Tempestspet
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ragdoll...actually I haven't thought any of you have been rude to me. ..smiles...
I'll try and respond to all that commented on my posts here.....please bear with.
Please don't misunderstand.....I'm not a sappy, sweet lil quiet thing. Master always has nicknamed me his bulldog. And there's a reason for that. I sound extreme, because after having seen the way people behave on here..... and other sites. The rudeness is just absolutely old. To be honest I'm sick of the I'm submissive, hear me roar... jump through all my hoops ad I'll think of behaving for you. I used to think it was just completely serious with these people. Then, probably to save my sanity, I have to believe that some prob. most behave that way, rude...whatever, because being online frees them up to let loose, relax... and be what they can't be in person. Or maybe ..and likely....it's that they ones I speak of have put up with sooooo much on here... it's just hardened, and jaded them. I think the latter is most likely.
My opinions often come out very...well...opinionated, and strong. I tend to have extreme thoughts.... that soften up when put into practice. This is a large part to I used to be a push over, and never spoke up when younger....wanted to, but didn't. Well, I learned how...now I am just refining it. Or maybe I just have a big mouth....
As to the photos, yes....feel free to put out whatever you want. To be able to express yourself, is wonderful. I enjoy looking at them, and without making stupid comments, e-mails and unwanted advances. But when you get some moron who misunderstands.... don't be confused. But do you have to go balls out insulting, or ignoring...and being outraged? No, a thanks but no thanks... or for those type of idiots.... a that wwas completely uncalled for, do not email me again... if they persist...yeahhhhhh let them have it. Though if they aren't looking for trouble, or terribly nosy... they'll just delete it. If this is a cronic problem for some.... I would be totally willing to give up and say you are absolutely right. Ignoring them is the best way to handle it, bocking them would just be a great idea, no reply necessary. But again, I stress.... perhaps I have this rigid view, because I haven't had this problem. I see it in a very cut and dry way. I'm now starting to think, that that's the wrong way of looking at it. It's not so cut and dry, and maybe if I had the same problems some do.... I'd feel at my wits end about it too.
I am not opposed to being proven wrong, I just think/thought that a different point of view, or action would be better.
Maybe this will help, maybe not...but I'll share anyways. I'm a KJ (Karaoke host) and a DJ. I own my own business, I do 3 to 4 nights weekly. So I spend a lot of time in bars, and have had to try and clean up, or prevent girls from making big messes, they think they want...but really don't. This is not a constant berage (I'm sure this is mispelled...sorry) but it happens on occasion. This would also be a leading factor in my being sick of seeing some people put images, and ideas, and behaviors out there and wonder why some idiot is getting the wrong impression. Does this mean the girl is at fault...not really, she has the right to wear and behave how she wishes. To the rape (mentioned as being the girl's fault for her clothing choices)...man this is a loaded cannon....sighs..... this isn't a popluar belief..... but, whatever,No it isn't her fault. It's a violent assault/crime against another. BUT, for example, if a person, girl,.... is wearing a skirt so short, it's a ruffle with a belt, pulled down so long to cover buttcheeks, that the crack of her ass shows, and she's wearing a tiny lil top.... AND hanging all over, flirting with a bunch of guys.... then the rape is STILL NOT ALL HER FAULT. But YES, she does need to acknowledge, that her choise of clothing coupled with her behavior... and often falling down drunk ( Yes, I'm speaking from experience at seeing this crap) yes... she needs to acknowledge that her behavior and state she put herself into.... contributed to the possibility of this happening. NOT that the rape was her fault.... that she gave a really crappy showing of herself, and the wrong people, as will happen, noticed. NOW>>>> the person, sitting in their home, or coming out of the grocery store.,...etc.... that gets raped... TOTALLY not their fault. They did nothing at all to contribute to circumstances.
Basically, there are crappy people out there. It's not our fault they are out there. But they are, and people have a personal responsibilty to themselves, to watch out for that.
That was an extreme. Now there's the woman who has beuatiful breasts, and loves to wear things that compliments that, I am one of them. I'm not surprised, or offended when someone looks at them. It can get old, when they just stare at your chest,m and not your face. I'll make a comment to the effect of...hey there my face is up here, or something with a sarcastic lilt to it. And again, there are crappy people out there, who are just inapropriate. And yes....someone was absolutely correct I think it was Dark Angel... yes it's easier to just ignore some...looks...behaviors... and e-mails than to respond. But if your choice is flying off the handle, or ignoring.... I guess ignoring would be the better choice. Then again... sometimes flying of the hadnle is best, and what's called for.
To the choice of clothing and that. In the lifestyle, yes.... I see a naked woman, or scantily clad woman walking, playing, whatever in a club (lifestyle) or private party. And heck ya, I even look, admire, and point it out to Master. I'm not bi, I'm just not blind to beauty. However, my only problem lies when that woman wants to turn around and b*tch about people looking, staring, accused of making passes.... (this has not happened to me, though I have seen it happen) the only point I had been trying to make about that, was that when you choose to express yourself in a sexual way, (And it's fact that most people see nudity in some, if however small, way as sexual to some extent. ) you will get some level of a sexual response, even if it is just a look or smile. There's also a**holes everywhere, lifestyle or not, that will make silly comments. How you take those, is up to you. I've been told all manner of things..... with everything from thank you, wow... do you think you should have really said that out loud? Those voices are better left in your head don'tcha think?!? to... oh hell no....I know you didn't just say that.
Perhaps, all I have done is make this worse....and made myself look like a b*tch. Well, I'm sorry ...because that's not the case. At least not if I'm given any other reasonable recourse.
I'm just tired of people using attitude, and lack of manners as a crutch, or first reaction. I do not always explain myself, apparently, very clearly and I'm sorry. It just doesn't always come out right.
But in the context that you guys took my answer, by what little was given the first go around. Hopefully I have explained it better now.... without just making it sound worse *lol* . Your comments made alot of sense, and in that respect yes, you are right.
Wow,.... after all that I guess I'd like to please change my opionion, that's it's a case by case thing. ...laughs.... man it took me a long time to say that.
Okey dokey... I still invite your comments and views....gosh maybe I'll learn something new....?
Sincerely,
Tempest's pet
jennifer
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