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Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 4:21:35 PM   
Obedient1nPA


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On the flip side of the self esteem issue is the that the open sexual atmosphere of the BDSM community provides a venue to express ourselves physically and sexually that large women never really had before. Thin women have always been able to dress sexily and scantily on any public beach and receive lots of positive strokes, but these activities are ones that plus-sized women – for the most part – has been left out of. Not only do most fat women avoid the beach, but we would laughed off the beach if we paraded around like we do at a BDSM event. In addition, I have heard about some research that states that plus-sized women have a higher sex-drive due to hormonal differences (smiles) This could cause women who are more sexually active – broadly speaking – to become more active in a public BDSM community such as play parties.


So the news about the BDSM scene and us beautiful big babes is great for one and not so good for another. What is the other to do? Well, I do observe them dating a lot more younger women (who are also slim) so that may be one response. I think that at some point   we can change our ingrained attitudes about our attraction to different body types, What is important here is to allow this topic to be recognized and discussed openly. Dialogue is always a good thing because it opens up lines of conversation and communication. So if you want to talk to me about size issues – just ask the question and I'll see about answering. And if you've never been with a plus-sized gal, well I guess if you're over 40, this might be the time to start broadening your horizons. After all… Big Girls ROCK!


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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 4:32:52 PM   
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And if you've never been with a plus-sized gal, well I guess if you're over 40, this might be the time to start broadening your horizons. After all… Big Girls ROCK!


Not really ready to broaden my horizons that much ..... sorry...  I'm straight

maybe this post was  meant to be under Questions for Master rather than Subs????


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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 5:30:16 PM   
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everyone rocks no matter the size and/or shape


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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 5:32:43 PM   
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Or is the OP just trying to advertise?

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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 5:35:47 PM   
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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 5:36:05 PM   
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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 5:37:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

i'll take "there's a full moon on the rise" for $100, Alex


And I 'll take "how many pages till this runs into another stupid flamefestjudgementalcrap" for $ 500, Alex

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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 5:39:31 PM   
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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 5:39:40 PM   
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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 5:40:44 PM   
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Good instincts: waxing gibbous 97% full.


excuse me? what on earth are you talking about?

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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 5:47:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: tigerstyle

Good instincts: waxing gibbous 97% full.


excuse me? what on earth are you talking about?


The moon. It's almost full.

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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 5:47:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Obedient1nPA

 
 
On the flip side of the self esteem issue is the that the open sexual atmosphere of the BDSM community provides a venue to express ourselves physically and sexually that large women never really had before. Thin women have always been able to dress sexily and scantily on any public beach and receive lots of positive strokes, but these activities are ones that plus-sized women – for the most part – has been left out of. Not only do most fat women avoid the beach, but we would laughed off the beach if we paraded around like we do at a BDSM event. In addition, I have heard about some research that states that plus-sized women have a higher sex-drive due to hormonal differences (smiles) This could cause women who are more sexually active – broadly speaking – to become more active in a public BDSM community such as play parties.


So the news about the BDSM scene and us beautiful big babes is great for one and not so good for another. What is the other to do? Well, I do observe them dating a lot more younger women (who are also slim) so that may be one response. I think that at some point   we can change our ingrained attitudes about our attraction to different body types, What is important here is to allow this topic to be recognized and discussed openly. Dialogue is always a good thing because it opens up lines of conversation and communication. So if you want to talk to me about size issues – just ask the question and I'll see about answering. And if you've never been with a plus-sized gal, well I guess if you're over 40, this might be the time to start broadening your horizons. After all… Big Girls ROCK!



Frankly, I'm over 40 and I have no intentions of broadening my horizons.  I like men, I like my men with some meat on their bones plain and simple. What it all boils down to is different people are attracted to other different people of all shapes/sizews/colors. It is what the person has to offer inside that should be more important than their body sixe.



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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 5:48:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tigerstyle

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: tigerstyle

Good instincts: waxing gibbous 97% full.


excuse me? what on earth are you talking about?


The moon. It's almost full.



Sorry. I am not thinking clearly. I just got back from a really seriously upsetting movie and my brain is still engaged in that.

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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 5:54:02 PM   
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I have heard about some research that states that plus-sized women have a higher sex-drive due to hormonal differences (smiles) This could cause women who are more sexually active – broadly speaking – to become more active in a public BDSM community such as play parties.


I have to ask about this research. It was not my personal experience when I was plus-sized. At one point I was pushing 220, and probably needed about a size 18.  I am now comfortably in a size 10, and at the rate I am going, I will be in a size 8 before too much longer. I have been reaching my sexual peak as I lost the weight. For me being fit helped my sex drive, others mileage may vary.

I think it is wonderful for people of any size to enjoy their body and themselves just the way they are.

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And if you've never been with a plus-sized gal, well I guess if you're over 40, this might be the time to start broadening your horizons.After all… Big Girls ROCK!


So do skinny ones, firm ones, fat ones, bald ones, muscular ones, short ones and tall ones. Don't all women rock? Why not expand your horizons into a different ethnic group, or a different religion.. or in any other way? Why make it all about the size?

There are many beautiful women that are not what the society finds the "norm" for beauty... there is a place for all. I think threads like these eventually place pride on a physical attribute, and while I can understand the emotion of being passed up because one is overweight, at the same time isn't it going overboard the other direction to laude being plus-sized? The inner stuff is so much more important in my mind. I lost weight and got fit because of me, not because society thought it was more beautiful. I wanted to feel good. I didn't feel  good physically. 

You haven't put down the thin women, but if this thread holds true to form from the others I have seen, the denigrating comments leveled at thin women are soon to come. And no one will make notice of it because it is somehow ok to put down a "skinny bag o bones" than it is to put down someone for being fat... and both are wrong in my mind

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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 5:57:09 PM   
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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 7:11:04 PM   
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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 7:15:13 PM   
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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 7:15:50 PM   
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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 7:32:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't think it is reasonable to ask people to change their innate dating and/or sexual preferences.   If a guy likes thin women he likes thin women and there's nothing wrong with that.

I've also found men under 40 are more likely to be attracted to a variety of different body types, but then I'm a bit of a cougar and I don't think I've actually been out with a guy who was 40.

And I'm way more likely to parade around in a bathing suit at a beach than I am nekkid at a BDSM event. 



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RE: Fat Girls Gone Wild! - 1/20/2008 7:38:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		i'll take $100 on full moon madness (and I am big girl to start with) but can i also steal breatheasone's post word for word...

"I'm a woman...I have boobies and a vagina..... Nobody seems to care how much they weigh."

I am convinced that somewhere someone has decided to wage a campaign for big girls without actually asking the real big girls if they want to take part, its like being hijacked.



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