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laurell3 -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 11:23:59 PM)
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ORIGINAL: CuriousLord
Thanks; I really appreciate it.
I hope people come to stop looking down on eachother for either being more promicuous or less and just come to accept that we all like different things. Sometimes in threads like this, it begins to feel like everyone's against people who don't have the same perferences as them.. so when someone posts about acceptance and mutual understanding, it's pretty cool.
For those of you that didn't suffer through the whole abortion debate, I think possibly it might shed some light on CL's way of presenting things. He's a bit odd in his presentation, however, if you actually talk to the guy I think you will find he's not actually attemtping to be rude, but he is clearly judgmental. Some of us are maybe just a bit more well-reasoned as to why we hold certain beliefs.
I don't actually believe that CL is really saying he detests or thinks badly of people that have been promiscious. I think he is saying that is not his preference in a relationship with him. I don't think anyone here is going to change that point of view. Should he look at the reasons for the behavior in my opinion? Yes, I think I made that point many pages ago. He obviously doesn't agree. He's not attempting to be hurtful, he's merely idealistic and young. I can accept that his personal preferences are his. I don't believe he's not sympathetic or is unkind to people that have experienced trauma. Quite the contrary actually.
CL I'm not sure how you are getting yourself into this mess again, but you really aren't portraying yourself well here. People are not formulas, shit happens in life and we deal with it the best we can. The image you are presenting here is that you believe if x happens regardless of why then that person is wrong. You're not presenting it as they are wrong for me (although I sense many here would not accept that either, which I find odd), but wrong period. I don't think that's what you mean to say is it?
As someone mentioned it many pages ago, I did in fact get therapy and quite a bit of it and continue to on a prn basis. But this thread isn't about me, sharing my history was only a way of challenging other's beliefs. I'm fine with who I am and who I sleep with. I don't need someone else to say it's ok nor do I experience pain when someone I don't know doesn't understand me.
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