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dogobedience -> Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 5:57:16 PM)
I am currently searching for an additional property. In my quest to find another who thinks like my kali thinks, I find many who claim they want 24/7/365. The difficulty is that the fantasy of that does not match up with the realities of daily and continious enslavement. Many cross my path, few can live an absolute slaves life like my kali has. For many it is okay for a weekend or even longer, but in the end they go back to a part-time sometime BDSM life. They are not right or wrong about their desires, just confused in what really happens in a daily slaves life. Fantasy never is close to reality longterm. A weekend, a play date........ YES........longterm NO. It is one thing to think you want total enslavement. It is totally different when you actually live it. I am finding many who want BDSM when it is "good for them and works in their life". The good news is most tops/bottoms ONLY need that. I need more. To me total and complete ownership means you do what you are ordered to do. Most of the time you want to obey anyways. However sometimes you do not want to follow orders. It is that defining moment(s) that a true slaves heart surfaces. FEW REALLY HAVE THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A true and developed slave obeys and is happy to comply nomatter the command, finding satisfaction in the doing of something that she did not want to do. Yes there some limits, but few. Who else out there really lives a 24/7/365 total slave life or aspires for that?

ownedgirlie -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 6:01:07 PM)
I do.

dogobedience -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 6:03:00 PM)
Congrats, you are one of a few.

Elegant -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 6:06:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dogobedience Most of the time you want to obey anyways. However sometimes you do not want to follow orders. It is that defining moment(s) that a true slaves heart surfaces. FEW REALLY HAVE THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A true and developed slave obeys and is happy to comply nomatter the command, finding satisfaction in the doing of something that she did not want to do. Yes there some limits, but few. Well, I guess then I am not a twue slave according to your definition. Almost 9 years as his property. Seven of those years in the same household (literally 24/7/365 as we both work from home). I do what he commands and more..but as to always being happy to comply?.....I have my bad mood days just as any other human does. So, while I might not be happy to follow an order or do a task it still gets done. taking off my twue slave collar and replacing it with a velcro substitution

AquaticSub -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 6:07:17 PM)
~Fast Reply~ I do. But I don't want your slave's life or his slave's life or her slave's life. I want the life of being Valyraen's slave. It's drastically different. I was once told you "You may not be able to be my slave, but you could be someone else's" and it's something I've taken to heart. The term absolute slavery means little if nothing to me since it could mean anything from silks, satins and diamonds to only wearing clothes once a week. It could mean gourmet food, it could mean nothing but cereal with piss in it.

beargonewild -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 6:09:06 PM)
Eventually I will need to be owned by another. Having been owned once befoe, I see the errors I made on my part and now taking the opportunity to fully learned from that. The drive to actively seek another master isn't strong enough yet though it is still there.

AquaticSub -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 6:10:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Elegant Well, I guess then I am not a twue slave according to your definition. Almost 9 years as his property. Seven of those years in the same household (literally 24/7/365 as we both work from home). I do what he commands and more..but as to always being happy to comply?.....I have my bad mood days just as any other human does. So, while I might not be happy to follow an order or do a task it still gets done. taking off my twue slave collar and replacing it with a velcro substitution In all sincerity, if you aren't "real" I don't think I've got a prayer. [:)]

dogobedience -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 6:10:37 PM)
Happy to comply, meaning more correctly, to do it even if you do not want to.

ownedgirlie -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 6:11:29 PM)
Happiness to comply at all times is nearly impossible. Celeste once posted about how sad it makes her when she has to do things that are contrary to the benefit of her Master's health, and I could relate to that. It makes me sad to knowingly do what might not be healthy for him but he wants anyway. It is also difficult to do those things that hurt me, either physically or emotionally. But I still do them, and I still thank him for allowing me to, and I always find satisfaction in pleasing him. I understood the OP to mean someone who complies begrudingly, or who tries to get out of complying altogether. Perhaps I misunderstood. Edited to recognize the OP clarified as I was typing this.

AquaticSub -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 6:12:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dogobedience Happy to comply, meaning more correctly, to do it even if you do not want to. Just so we are clear - it doesn't matter if she is happy to do it as long as she does it?

jasmine2008 -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 6:12:51 PM)
hey i desire that life style and do not playgames i am looking for this and want it ok so if anyone is intersted check out my profile and we can go from threre

sexyred1 -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 6:12:59 PM)
As I see it, some people actually have obligations in life, like work or family that take priority over following every order. Unless of course you are wealthy and can support your harem of slaves, then all is good and 24/7/365 can happen, if you hypnotize all of them into never being in a bad mood, having PMS issues or disagreeing with you. Otherwise I see no problem for you whatsoever.

