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daddy/body mod - 1/24/2008 6:52:28 PM   
daddyslilgirl87


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Status: offline 		I was just wondering how subs feel about calling their master (male doms, that is) Daddy??? And also... how do you feel about body modification??

Body modification... This could be piercings, tattoos, branding, etc. This is done to permanently or semi-permanently mark the slave as a symbol of extreme submission. This is normally something either done by or chosen by the dom to mark their ownership of the slave. This is a constant reminder to the slave that they are owned, and a reminder to the dom of His/Her responsiblities and power.

Master and i have recently taken our relationship to a new level. Because of the age difference (He is 17 years older than me) and the way that He has promised to protect, love, discipline, and teach me, i have always thought of h\Him as a father figure. So... one thing led to another, and i now call Him Daddy. He says that i am His princess.  When i am a good girl, and do what im told, He rewards me. But when im bad, and disobey, He punishes me for what ive done. Part of earning my new collar is that i am required to get a piercing... and since i already have my nipples pierced, He has chosen to now pierce something else...  Also, He is going to get my ass tatooed with the words "Daddy's Little Girl", so that i am constantly reminded of how much he loves me, and of who i am.

So... after all that explaining... i guess my question is... how do people feel about age play?? About calling your master "Daddy"??

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RE: body mod - 1/24/2008 6:57:49 PM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		And here I thought this was gonna be about body modification.
Silly me.

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RE: body mod - 1/24/2008 7:03:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well...your subject line has nothing to do with your ending question, but that's okay. :P 

Body mods are really what you make of them.  If you choose a body mod as a symbol of 'extreme submission,' that's cool.  But for a little perspective...someone else around the world is probably doing it just for fun.

As far as age play...I think it can be really fun and even cathartic with the right partner.  I call my Dominant Daddy sometimes, but it's not his primary role in our relationship, if that makes sense.  It's more like an energy that sometimes develops between us.  I would have a hard time maintaining that dynamic with someone so close to me in age.




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RE: daddy - 1/24/2008 7:04:00 PM   
daddyslilgirl87


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RE: daddy - 1/24/2008 7:04:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hey...no fair changing the title of the thread after I've responded. 

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RE: daddy - 1/24/2008 7:30:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		becareful of the piercing.  I had one "down there" and it was evil.  Make sure to do your research, make sure to go to a licensed personel.  Be very very very careful.  Hopefully you've been with the guy long enough... to know you'll be with him for longer?  Make sure to get a tat that if you aren't with him longer, you won't be embarressed about having.

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/24/2008 8:16:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		Of all the piercings I've gotten, the one "down there" is the only one I still have. Do your research though and make sure you know what you want and that your anatomy will accommodate it. Go to a licensed piercer, talk to them and be open to whatever suggestions they have.

Tattoos? I have three. All mostly picked out by me. Would I get a tattoo at Daddy's suggestion? Maybe. You should put a lot more thought into this. Not just what you're getting, but also where you are getting it. Remember that a tattoo will be with you forever; do you want to look in the mirror and see Daddy's Little girl on your ass when you're 65? If you're cool with that, by all means, get the tattoo.

Good luck to you in whatever you decide. Do your homework and don't just walk in to any tattooist/piercer off the street.

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/24/2008 8:22:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		"Age play" is something that, personally, freaks me out a little...i understand it intellectually, and have no issue with anyone else engaging in it...But, it doesn't work for me.

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/24/2008 8:40:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		There are many titles that flow about..Daddy, Sir, Lord, Master..so hence not so shocking...on the body mod thing..humm..I think what the other posters have put forth are excellent suggestions...be careful what is modified, as you will more than likely have to live with it for life wether "Daddy" is in your life or not..so choose "wisely"..Personally if I were tempted to do any body modification at a Dominants desire/request/want.....it would occur when many years and mileage had been developed between us....Tempting

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/24/2008 9:09:36 PM   
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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/25/2008 4:28:42 AM   
batshalom


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Status: offline 		I have no problem calling a Dom whatever he wants to be called, although it may take a little practice. Not all Daddies / little girls are into age play, but I have no problem with age play either. I am one of those people who enjoys body mod for the sake of having it done and seeing it after it's done, so I have no problem with that either.

A problem I do have with body mod is when it's done at the command of a particular person, and the modification has something to do with his name or the relationship itself (I'm thinking of tattoos, specifically). Dynamics don't always last as long as the modification, and the next person who sees it might not be quite as fond of it.

