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Chastity for female sub/slaves - 8/30/2005 4:58:55 PM

sweetpettjenny

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I was wondering ...
I myself have the starting of a chastity peircing (hood and labias pierced). I , in my former D/s marriage was made to where a chastity belt .. I actually enjoyed the feeling that he was in control of every aspect of my body. How do you Masters/Doms feel about these for females. I find mostly male slaves tend to be in chastity.
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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 8/30/2005 5:38:34 PM

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mmmmm I think it can an enjoyable way to bring about feeling of sexual control... My biggest worry would loosing the damn key!

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 8/30/2005 5:52:17 PM

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i think this is a great idea. i have heard of Doms instructing their subs to not masturbate and although the idea of this thrills me it unfortunately thrills me in a way that makes me want to masturbate. How would one suggest to their Dom that a chastity belt or chastity piercings might be in order w/o seeming to top from the bottom?
Great post sweetpettjenny!

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 8/30/2005 6:11:14 PM

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I have seen chastity belts for women. My question is how long can they wear them? I mean I'd love to have my sub where it all day till I got home or maybe longer..this may sound dumb but can they urinate with one on? Maybe I should make a this a thread instead..

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 8/30/2005 6:25:02 PM

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actually I think your questions are rather important and preceptive. I don't have any experience with use of a chasity belt so I would like to see answer to those questions as well.

Both my girls are orgasmed controlled. Neither has orgasms or mastrubates without permission. I very much enjoy this aspect of the sexual control I have on them. greenie - as far as approaching your Dominant. I would say the simple thing it to simply ask him. My girls do the following

My Lord... May I share an opinion.. My Lord.

My Lord... I would like to experience.........

or

My Lord... May I ask a question.. My Lord.

My Lord May I experience .........

that is how my girls would approach me... you need to consider how your Dominant would expect you to express your opinion or ask questions or give information.

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 8/30/2005 7:14:54 PM

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Hmmmm well. Master loves chastity. He's actually planning one of two things or both. He's planning on having my clit pierced, eventually with a lock going THROUGH it, working its way into a chastity piercing. Aaaaaaaah yes, and he plans on having custom built chastity belt made.

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 8/30/2005 7:28:33 PM

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It is an interesting subject. I am curious as to how women use the bathroom for their bodily functions while in a chastity belt.

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 8/30/2005 8:47:24 PM

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Most doms WANT to use the pussy and ass themselves, so blocking access isn't good for their interests.

The Owner loves that I'm an active slut and encourages it, even if he never uses my pussy and ass. He finds it an admirable thing and to supress it wouldn't really do much for him and definitely not do anything positive for me.

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 8/30/2005 8:50:24 PM

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quote:

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It is an interesting subject. I am curious as to how women use the bathroom for their bodily functions while in a chastity belt.

Most have slits that allow fluids but not enough for stimulation.

Chastity belts won't work for women who orgasm through non physical means of course, though it still will prevent sexual contact, and as long as they are obedience you don't NEED a belt or lock, it's just an intense bondage experience.

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 8/31/2005 2:36:09 AM

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There are stainless lightweight ones with a built in slit to pee through

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It is an interesting subject. I am curious as to how women use the bathroom for their bodily functions while in a chastity belt.

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 8/31/2005 4:56:30 AM

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The chastity belts I have seen or have pictures of have openings to allow urination etc andddddddd shredder teeth which allow male penetration but will shred the penis upon removal (sort of makes the old in/out bonking a tad painful and bloody doesn’t it?) I’m in the process of assembling the bits n pieces to make one for a friend’s trik and will have any in my collar wear one at all times unless I remove it..

Keys…. You guys mean that you don’t have a key chain about you neck for collar locks, restraints etc……..

Talking about which, here is a true yarn which happened to an ex GF of mine 9 years ago. I was called out urgently to head up the coast to a yachting function where an armed dog handler was needed. So off I headed with Rotty, shot gun and H&K 9mm semi auto pistol. Cuffs on belt and spare set left home without keys…. Ok you got the picture. GF laying nude on the bed wanted to play and cuffed herself to the bed … NO KEYS.. 3 days later she managed to get her mobile phone finally and rang a female copper who we played with regularly, to come and uncuff her…….