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 6:14:05 PM)
being a doormat is pointless.. a person needs to be loved, cherished and adored and not treated as property but as a PERSON. so guess im not twue either....

Elegant -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 6:18:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub In all sincerity, if you aren't "real" I don't think I've got a prayer. [:)] I'm not real....I'm Memorex! (and showing my age with that tv ad comment)

MistressVnus -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 6:28:17 PM)
quote: I need more Me too. I need to be able to "touch" my slave at any given inspiration. Sometimes for different reasons. Emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually, kinkily, corporally, psychologically. As well as indulge "myself" for my own satisfaction, at times. I've had it before. It's that constant state of "top space" that calls. Not necessarily to be "playing" all the time. But to keep walking on that "edge''of adrenalines, phermones, dopamines.....feeding the monster, so to speak. To be able to be the ferryman on that special "journey" down the river, or across the bay, or even ocean . There are just some journeys that take more time and constant presence in able to embarq on...... I see the Domant/Master/Mistress as the journeymaker, travel planner. And, often, after becoming a world traveler, that w/e cruise just doesn't cut it anymore. (That was an analagy). This doesn't mean one can't work outside the home, or have family obligations, or PMS, or just a bad day. It just means being there, available, for whenever the mood strikes. Just like some "crave" to serve in this manner, some "crave" to lead the journey in this manner. And, I'm one of those "somes".

christine1 -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 6:41:13 PM)
yes i eventually seek a 24/7/365, but on my terms meshing with his....who knows if and when that will happen, but i wont' be property to anyone. i'm not dissing anyone's lifestyle, i'm saying what works for me and my kinks and needs and wants. yes i want the all day, every day of the year thing with the dominant who's needs and desires fit with mine...it is different for everyone. i have a personality and an opinion and a stupid sense of humor that i need to be able to express to whoever i end up with. i want to worship him...i want to be able to express myself to him and have fun with him and laugh and cry and love and feel loved...that is what i want 24/7/365.

Level -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 6:49:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: christine1 yes i eventually seek a 24/7/365, but on my terms meshing with his....who knows if and when that will happen, but i wont' be property to anyone. i'm not dissing anyone's lifestyle, i'm saying what works for me and my kinks and needs and wants. yes i want the all day, every day of the year thing with the dominant who's needs and desires fit with mine...it is different for everyone. i have a personality and an opinion and a stupid sense of humor that i need to be able to express to whoever i end up with. i want to worship him...i want to be able to express myself to him and have fun with him and laugh and cry and love and feel loved...that is what i want 24/7/365. Nicely said, little zilla.

PsyVamp -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 6:51:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 As I see it, some people actually have obligations in life, like work or family that take priority over following every order. Unless of course you are wealthy and can support your harem of slaves, then all is good and 24/7/365 can happen, if you hypnotize all of them into never being in a bad mood, having PMS issues or disagreeing with you. Otherwise I see no problem for you whatsoever. LOL! sexyred1, I thought this was rather funny as I was looking at the OP's post but through my own eyes. If a slave of mine had PMS, he would have much of a problem. ;) And I'd like to see one disagree with me when I have PMS... To the OP.: I have a live in pet 24/7/365. He isn't a slave though, he is my submissive playmate and there is a big difference. I am looking to add a slave to the mix, as soon as it is logistically possible on my end. LJ

AquaticSub -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 7:06:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Elegant quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub In all sincerity, if you aren't "real" I don't think I've got a prayer. [:)] I'm not real....I'm Memorex! (and showing my age with that tv ad comment) It's ok. I always say that I'm not real, I'm made of butterscotch candy. But I suspect Splendia was used...

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? (1/19/2008 7:07:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: Elegant quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub In all sincerity, if you aren't "real" I don't think I've got a prayer. [:)] I'm not real....I'm Memorex! (and showing my age with that tv ad comment) It's ok. I always say that I'm not real, I'm made of butterscotch candy. But I suspect Splendia was used... Im not real...but my bewbies are! [:D]

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