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/25/2008 4:51:20 AM   
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body modification = extreme submission - that's your opinion but once again, not for us

how do i feel about calling Daddy "Daddy" - i love calling Him by that title.  He has been a wonderful father-figure to me over a 1yr and half  now


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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/25/2008 5:33:43 AM   
littlebitxxx


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Status: offline 		Like the others have said, put some serious thought into what you want first.  I had a piercing done "down there" while with ex-Master.  I loved having it done, didn't hurt, healed really fast and he thought my getting the symbol was great.  We broke up, I still have a real cool piercing that I like.  I have a tattoo now that my Man had done on me, bear tracks waaaaay up high in the inside right thigh.  I loved having it done, didn't hurt, healed really fast and he thought my getting his symbol was great.  IF (heaven forbid) we ever break up, I'll still have a real cool tatt that I like.  A definite conversation starter on the beach, I'm thinking.

If your body mod is permanent, just think about it seriously first.  If it is somewhat generic, lasting the rest of your life won't be such a bad thing. 

And no, I don't call my Man "Daddy"....many other things, but not that................

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/25/2008 6:17:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		Calling someone Daddy?  Can't do it....it's an occupational thing....I have seen too many sick things that have occurred between a father and daughter to ever be able to do that.  For some, it works fine, knowing that people do it is fine also, I just can't wrap my head around it.  Boils down to personal preference.

Body mods?  NO WAY!  I'm terrified of needles....to sit and actually get a tattoo is something that I'd have to be HEAVILY, as in unconscious, medicated to have done.  I can't even bring myself to get pierced ears!  And the whole permanence of a tattoo vs. the lack of permanence in a relationship gives me cause to pause also.  My thinking is that if God had wanted me to have piercing, I'd have been born with the holes already there!

Again, I know for a lot of folks, both of the above are acceptable....and I don't have problems with it for them....but for me....all I can do is sit here and shudder! 

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/25/2008 6:53:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: soul2share

Calling someone Daddy?  Can't do it....it's an occupational thing....I have seen too many sick things that have occurred between a father and daughter to ever be able to do that.  For some, it works fine, knowing that people do it is fine also, I just can't wrap my head around it.  Boils down to personal preference.



i wanted to comment on this....

Sir is Daddy.  that's just how it is, i am happy and comfortable with calling him that. 

at the same time, i *am* a survivor of abuse, and my father was one of the people who abused me.  i dont see it as the same though, Daddy loves me and is protective of me, no matter what other things we do.  in my mind it works.

kitten, whose Daddy loves her and would never intentionally harm her

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/25/2008 6:55:34 AM   
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If there ever will be implant tails in the future, I'll be sure to get one. :)

But until then piercings are the only thing I'm currently interested in. Maybe tattoos too.

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/25/2008 7:05:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		i love age play and therefore call Master Daddy when appropriate.  i love being called His 'little girl'. 

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/25/2008 7:08:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		adoracat,

I understand your point, fully.  I do also know that there is a difference between the type of relationship you have, and the one that comes to my mind whenever age play comes out for discussion.  I'm just not able to make the leap.  And I'm really not the type of person to use the term anyway.

I'm not slighting anyone who uses the term at all, just putting my view out there.

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/25/2008 11:29:52 AM   
hisannabelle


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Status: offline 		greetings daddyslilgirl,

there is a huge age gap between us - almost 35 years. however, i think it'd hit too close to home for Him for me to call Him daddy - our relationship just doesn't really have that "daddy/lil girl" feel to it. i personally would like it but i don't think it's His thing. i'm into age play, but He has grown children (older than me) and i think it might just make things weird since i/we have worked so hard to have a "normal" relationship in spite of others' perceptions of our age gap and in spite of the fact that the dynamics are a little different than most because of where we are in our lives.

body mods, however, are (not on Himself, on me). i got two tattoos (mainly for myself, not His idea) when we first got together, and i've gotten two piercings (nipples and vertical hood - hood is easy, it's like getting your ears pierced) since then, a decision we made together. last week i got two more tattoos, one of which was His idea but i mainly got to decide the colors, and one of which was my own personal choice due to some experiences i've had. the one that was His idea that i got last week is on my inner thighs/outer labia, and it was one of the most painful things i've experienced...all of my other tattoos were fairly easy, and my piercings were NOTHING compared to that, LOL. eventually at some point in the next couple years i will be getting a couple more tattoos, one of which will be His mark. i'd also like to get a triangle piercing...whenever i get up the nerve, hehehe.

respectfully,
annabelle.


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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/25/2008 3:52:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		Age play is one of my few hard limits.  I've always looked a lot younger than I actually am, and when I was in college I dated afew guys who were attracted to me primarily because I looked like a well-developed 14 year old.  It was really kind of creepy.  I know how uncomfortable that made me feel, and I don't think of it as kinky, just yucky.

Now, at 28, I look like a college kid, but at least the 20 something's that hit on me think I'm 18 or so ;)

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