:22 AM)
Hey, a friend of mine gave one of those insult/compliments to my best friend and I-- he told us he likes his women 'HEALTHY'. lol. So we call ourselves Healthy Bitches now. I just had to share that piece because I read all the posts saying 'I'm fat', 'I'm a BBW'-- nope, we're just HEALTHY. [:D] That being said, I weigh more than I look, I gained my weight evenly and have curves still, but I am a little more 'healthy' than I was in HS, but oh well. It doesn't effect my confidence, the previous relationships I had with narrow minded pricks effected my confidence, not my size. I look good, I get compliments all the time, and even if I DIDN'T, I am a kick ass person so it doesn't bother me. I understand you said you didn't post this to be rude, but whenever you bring up something like this, you should automatically know it will stir up a lot of resentment. That would be like a female posting and asking why is it most Doms have small dicks. (I am NOT saying that, so PLEASE don't take it out of context- it's just an example of rudeness) I would choose your words a little more carefully if you don't want to offend. And if you really don't care what others think of you to the extent you say, have you ever considered that maybe it's your attitude that is attracting the less than confident subs? Confident girls don't tend to put up with being insulted as much as those who have low self esteem. So maybe you should stop worrying about the weight of the general public and worry more about how you present yourself to those you find attractive.

Phin -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 12:13:00 PM)
why cant we necropost a good thread??

AquaticSub -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 12:14:53 PM)
Why, why, why, why!!!! hides behind Phin

persephonee -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 1:05:43 PM)
i am literally making myself late for a playdate to post this so forgive me not being able to read every reply.... OMFG..... firstly i have been "round like a ball" (as my son would say) for my entire life. Yes i had issues with it when i was in JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL. Since growing up and even more out...i have had exactly ZERO trouble attracting male or female attention sexually and have not had one issue with my own body aside from wanting to be a bit healthier, and now i would just like my knees to last longer what with all the damn kneeling.... i myself always find it odd but not unwelcomed that the men who dominate me the best in a scene and in life are also the ones that i would literally run over with my cart at the grocery store if they were moving too slowly or in my way somehow. My Doms are also human beings who are of a certain age...there are physical characteristics that i find to be less than ominous and they have careers that i find less than fascinating....just as they find in me a sammy bottom who is worn and tired looking from my outside life....we are people...kinky people who crave and act out on certain things.... i could say something snarky about the way Bitchboy looks but i assume that has been taken care of prior to this post..... thank you and be well all.

sassysexygirl -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 1:08:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: everhope i never have either. i prefer cute fat chick. and in all honesty, i really just wanted to see my new sig line. lol cute fat chick works for me too ............. and your new sig line floored me {and now edited to add: dammit, didn't read the "Stevie Nicks" part LOL} scared me for a second. gemmie

CalifChick -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 2:03:18 PM)
{three year old threads} [sm=blasted.gif] How's that Phin? Cali

lizcgirl -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 3:57:24 PM)
LOL, I didn't even realize the original post was 3 years old. Wow, this one should have been left for dead then.

christine1 -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 4:41:38 PM)
cute fat chick...cfc kute fat chick..KFC. hmmm, no contest, i'll take mine with extra gravy please! oh, and i am kind of partial to their coleslaw too. [8\|]

DesFIP -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 4:43:11 PM)
Obesity/weight issues in the lifestyle appeal to be consistent with weight issues in nonkinks. Go do the research on how many 44 year old women in this country are overweight and the relationship to the lack of physical exercise in everyday life plus natural weight gain with every year over 25 plus weight gain upon menopause and perimenopause and percentage of women of your age hitting that before you announce with zero psychological testing background that it's due to self esteem issues. Because it isn't and you are clueless.

chellekitty -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 5:38:33 PM)
quote: why is it most Doms have small dicks. i sooo don't understand why people always say this!! all the doms i have met have had average to slightly larger than average dicks! average, fyi is 5 to 5 1/2 inches...this isn't some porno where every guy is walking around with a 10 inch or larger hard on, this is real life we are talking about here... quote: (I am NOT saying that, so PLEASE don't take it out of context- it's just an example of rudeness) oh...whoops.... lol...i just had to do it...[sm=imsorry.gif] chelle

lizcgirl -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 5:48:05 PM)
LOL- I expected some one to poke at the example, it was most rude and inaccurate example I could think of to use for men, since this thread was about women. Very nice. lmao. [:D]

dovie -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 6:04:05 PM)
eating chocolate bon-bons as i read this thread.......licking fingers woieeee dovie

HornyToadsMI -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 7:17:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ModeratorEleven Keep in mind that it generally only bothers people with low self-esteem [;)] XI Ouch....someone has a wicked sense of humor...... I am submissive to Toad. I am somewhat curvy, but not BBW by any standard. I am very Domme in my business life, and it is nice to have a stong person to that i know will take care of me. So, stereotyping can be dangerous (laughs the blonde sorority chick!).

dcnovice -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 7:20:11 PM)
quote: Ever notice how many submissive women are BBW's? They are? You'd think someone would have mentioned it before now.

Level -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 7:23:33 PM)
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Huntertn -> RE: BBW subs... I wonder (5/14/2008 7:24:07 PM)
Big little small large.whats it matter in the end anyway? its whats inside that countssub or Dom!

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