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ORIGINAL: Sexynmentalinkc

It's just another label.

New, old, fake, wanna-be, "real", twue, snob, elite, newbie....whatever.  Pick your example. Labels suck (sometimes...or most of the time).


- Mr. S

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ORIGINAL: subtee

Compound? Like culty?

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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

dear Maya
i understood what you said and i agree with your experience of collarme. For me it was just a great place to be and i had become disillusioned completely with alt and bondage and informed consent. I look forward to posting here and i love both the hard knocks (wonder why lol) and the support and the differing opinions and probably most of all the humour which on dark days lifts me.

i have actually met some excellent people in real time through collarme and felt that i could be open and expose myself here. Only once thus far have i been 'outted' and had boundaries crossed.

But this is a difficult medium, this cyber posting thing and there are cultural differences too which mean that i cannot be certain i have caught the correct tone or intention within a post.

I can be flip, and arrogant and yet sometimes serious and eloquent....just as in real life. But it is more tempting to be flippant here as there are no real consequences other than to not read the whole of a reply.

i don't care if others see me as experienced or mot. i don't need to prove i am experinced. I believe my body is my channel, my skill, my body is my whip, my cane, my equipment, my ropes, my cage. My body is what He owns and my body ages chronologically just like anyone else's.

However when i say my experience i do not mean i refer to my past. When i say my experience i refer to my NOW. And so it makes no sense whatsoever to say i have had half a decade of experience. It is what i am experiencing right now which is what is most valueable to me and is a marker of what i have learned.

Right now i am coming down from an intense scene. i hurt, and i miss Him and already, from only two days ago, it is too long ago and i want to do that intensity again and then again do it more right now if i could. But you know there's jobs, and house stuff and unmentionablers, and domestic shores and family and writing and cooking and yaddah yaddah....does that also count as experience? because without all of that i wouldn't be holding myself together, body, heart, mind and soul. Even He can't do that.

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ORIGINAL: Kana
I have a tongue like a hedge clipper.

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ORIGINAL: Kana
I am an intellectual elitist.

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I have a tongue like a hedge clipper.

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ORIGINAL: Maya2001


I can understand that not every one want sto share their knowledge or they may , see a poster as coming across as a misguided idiot for a question they put forth,   if you view it as such why not simply ignore the poster  and move on to another post..........  or explain why their views  come across as idiotic if that is the way you feel..... what purpose does berating and insulting, offer that person   if no advice as to why their question or opinion is foolish or is distorted in your opinion ??  Is it simply done to stroke your own ego or is it done for sadistic pleasure?   

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

facts?...ok....Mist says she is rude......you ask what is her goal?....I ask....somewhat sarcastically why she needs one. She replies she doesn't need to explain herself you you. You cop an attitude claiming she is a good example of this thread, the implication being she is a snob , which she admit, and not respectful. I say, she needs to respect and please who SHE decides is worthy, not just anyone who claims to be dom

Jeff

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

facts?...ok....Mist says she is rude......you ask what is her goal?....I ask....somewhat sarcastically why she needs one. She replies she doesn't need to explain herself you you. You cop an attitude claiming she is a good example of this thread, the implication being she is a snob , which she admit, and not respectful. I say, she needs to respect and please who SHE decides is worthy, not just anyone who claims to be dom

Jeff

wow..I think that is most Jefff ever wrote on a post. Irish, he must be a really true dom to come to your rescue (not that you need it, mind you!). [;)]