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RE: homework for subs? - 1/20/2008 11:34:25 AM

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In fact, He complains that I never let Him buy me anything.

Take that card and buy a few things that both of you can enjoy....you have my permission!

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RE: homework for subs? - 1/20/2008 11:35:39 AM

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. so that know that they are owned.
All ideas welcomed
Wes

Every 15 minutes have them ask you. "Am I owned?'

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RE: homework for subs? - 1/20/2008 11:37:55 AM

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Hi -- I'm looking for things (!) for my subs to do during the day/ week.. so that know that they are owned.

All ideas welcomed

Wes

I used to have to take a picture of myself every week. It had to be posed and include certain things based on his whim of the week. It was fun and creative and made me think of him often as I planned the shot.

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RE: homework for subs? - 1/20/2008 11:39:12 AM

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Busy work is not the answer unless what you're looking for is a reason for them to flip you off faster.

BTW, how many of them are there? And do you have plans to actually meet any of them?

Real people of your age have enough work to do that a good dominant would not seek to overburden them just to assuage his own insecure feelings of being extraneous. They have jobs, families, homes all of which take huge amounts of stress and time. Why not assign them a half hour hot bath with candles and chamomile tea, or some such designed to show you care, assuming you do.

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RE: homework for subs? - 1/20/2008 12:38:59 PM

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Homework doesn't seem like a good idea. Just having them live under orders day-to-day seems like a good reinforcement.

Still, normal homework slaves tend to get anyhow includes housework and shopping for everyday items, such as groceries and things that the house goes through regularly such as lightbulbs, toiletries, paper, pens, staples, etc.

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RE: homework for subs? - 1/20/2008 12:40:31 PM

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Why not assign them a half hour hot bath with candles and chamomile tea, or some such designed to show you care, assuming you do.

ohhhh make that an hour, and that is definitely my kind of homework assignment!

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RE: homework for subs? - 1/20/2008 1:11:51 PM

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Hi -- I'm looking for things (!) for my subs to do during the day/ week.. so that know that they are owned.

All ideas welcomed

Wes

ok, i read this differently than most everyone else seems to have...

to me, it reads "my sub(s) wish to have things to do to remind them and make them feel more owned while i am not there".

Daddy has me write email on anything that my little peabrain thinks up, and occasionaly gives me little tasks to do, such as "give the bat a kiss when you wake and before you go to bed"
"any time you self-pleasure, thank me for the orgasm, afterwards"

things like that.

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edited to add....the bat is the vampire bat stuffie he gave me for my birthday

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RE: homework for subs? - 1/23/2008 9:35:16 PM

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I love the idea of homework. Master gives me assignments on a regular basis. They arent always something written, but often include things like researching a certain topic, picking out outfits or toys that He wants for me, wearing something that He specifically asked me to wear, taking pictures of certain things or situations that he likes, making myself cum in public, etc. etc. This is His way of making sure that He is always on my mind and making sure that i am kept in line, and am constantly thinking of ways to please Him. Homework is also often used as a way of punishing me when ive been bad. If i have done something wrong, he will make me research it, and find better ways to behave.I love the feeling i get when i do something that He has asked of me, and His face lights up with pride. Also, these tasks that he gives me are often tests, that, if passed, earn me a reward, which we usually both enjoy. wink wink. He also has been wanting me to keep a journal of my thoughts, so that He has a better undersanding of my feelings and so that He knows that i am being completely open with Him.

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