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 8/31/2005 7:31:33 AM

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quote:

Talking about which, here is a true yarn which happened to an ex GF of mine 9 years ago. I was called out urgently to head up the coast to a yachting function where an armed dog handler was needed. So off I headed with Rotty, shot gun and H&K 9mm semi auto pistol. Cuffs on belt and spare set left home without keys…. Ok you got the picture. GF laying nude on the bed wanted to play and cuffed herself to the bed … NO KEYS.. 3 days later she managed to get her mobile phone finally and rang a female copper who we played with regularly, to come and uncuff her…….

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 8/31/2005 8:34:41 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pinkpleasures
Recommends "Gordon's Game" by Stephen King as a great horror story based on bondage.>

pinkpleasures

The title is "Gerald's Game"

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 8/31/2005 10:16:27 AM

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We both think chastity belts are a major turn on. Just don't know if I could stand it though.

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 8/31/2005 4:41:26 PM

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My piercings actually migrated out all i had left was my nipples(because my last Master changed them to titanium) and one labia. Last week at the club A Master and his pet (both are members on this site) , who im friends with repierced the labias and hood . It was a great time all my closest D/s friends there to hold my hands and legs (and tease me of course) . Im glad to have a tight circle of friends.

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 9/1/2005 3:00:13 AM

iamMasters

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Take a look at the Tollyboy website (sorry don't have a link), interesting devices with issues covering body functions covered.

Master keeps threatening to measure me up for one of these, but as I already have my hood and inner labia pierced I think I would prefere to get the outer labia done as well and use a padlock, but it's up to him

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 9/1/2005 3:25:01 AM

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The idea of physical chastity devices doesn't do much for me....

She knows the rules but if I want the added security of removing temptation from her, I just tie her hands securely behind.... And it looks so much sexier to me than any hardware could. Plus I hate piercings, too! lol

Focus50.

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 9/1/2005 5:38:39 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Focus50

The idea of physical chastity devices doesn't do much for me....

She knows the rules but if I want the added security of removing temptation from her, I just tie her hands securely behind.... And it looks so much sexier to me than any hardware could. Plus I hate piercings, too! lol

Focus50.

*sparkles*
Tying someone's hands behind their back doesn't prevent masturbation... at least with a female..... it just prevents a girl from using her hands to masturbate...........

She could still straddle the arm of the sofa and hump it... or a corner of a table.. or a pillow.. or stuffed animal... or bunched up blankets.... and rub-rub-rub.... for some clit stimulation........ or.. she could pick up a vibrator or dildo behind her back.. really carefully and set it on a chair ~ if it had a proper base... and she could work it inside her with enough determination......... ~ or if it's a vibrator she could just turn it on... and then place it on the pillow and straddle the pillow and vibrator and rub against the firmness of the vibrator trapped between her thighs and the pillow.............

all sorts of lovely things..... ^_^ ...not that your submissive would do something like that....... but she could....

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 9/1/2005 7:16:23 AM

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Miss doesn't climax without my permission, although I allow her to touch herself as she so desires-- indeed, the interplay between this allowance and this restriction is part of the fun. Both of us enjoy the element of control involved in this rule, but I don't know that a physical restraint would add much to my experience. I find the psychological element more intriguing. Miss could bring herself to orgasm; her hands are free, and her sex isn't covered; still, she knows full well that it would be disobedient of her to do so. It becomes an internal struggle for her, especially when she's aroused, and I enjoy seeing her struggle in these subtle ways. Sometimes she deliberately excites herself just for this purpose.

That isn't to say that I don't see the appeal of the helplessness involved in a chastity device. Just my personal experience.

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RE: Chastity for female sub/slaves - 9/1/2005 4:38:15 PM

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its not about trust...its about giving up complete control for me

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