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Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 12:31:53 AM

jaycub

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When and where does someone as a submissive post about a dangerous Dominant? i had One whom i've recently left and figure they might be a very dangerous person and want to advise others to possible danger.

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 12:32:55 AM

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Black lists are not allowed here.

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 12:41:22 AM

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i understand, but the situation i was drug into, i would be so afraid to see someone else get dragged into the same situation. thats all. thank You so much for letting me know about no black listing.

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 1:23:47 AM

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I can suggest telling people to send you a collarme email if they want to know who it is. You may even be able to say what state and city it is in to narrow it down a bit for people that might inquire.

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 1:33:53 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: jaycub

When and where does someone as a submissive post about a dangerous Dominant? i had One whom i've recently left and figure they might be a very dangerous person and want to advise others to possible danger.

Another thing could be, to tell in here what happend, and how it happend without any namecalling, and what you find afterwards red flags which should have warned you, in order to give other subs, and newbies an insight how stuff like that can happen.
It happends to All of us, Dom/mes and subs, so it's nothing new, but good to read how it works.
So they can learn from you.

B safe jaycub!!

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 4:27:34 AM

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The police?
( I saw "drug" or is that a typo??)

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 5:10:52 AM

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I'm betting "dragged" not "drug" was meant. At least I hope so!

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 6:28:08 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: jaycub
When and where does someone as a submissive post about a dangerous Dominant? i had One whom i've recently left and figure they might be a very dangerous person and want to advise others to possible danger.

There are two sides to every story. Sometimes there are three sides: each participant's version and the truth. For that reason I personally wouldn't pay too much credence to any black list.

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 6:30:23 AM

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You can tell me, can't believe you were drugged into it.

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 8:31:23 AM

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Not going to work,never has,never will.

This info can only be passed from friend to friend,in private,off list.Little good that`ll do.

You`re on your own.Be careful.

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 9:01:19 AM

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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

I can suggest telling people to send you a collarme email if they want to know who it is. You may even be able to say what state and city it is in to narrow it down a bit for people that might inquire.

That would still be against the TOS. I have seen the mod state unequivocably that the board may not be used to promote a private blacklist, or to encourage others to email about such a list...

For the OP, in case you missed it when you hit the message boards

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1163969/tm.htm

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 9:02:49 AM

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Can you not see the problem with blacklisting? jaycub, I could start randomly emailing people and saying you are dangerous. Would you like that?

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 9:04:11 AM

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Define "dangerous."

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 9:04:23 AM

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I want you to do me in blue highlighter, I am dangerous and look good in blue.

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 9:12:28 AM

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Dangerous in the sense that jaycub is talking about. I'm just trying to drive home a point that should be obvious.

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 9:14:24 AM

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quote:

I want you to do me in blue highlighter

Ron is always about the "do me".

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 9:18:54 AM

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That's the danger of it, in a nutshell.

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 9:23:23 AM

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In theory a "Dangerous do not play with" list would be helpful and wonderful, but there is no way that it would be abuse free. There is no way to police it and keep out names being listed out of spite or vindictiveness. As others have said "define dangerous" . What I may consider dangerous others may thrive with. It is a shame it is this way .. but this is one of the no win times.

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 9:24:46 AM

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imagining Ron with a blue sharpie in his butt

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 9:40:35 AM

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without naming any names, or telling where this person lives or anything like that, why don't you tell us what happened?

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