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Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 10:04:31 AM   
blackpearl81


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From: Home of the Yankees
Status: offline 		Has any one ever encountered this? You get a response from your profile with something similar to this:

"Greetings...send more pictures slave and tell Mistress more about yerself..I am upstate NY"

(name of respondant withheld for privacy)

I'm just asking because this just strikes me as a VERY unusual way to introduce yourself to a prospective partner/sub/slave.. any idea how to handle this? aside from blocking? I mean. I *WOULD* like to find out more.. as thats the only way im going to figure out if shes what im looking for.. I just think it could have been toned down just a *tad*



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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 10:14:50 AM   
JohnWarren


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quote:

ORIGINAL: blackpearl81

Has any one ever encountered this? You get a response from your profile with something similar to this:

"Greetings...send more pictures slave and tell Mistress more about yerself..I am upstate NY"

(name of respondant withheld for privacy)

I'm just asking because this just strikes me as a VERY unusual way to introduce yourself to a prospective partner/sub/slave.. any idea how to handle this? aside from blocking? I mean. I *WOULD* like to find out more.. as thats the only way im going to figure out if shes what im looking for.. I just think it could have been toned down just a *tad*


My automatic response to a rude email like that one is "It's nice to have fantasies" and hit the [Send} key


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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 10:27:58 AM   
blackpearl81


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From: Home of the Yankees
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Yeah.. i could TOTTALLY understand that..ill just have to see what happens *eyeroll*



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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 10:30:19 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline 		Whoa! That was quite the intro email! I am right in line with John on this one, the delete key works well!

You do have a good profile, btw, but that email you got has so many of the hallmarks of the bad emails we dominants get, in reverse.

There are several threads on emails, so I won't launch into a rant here---you can use the search function to find TONS, by me and others.

Use manners as your guide---if the email is something that you would accept if someone said it to your face, then you have something to go after. :)

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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 11:16:20 AM   
NakedOnMyChain


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From: Indiana
Status: offline 		I get several of those a day. I'm automatically turned off by someone calling me their slave when I've never met them before. I think John's response is perfect. hehehe <caches that one for later> Or, if you are interested in learning about them, request that they send you more information first.

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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 11:43:28 AM   
KatyLied


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Joined: 2/24/2005
From: Pennsylvania
Status: offline 		Some of my favorites close like this:

Respond quickly and with respect,
<insert sir or master here> name


Just because you call yourself "Sir" or "Master" does not mean that you are that to me. So don't expect me to bestow that upon you.

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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 12:11:47 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		I get them all the time, had two emails from couples looking for sex slaves today, so if anyone's interested, I can send you over.

The polite responses are to ignore them or just reply with a "no thanks."

Anything else borders on losing your own good manners, but occasional random snarkiness is an ok withdrawal from the Karma account.

< Message edited by EmeraldSlave2 -- 8/31/2005 12:13:15 PM >

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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 12:29:13 PM   
Kasia


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From: The Coast of Adria
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

My automatic response to a rude email like that one is "It's nice to have fantasies" and hit the [Send} key


May I please borrow that one?

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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 12:30:40 PM   
JohnWarren


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kasia


quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

My automatic response to a rude email like that one is "It's nice to have fantasies" and hit the [Send} key


May I please borrow that one?


Feel free to file the serial numbers off and claim it as your own

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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 1:07:02 PM   
KatyLied


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quote:

random snarkiness


I like. I like a lot.

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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 1:11:21 PM   
Kasia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

Feel free to file the serial numbers off and claim it as your own

Oh thank you so much, but I would never do that, I am very strict about copyrights always.

I will just put "with the courtesy of JohnWarren" in small letters underneath...... will probably get them even more confused and unsound and scared, but wtf I like them to be that way anyway


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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 2:02:49 PM   
JohnWarren


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kasia


quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

Feel free to file the serial numbers off and claim it as your own

Oh thank you so much, but I would never do that, I am very strict about copyrights always.

I will just put "with the courtesy of JohnWarren" in small letters underneath...... will probably get them even more confused and unsound and scared, but wtf I like them to be that way anyway


There is nothing like the terror of thinking the person you are corresponding with knows the joke and you don't.

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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 2:14:59 PM   
smilezz


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I get that from some people too. I really do try and be polite and thank them for the e-mail, but not interested. On my ohhhhhhh, lets say...not so polite days? i may reply: Ohhh really? how does it feel to want? <smirks>

~smilezz~


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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 2:29:15 PM   
Kasia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

There is nothing like the terror of thinking the person you are corresponding with knows the joke and you don't.

You impress me.
Actually I consider getting people uneasy being one of the basic rules of manipulating them.

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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 3:13:03 PM   
JohnWarren


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kasia


quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

There is nothing like the terror of thinking the person you are corresponding with knows the joke and you don't.

You impress me.
Actually I consider getting people uneasy being one of the basic rules of manipulating them.


That's why I smile when someone wants to fight.... and the harder they push the wider I smile.


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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 3:14:18 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kasia
Actually I consider getting people uneasy being one of the basic rules of manipulating them.


Well that's ONE way. Another way is to lull them into a sense of false security. Uneasy people tend to be less predictable in the long run. When people feel secure, it can be maintained and used with more grace.

I've always said one of the best types of intelligence is knowing when to act like you know more than you know, when to act like you know less than you know, and when to act which way.

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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 5:34:05 PM   
Euryanx


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Joined: 6/27/2005
From: Los Angeles, CA
Status: offline 		One of my favorite 1st contact emails was:

"Are you in any pornos? Would you like to be?"


But my favorite strange 1-time 1-liner has to be:

"Do you poop big?"

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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 6:36:52 PM   
KnightofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: blackpearl81

Has any one ever encountered this? You get a response from your profile with something similar to this:

"Greetings...send more pictures slave and tell Mistress more about yerself..I am upstate NY"

(name of respondant withheld for privacy)

I'm just asking because this just strikes me as a VERY unusual way to introduce yourself to a prospective partner/sub/slave.. any idea how to handle this? aside from blocking? I mean. I *WOULD* like to find out more.. as thats the only way im going to figure out if shes what im looking for.. I just think it could have been toned down just a *tad*



~BP~

**Of all the things i miss... i miss my mind the most**



LMAO ok this is too funny My girl kyra just had almost the exact same wording from an ummmmm ""Master?"" lol

she sent some flippen response and actually responded to it... mmmm apparently he was testing her for me and she passed the test lol



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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 7:21:36 PM   
ManOwner


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Joined: 4/12/2005
From: Sacramento, California
Status: offline 		I am a domme, 100%, always have been, probably always will be.

One recent evening I received an IM on Yahoo! out of the blue from some luh-hoo-se-herr, and it said...

"I see you are a dom but most likely you started as sub, I was wondering if I could use you as such, of course without your subs knowing about it."

As if.

(I can't remember the exact wording of the message, but this was pretty close to verbatim. My rendition seems more eloquent and intelligent-sounding, though, if you can believe it).

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RE: Unusual "First time emails" - 8/31/2005 8:00:22 PM   
Mylee


Posts: 217
Joined: 6/19/2005
Status: offline 		Even though I am a sub i got a first time that went like this


...Mistress, i long to kneel bhind you and worship your ass....


Now, being that i am a sub...isnt it *I* who should be doing the worshiping? I politily wrote him back stating that my ass wasnt in need of cleaning since i had just showered, but next time i was in need of a bath, i'd let him know..*shrugs* Guess that wasnt so polite...oh well!!

my'lee

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