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RE: C h o k i n g.....enhancement? - 1/24/2008 3:16:28 AM

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Does your "other" choke you on occasions, or do you do the choking? What do you think about this kind of play? Is it for you or not? If so, please tell me how you do enjoy it... if not, why you don't.

Such a wonderful place to learn about others.

I've seen a documentary about choking and Bdsm, and how the majority of people have no clue how dangerous it is.

How people ended up in jail, because they end up killing the person they we're playing with...

How incredible sad.

The most shocking thing I learned, from that documentary, was that everytime you choke a person, you kill a little something in their brain, and when you keep on doing that over and over.. you'll pay for the consequences one day..

So better know what you're doing out there!

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RE: C h o k i n g.....enhancement? - 1/24/2008 9:52:06 AM

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Thanks for all your thoughts on the subject, and to the warnings that I'm sure we all need reminded of.

For me... I don't think I'd enjoy it to the point of passing out. Just the hand around the neck tightly for a moment and his showing his control over me is enough. It's the feeling of being overtaken and that he could do more if he wished too, but doesn't. For me... again, it's the primal thing.

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RE: C h o k i n g.....enhancement? - 1/24/2008 11:01:01 AM

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ORIGINAL: geishagurl

Does your "other" choke you on occasions, or do you do the choking? What do you think about this kind of play? Is it for you or not? If so, please tell me how you do enjoy it... if not, why you don't.

Such a wonderful place to learn about others.

My owner chokes me - personally we find it very hot and very connecting. Its like the controls me down the air that I breathe - and for some reason anytime he controls my air flow around my neck its just that much better (hands, belt, noose, etc). I typically go quiet and passive like a dumb lamb.

I can't imagine doing choking with anyone else but him, and it took a long time before we started doing it, but it is one of those staples of what we do.

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RE: C h o k i n g.....enhancement? - 1/24/2008 11:44:05 AM

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Has anybody here actually been choked to the point that they passed out?

My girl and I really enjoy it. Wrapping my hands around her throat during sex, or closing my hands around her mouth and nose, occasionally spreading my fingers to let her breathe, and so on.

But I've never done it for long enough to cause her to pass out, due to safety concerns. I mean, I know enough to resume the flow of air once she's out, but I've read enough scary literature (such as Jay Wiseman's essay) to keep me from doing it at all. Frankly, I rarely even put on enough pressure that it's that difficult for her to breathe, it's mainly the pressure on her neck that she enjoys and it's all I need.

So has anyone else actually been rendered unconscious? And, if so, for how long and what did you think?

I have. It's the only way that it has ever been done on me. Hands around the throat to the point that I black out...I start to swim back into consciousness just long enough to see the smile of intent on his face as he does it again.

It's not so much the feeling of blacking out that excites me; it's the knowing that he could have killed me if he wanted to that gave me the thrill.

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RE: C h o k i n g.....enhancement? - 1/24/2008 12:31:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze

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ORIGINAL: geishagurl
Does your "other" choke you on occasions, or do you do the choking? What do you think about this kind of play? Is it for you or not? If so, please tell me how you do enjoy it... if not, why you don't.

Such a wonderful place to learn about others.

I've seen a documentary about choking and Bdsm, and how the majority of people have no clue how dangerous it is.

How people ended up in jail, because they end up killing the person they we're playing with...

How incredible sad.

The most shocking thing I learned, from that documentary, was that everytime you choke a person, you kill a little something in their brain, and when you keep on doing that over and over.. you'll pay for the consequences one day..

So better know what you're doing out there!

B safe

GoddezzT`

i agree i think it's best not to be watching documentaries whilst choking someone.....

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RE: C h o k i n g.....enhancement? - 1/24/2008 12:41:42 PM

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I love breath play! All those mentioned I think... using hands and kisses to keep the mouth closed and also anything around my neck gets me going... The feeling of control I get when I'm doing it or it's being done to me is exquisite

I also like having my girl chained up and blindfolded and then smoking a cigarette and blowing it into her mouth then forcing her to hold it for a few seconds... similar effect with but with a little added dizziness... obviously ONLY a few seconds though! Also good if she's been hanging out for a cigarette and she can smell it but I can choose not to give her any... just sit back, smoke it and look at her lying there all helpless and wanting... mmm...

smoking is my definite limit.....anyone who has got light social smoker or smoker on their profile is an absolute no go for me.....the smell of it in a room or on someone's clothing i just think is absolutely vile and whilst i have read the posts on this thread about Choking Games being dangerous then in my personal opinion i agree that they can be acutely so, however i think the legal habit of sucking cigarette by-products into the lungs (called smoking) is chronically and insidiously even more dangerous......

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RE: C h o k i n g.....enhancement? - 1/24/2008 12:59:17 PM

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LOVE breath play. Prefer choking. No bags please.

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