TheLookingGirl
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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet
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ORIGINAL: TheLookingGirl
Ma'am I understand, as I even say Ma'am when addressing people (has NOTHING to do with bdsm...just respect). And (sorry I'm not quoteing everyone here) there are quite a few good points being made that with all the hissy fits that get thrown if you DON'T address a dominant as mistress, I'm sure it is confusing for a sub. But AAkasha makes the best point, why risk insulting the resonable person? I don't look for submissive's anyway, so its a waste of time for them to message me to begin with. It shows they took no time to even GLANCE at my profile.
Well...maybe at the picture...and the word Dominant...but thats all.
Well TheLookingGirl, I suppose for me, here, in this place, during this thread,
it comes down to who I find to be a reasonable person or not. If we are aware
that some come with innocent intention, unaware of a perceived risk, let us not
simply condemn with ignorant taunts and judgements all puffed and proud. Let
us educate those whom we can, as we remember that many will come in the
name of submission, yet submissive is the last thing they will ever be.
Yes, it is somewhat burdensome I suppose, to find those little mails which
come with no foresight or parallels to our own wants, needs and desires.
Lord knows one could weave a scarf to encompass the world with the
threads created about such. I venture to say that they will continue as long
as there is breath in the voices which speak here.
I must admit though, when such graces my mailbox, I take full advantage of
the opportunity for entertainment. It is a most wonderful world for a playful
pet, most wonderful indeed. Though i do digress, this was about calling one
Mistress without the understanding, cause, reason, or permission to do such.
And what better place to discuss I might add, than here in Ask A Mistress.
Hope you find what you're looking for.
chia* (the pet)
Nicely put. (Truely, I enjoyed reading it just for the simple fact it was well written). I'm not saying they need to address my needs...I don't 'require' anything when being messaged...I have nothing posted about pictures, emails, messenger names, first borns...any of that. I love getting random messages from people. My problem comes in when this person contactes ME with a message that they think portrays their desire for them to serve me...when its clearly the other way around. When you meet someone in a real life situation...do you saunter on up to them (in your very chia like way =) ) and say "Mistress....command me!" (Like after Kahlan uses her confessors power ....for those of you who are not Terry Goodkind fans...become one?). I don't think so. These messages are not genuine and are often pre-written out of laziness.
I don't ask that you know exactly what I want...because I surely don't. But take the whole two seconds to look at my profile and get a feel for who I am before sending me YOUR wants. Because thats all these messages truely are.
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The strongest & most effective force in assuring the long-term maintenance of power is not violence in all the forms deployed by the dominant to control the dominated,but consent in all the forms in which the dominated acquiesce in their own domination.
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